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If you can't say anything nice then DON'T say any thing at all.....
September 05 2015
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horneycouplewa
9 years ago
Agreed xx
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Twisted_Mister
9 years ago
Blondie - angry, happy, angry according to your recent posts... Hope you're ok. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The perfect bubble...Blondie it's a public forum,you can say what you like,as long as you don't defame anyone..but some people will always have a negative view,some people will have an opinion about absolutely everything..except for me of course😝..some people will attempt to be humorous but lots of people may have a very different sense of what constitutes humour and object to it,some people will take things personally and if you meet a cyber bully here,always ignore them..nothing annoys them more to misquote Oscar Wilde xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
when I'm getting some new lovingI'm usually off with the fairies toowhen I'm not i admit i can be short frustrated and a right prick
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RHP User
9 years ago
Like Freya said this is an open forum, where we all get to say our piece, within the guidelines of RHP of course. I love how another woman said it on a different forum: "You don't get to dictate to people how they must respond. We are not here to hold your hand, sing kumbaya, and give you the answers you want to hear."
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've more than had my share of knockers and agree it's more a jealousy issue than just criticism . I'm here to bounce off like minded people who don't take them self too seriously. Too many show their arrogance by being too political and looking for anything bad in fellow forumite's .. My bad was when I reacted when I should of just leave things alone... These days I enjoy the freshness of those who share my belief in not being too serious and accepting people for the person they are. Sadly ' there are those who still think it's about them ....
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Not much sugar coatings in here. This is the big kids sandpit.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Not much sugar coatings in here. This is the big kids sandpit. explains why it often seems like so many have sand in their.... ;) (But imagine how much less fun it'd be if everyone wore underpants in here)
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RHP User
9 years ago
S.but we do luv them sparkly ones😜xxFreya
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inspirit
9 years ago
Does this mean I have to be nice................REALLY? That's gonna hurt
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Does this mean I have to be nice................REALLY? That's gonna hurt I don't believe that anywhere is has said you HAVE to be nice - it is merely inferred, so you do still have a choice. btw like the new pic you just put up. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
Maybe someone could start a Happy Happy Joy Joy forum, where only fun and cheerful posts are allowed?
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RHP User
9 years ago
As with everything on the internet you can choose to just scroll on by if you don't like something. If you can't handle the many and varied opinions on here, that says more about you than any of the opinionated folk. There are plenty of people on here who feel they have to sugar coat their opinions in order to boost their credibility/rootability with the forum members.
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RHP User
9 years ago
No offence intended of course. I'm just calling it how I see it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not everyone is going to agree with you. So build a bridge and get over it.
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TallBaldSexy
9 years ago
Are a public space for discussion across various topics. No two I individuals are identical thus varied opinions result. Solid robust discussions are very possible. The extent in which any member participates is a matter for them only. As is your choice to participate or not. I'm not many other shall not be sugar coating our opinions and nor should we in a public space solely for discussion.
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TallBaldSexy
9 years ago
Sugar coating our opinions
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sex too? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Insomnian
9 years ago
I'm not really saying anything. I'm typing my opinion.Like assholes, everyone has one, and most of them stink
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not a single mention of "Jay-me" and his comments....I will help you out mate..Point 1) - fckn jealousy?? I have had some nasty comments and mail and shit too mate... but... not a nutsack of jealousy involved.. I got it because I was a prick... and YOU possibly did too..Point 2) - bounce stuff of LIKEMINDED people?Where the fck is the sensible reasoning there?All that happens IS, you end up blowing wind up each others arses... THAT.. "Jay-me" is like a fckn priest doing nothing in a city EXCEPT saying shit at Mass to people who ALREADY believe his shit....He needs to "Get the fck out in the streets, and mix it with people who PROBABLY don't like him.. OTHERWISE..."A man like that will end up going stir-crazy, and try to fck his alterboys"Just saying Jay-me...*shrugs*
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yeah I'm ok. I've got just annoyed that there ass people out there bagging a club & telling BS things about it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
SORRY guys/gals I didn't mean for it to come out the way it did. I didn't mean to tell you what to do. It was more like the quote if you can say anything nice don't say anything at all or do unto others as they do unto you, etc. I'm not your partner, mother, maker, boss etc so I can't tell you what to do. Only you can do that. I was purely asking why do people have to bag a place or person when it's BS & can ruin a person's life or lively hood? I'm just shocking at wording things especially when I've had fuck all sleep for months. Thanks for the criticism.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Insomnian' I'm not really saying anything. I'm typing my opinion.Like assholes, everyone has one, and most of them stink my opinions are better than most since they smell like milk n honey :p
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Seachange
9 years ago
Everyone has given their opinions on voicing their ops here and I agree it is w forum and discussions and discourse should ensue regadless whether it iw for the affirmative or negative. I haev been accused by someone before that I only want to hear the rosy part of the story. Not true. Quite insulting to my intelligence but they still hold that belief despite all My other postings in evidence. What to do? You have the choice as an adult to address their comments via a retort or ignore their comments completely. Wbich is also a form of response. Dont make their issues yours.
