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If you like Pina Coladas

November 05 2012

Escape the pina colada song about two people who go looking for whats gone in the relationship....I just read a comment from A female member on herel who says she is on this site to exact revenge on her cheating husband of 15 years after finding his profile here....It got me thinking is her name nothing like her origins what if hubby comes acroos her.....So guys cheating males females WHAT IF you come across your partner is this possible?? Could you imagine that your partner would be doing this to? I suppose many cheating people wont comment.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    did you know said partner was on here before or after you created your profile?   followed by:   if after - so why did you join in the first place if said partners cheating offends you?   if before - you found out about their profile how?   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Revenge sex ... eek! I sense a lot of emotional pain about to come her way. Perhaps communicating during the marriage about needs/wants they could have joined as a couple. Win Win I say

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I can't imagine being in a relationship where the communication was so weak that sort of situation would arise... Anymore..But if it had happened in my old days of fumbling relationships.. I'd be angry at my self. Only ever be annoyed at something you can change..~smiles~

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Why was she on RHP in the first place?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'DeviousMissM'Why was she on RHP in the first place? great point Miss M :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    neither recognised each other,they started messaging,didn't exchange pics and met.....I wonder if this has ever happened

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I regularly patrol all the common sex sites and bust teenagers . I did find my partner on one, hacked into his profile (well he should not be so predictable with his passwords it was too easy) and played havoc with his information. He was actually only on there for a perv and I could see that but creating mischeif was just too much to resist. So I had my extremely straight, homophobic country man as a married man looking for bi fun. Took him three days to realise what I had done...Not a happy man...but it was soo funny.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    lmao....partner...lmao....omfg...someone get me a tissue....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If I came across my ex wife on here I'd piss myself laughing and embarrass the crap out of her. Believe me she deserves worse, but my most recent ex, knowing her as I do, if she was on here that would mean that her RL relationships had gone bad and I'd feel horrible, she deserves all the good in the world that girl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    either of us found the other on this site, or one like it, there'd be no explanation good enough..... i think it would be a 'pack the bags and get the fuck out of dodge' type moment............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I so don't approve of the sort of underhanded stuff.. But I’m still giggling ~laughs~

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    A recent inductee to RHP recognised my tattoo pic and sent me a message. "Does Jen know you're on here?"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    well clearly u guys are talking about me...i joined up because i found out my husband was getting messages from rhp..i wanted to see his proflie and what he was looking for...i knew exactly what his profile name would be so i typed it in and bingo!! let me make this clear...we have always had a good adventurous sex life , yes he agrees to that,so i knew this wasnt about what he wanted in the bedroom.. we have talked about this in depth the past couple of weeks. and he admits he has a 'sex addiction; whatever the hell that means...as well as a strong to act devious...he says its the thrill of doing something bad behind my back...he sees workers too occasionally i have since found out... not that i need to justify my actions, but i think it wouldnt hurt for him to try some of his own medicine, especially since he refuses to end our marriage... yesterday i gave him an ultimatum...u can f*&k off..(he wont) or u can stay n we will have an open marriage...hes not happy about the open marriage bit ...he really does wanna have his cake n eat it too...well those are my terms take it or leave it...i think its time for me to have some fun too...so cmon then...let me have the judgement. i got my boxing gloves on :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My ex and I had a friendly relationship after the breakup dust had settled, he dared me to join RHP thinking I wouldn't go ahead with it. I can't say no to a dare, so I joined up and he hasn't spoken to me since! After being here, his behaviour when we were still together have made a lot of sense. If he sees this, all I can say is: kiss my ass!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It is true that you were my catalist for this but not my optimum Unfortunatley if your husband has a sex addiction doing this will have no effect on him. If you want your husband to fuck off then he has no choice you make him.....You want to end it do it.....when I wanted to end my marraige I went to a solicitor to find out my options and even then it was not easy and he wasnt going either until i made him....You actually had a chance to gather evidence to support your divorce. If this makes you happy do it no one can stop you....I hope this is what will make you happy right???? My optimum was the actual thought of a man/woman finding their partner here and having that uh huh moment that may be what you hoped for someone thinking oh they need something extra too.....or I didnt know my partner was like that.....amazing what things in retrospect we dont know about our partners.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    yep u are so right

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi, I'm sorry that happened to you! Having someone go behind your back in a serious relationship is so low. Unfortunately too many of us have been there! I hope you enjoy being here, and don't end up leaving with a bad taste in your mouth (sorry, no pun intended), because you were not here for yourself but really for your husband. Your comment on your first meet certainly sounds like you had fun though! And who are any of us to judge?   You say your husband is refusing to leave. Are you happy about this, or do you seriously want him to go? That's really your choice in that case, not his. He cannot force you to stay against your will. But if you want him to stay and have an open marriage, good for you and stick to your guns! Hug, Mia

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    lmao luv it!! :p Quoting 'diwata' My ex and I had a friendly relationship after the breakup dust had settled, he dared me to join RHP thinking I wouldn't go ahead with it. I can't say no to a dare, so I joined up and he hasn't spoken to me since! After being here, his behaviour when we were still together have made a lot of sense. If he sees this, all I can say is: kiss my ass!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    thank u honey xx :))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    and thanks Mia <3 xx