I'm bisexual, my wife doesn't know, I just want to explore

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  Rising_Phoenix

  3 years ago

  Your profile says she does know. So first thing you need to do is fix that. Second thing you need to do is talk to your wife, why are you even married if you can’t communicate about something so important?

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  FeistyFatty

  3 years ago

  Talk to your wife. You'd be suprised how liberating opening up communication can be. She may even respond more favourably than you think and then you can explore together...... and trust me, that shit is off chops hott 🔥🔥

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  MsSuperFoxy

  3 years ago

  There sure is! There are many BI men on this site in the same situation as you. Youre chances are very limited tho, as not many are so publicly open about it. It must be a very hard situation you're in. I just can't imagine it. Ms Foxy *Pun intended 😇😎😈

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  sweetnyorkshire

  3 years ago

  I agree with what the others have said, maybe honesty might be the way forward, my partner is from a deeply Christian back ground, the idea of multiple sexual partners was completely alien to her but I was totally honest from the start that group sex was my turn on. Over time she became intrigued by the idea and now she enjoys it just as much as me! I see a lot of women in these forums talk about how much bisexual male action turns them on but on the same hand I also know women who are completely turned off by the idea, you probably know your wife better than anyone so its up to you how you approach the subject. I definitely think this is something you should approach lightly at first! maybe comment on the attractiveness of other males before building up to confessing you might be bisexual. Even then there should be no mention of involving other parties as marriage in the traditional sense is between two people and a great deal of communication and trust is required before opening up to the lifestyle. I am assuming at this point that your going to let your wife know what's going on, if you're just going to cheat there's probably a different forum for that. best of luck either way.

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  Mrs_Deep_Love

  3 years ago

  Dude, she'll find out soon enough.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  Well if she ever sets up a profile on here, she will certainly find out you're bi, if that's your actual face pic 😆.

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  AnnieWhichway

  3 years ago

  As the OP states, he wants to explore. No mention about bringing his partner into the loop. Many think he should open up and divulge all. Well as easy and righteous that may be, l doubt that's up for discussion. As always if it was the female to explore, everyone pops the corks. Still in present day, being a bisexual guy is not an easy fit into society. It does work but many risks and landlines prevail. The OP probably just wants it covert. Many would rather avoid the controversy and the drama and just flex the bi when 'safe to do so'. But as many of us know, things can go south very quickly and the shitstorm is catastrophic when she says 'why didn't you talk to me about it first'. Easy words to say but nothing easy about coming out. In answering the OP question, there are many ways to explore with other males, probably easy. To explore with couples in here, not so easy especially when you are cheating. It's doable but far from easy especially with the overload of competition. My best advice to you OP is Be sexually safe, be mindful of the other parties and firstly think about your other half first and the unexpected results for you and her if you do get the opportunity to go down the RHP rabbit hole. The hole is deep and encompassing. Some never come out, many come out scarred. Many queue at the entry and never get entry. Good luck

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  Roblin

  3 years ago

  I was in a 23 year marriage, never really assumed I was bi. Though I liked playing by myself while she wasn't home, hid it all from her, never communicated. Divorced. Now my with my beautiful fiancee, there was no stone left unturned, told her every dark secret and desire, it bought us so close, we are completely devoted to each other and our sex life is WOW!!!! We have been to clubs, we have had another guy spend time with us once. It was amazing to say the least! We still have a whole lot more to explore! My suggestion is to build up the courage to tell her your thoughts and feelings, that way you have become honest with yourself and first and foremost if you really do love her your completely honest to her! You might just be surprised! If you can hold back honesty from your wife, imagine the honesty she's holding back from you!! Even though you like the part of a man nows the time to stand up and be a man!

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  badboyhere

  3 years ago

  Agree with what others have said about honesty. If you prefer to “take a walk on the wild side” the only way you can truely feel free from oppression from your wife or others you feel will judge you if they find out, there is a hell of a lot of explaining to do should they even give you the opportunity to do this as they might feel that dishonesty is a bridge to far and next thing you know you have lost your life partner. Open up and be honest about it. If she cannot accept your thoughts and feelings then you will find out a hell of a lot sooner if your relationship is solid or not. I am not Bi but was never really monogamous. One day I decided to get the courage up to tell my wife about my thoughts and feelings. There was certainly lots of questions and clarity, and a lot of fear for both of us. But also a lot of understanding but more importantly trust developed immediately and it took quite a few conversations (some that lead to the very best sex we both have ever had). Turned out that we had to set boundaries and I got to understand that my wife’s inner thoughts and feelings were not that different to mine. She just needed to feel my permission to openly express them. Once we both did this we were able to explore a world we both never though we would ever be able to experience. The best part is that we do this together or separate and there is total trust, understanding and love for each other not matter who we get to spend time with. There are some great adventures we have shared with each other in this lifestyle purely because we got the courage to be honest with each other and it was very best thing we could have ever done for our marriage. Try it you never know what might eventuate.

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  Naughty1

  3 years ago

  I’m married always like to trying something different , I’m trying to going nude beach to find someone but I’m weary nervous to play m-m alone I’m really loving too join couples for 3some fun

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  Trust me your wife is the first person you need to admit this to. Unlike myself who found out after 15yrs of marriage and 3 months of seperation that he was infact gay. Being unfaithful is no were near the sadness you feel when your own husband can't tell you something deeply personal.

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