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Seachange
9 years ago
My opinion is that you can not and should not stop the opinion from fflowing. If their comments are within the context of the subject of the forum, they do deserve to be heard and discussed. akin to stopping a tsunami. You either stand in the way and get a mighty pounding or step back, let it run its course and survive the event. If their comments are personal slurs or attacks and outside the boundaries of the forum topic at hand, you either ignore or gently point out to them to stick to the subject. Dont fret. Unless their comments are defamatory or intent is to vilify (which sone people here dont have anything better to do wnd reval more about them) then they dont deserve your time nor energy. Be the adult in the discussion. It can be either fun, educational and/or soul shaking. Your choice. Play your cards right. Dont take things too personal. Good luck.
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Yes she Has a name, on her profile and on the original post, called "Xeena", which she posted in the "why is it?" Forum. Yes, I like it too. BTW Great post Xeena :) OP I'm happy to read you're are enjoying you time here.. IMO I think, quite a lot of people do. 😃 Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
In other words OP we will never hear, read, or be graced with a bad or opposing point of view?? Lol There's another saying...... "If it looks too good be true it generally is!!!" And I refuse to believe that there is a person on this planet that always says something positive ALL of the time....unless they're high 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I didn't post Xeena's name on purpose as not everyone likes being quoted from a different thread and I didn't want to cross-post. I left it to her to claim the quote if she wanted to. :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Phew, for a moment there i thought i missed something......Again!!
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Sorry OP for going off Topic. Meander, You did cross-post. If one is going to quote some else's quote/words from another forum, at least give the person the decency of quoting their name and which form. Xeena was not given a choice. Just saying. Now back on Topic. :) Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
Sorry OP for going off Topic. Meander, You did cross-post. If one is going to quote some else's quote/words from another forum, at least give the person the decency of quoting their name and which form. Xeena was not given a choice. Just saying. Now back on Topic. :) Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
1. Do not criticize anything. Ever. Even if criticism is well deserved and may even be beneficial. 2. Only post nice, happy-happy thoughts. 3. Better still, check what answer the OP wants first and always agree. 4. Practice singing kumbaya. / end sarcasm
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RHP User
9 years ago
a differing point of view, it's when the differences descend to nastiness and personal abuse that things go pear shaped.Ask Chev.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Maybe the baggers were calling it as they saw it.
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Tall74nHard9
9 years ago
Quoting 'xeena' 1. Do not criticize anything. Ever. Even if criticism is well deserved and may even be beneficial. 2. Only post nice, happy-happy thoughts. 3. Better still, check what answer the OP wants first and always agree. 4. Practice singing kumbaya. / end sarcasm You also forgot;= * I am taller than you.* I am heavier than you, and * I'm probably stronger than you. Amen. Tall
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RHP User
9 years ago
And ignor the petty comments telling people how to post. Who cares!!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
You sound controlling...? People aren't allowed to express opinions? Is it because they are different opinions to yours? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
The only thing I agree with what you had to say is you're a prick.... All you showed was your ignorance to what the OP was trying to convey. Don't talk to me about getting out to the streets , if there's anyone in rhp that's streetwise it's me... The thing is ' I worked out people like you years ago , these days it's water off a ducks back.. I'll bet pounds to peanuts you find it easier to find bad in people before the good.. This week I think you're a bit of a wank... next week I couldn't care less.. I don't hold grudges unlike some ...
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inspirit
9 years ago
I had to set the record straight in chat the other night. Some gossip about the new club which was totally unfounded - FARRRRRRCK - they whine cause they want a new club - then get one and still WHINE - I am like - GET A FUCKING LIFE AND IF YOU CAN'T APPRECIATE THE SCENE THEN FUCK OFF TO E-HARMONY. Clubs are for swingers who want too have sex for the most part - it's not a social greet n meet ffs. Grow some balls and go along and make your own opinion. This has been a community announcement for the E-Harmony folk.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I can't speak on behalf of anyone... But.... As a writer on occasion myself I'd much prefer to quoted by name; as that allows me the choice to own what I've said rather to have that choice be removed by a plagiarist..... Just sayin :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
you do realise.......that Meander had quoted An anonymous poster out of respect right?? And.... That she wasn't laying claim to her words?? Or does it only apply to other posters posts and not poetry?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lots of hoo ha over some new club. I know some of you guys have been to it and obviously liked it, but one of my male friends went and said it wasnt up to much and he wasnt going back. Everyone is entitled to their opinion? Just as some people on here diss the social aspect of the site, which actually gets more people meeting and hooking up, but again, each to their own. Every post will have its Yays and Nays. Back to my porridge..........
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RHP User
9 years ago
Koko..isn't 31 degrees...😊you should be sucking on a cucumber ,peeled of course...firm and fresh 😜😜xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
... you can choose to drown in it or turn that shit into rocket fuel and blast on up outta there - your choice. Any criticism, constructive or otherwise, has the potential to be a golden opportunity for growth - especially in business.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well said... I like that..
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RHP User
9 years ago
The reason I can't help but enjoy some of the forum topics. Keep up the good work everyone I am enjoying this one. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Its still a bit nippy in the mornings........ And Im very partial to something fresh and firm, but maybe not cold xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree everyone has an opinion & not everyone has the same taste. I love 1 club not another, someone else loves the other club, not the 1 I like, that's fine. I love a particular person or party, someone else doesn't like that person or party, that's fine. But I don't find it very nice at all when people spread BS about a club/party or person. Fair criticism is great & can be very helpful to the owners of a business, hosts of a party/parties or to an individual. But BS can actually cause a lot of harm. I say hey criticize a club, party or person but be honest with your criticism. Wouldn't you want honest criticism if you owned a club or held parties or even if people didn't like something about you? I know I certainly would love honest criticism not BS.
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RHP User
9 years ago
If people called it as they saw it that'd be cool by me. But when they are blatantly write defamatory remarks that's not on in my books. If I turned around & said a particular person smelt like sewage & had a saggy ass, then others including you checked them out & found them to be skinny, sweet smelling with a lovely ass would it still be ok for the person to write their BS opinion? Like I said each to their own opinion. But defamatory remarks about a person/people or business/party is not right in my eyes. Oh & thanks for you feed back.
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RHP User
9 years ago
THANKS EVERYONE FOR YOUR FEEDBACK!!! As I said, I didn't mean for the post to come out the way it did & I do think everyone has the right to criticize others or a business but it should be honest criticism not BS!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Post an apology that isn't called for, your post doesn't act or slander any one just states a 'position' (would love to PUT you in a few but that's another matter 😉. In general I think everyone hear has the same thought enjoy the site take what meets your needs and leave the crap outside, opinions are like assholes and life is a box of chocolates and we are all going to get along like a house on fire :-) The great thing about adult sex sites is someone will fuck up or fuck down and we all get to smile, laugh and slap them or ourselves a good point raised is always worth getting on so fuck it or someone. Don't ever apologis for starting a conversation even one that gets out of control because isn't that why we are here!
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