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Imagining what other people look like having sex

July 02 2015

Something I'm sure the majority if not all of us do. A very useful masturbatory tool. Often the subjects are people we know we'll never have sex with in real life, even complete strangers on the street. Sometimes they're people we do end up shagging...the reality may not quite live up to their performance in our imagination, or it can exceed it which is of course always lovely. I don't have any specific questions for you, just invite you to share your thoughts and experiences about the pleasurable pastime of imagining what other people look like having sex.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    have never imagined what someone may look like as in the sexual act of ..to fantasise what it wouldbe like to get to there with a particular person ..sure often does that make sense ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    when I say the majority I mean of people reading this forum, not people in general.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    ....... I think that that describes the sexual evolution of every teenage boy ... dreaming about it and never getting much !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I must admit, many a time reality has not lived up to imagination. Sometimes yes the fantasy is much more appealing than the reality. I mean I don't have to cuddle my fantasy, I don't have to reassure her how beautiful and valued she is, I don't have a bunch of expectations based on what last night meant ;) So yes while some ladies I would certainly enjoy, I know long term it will just create drama.... possibly why I'm so selective and have lately stopped pursuing sex or any form of relationship... well except good dance partners :)

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    9 years ago

    But I do on occasion imagine certain scenarios. For example, one night a couple of weeks back a woman I found very attractive came and stood next to me on the train, we exchanged glances and smiles a few times. We got on the same bus and sat in seats opposite each other and she gave me a parting smile as I got off the bus. Now I have replayed that scene in my mind a few times...but on my mind...she gets off the bus at the same stop as me, and without saying a word, takes me by the hand to get flat around the corner from the stop... A bit like the Erotica thread the other day where I said you interpret words into images, I love being able to use my imagination to mentally portray how the scenario ends. It's a little like an erotic choose your own adventure book (remember those...not the Erotica ones), where the number of scenarios are endless but all extremely passionate and hot. Him xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    9 years ago

    Proof read dammit! Her flat I meant. Although I have thought about getting flat on my back in her flat :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Maybe I'm the only weirdo who does it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    ...I was always told that a healthy imagination would serve me well in life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'll often see someone that is attractive to me and I will wonder how they look naked and what they might be like to kiss etc. A sexy daydream for a moment or two. Feels quite naughty really, especially when Im in the checkout line at Coles blushing madly.. During masturbation its more previous lovers or someone that I could never be with, or want to be with. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Luck_Dragon'Maybe I'm the only weirdo who does it Not at all. I have a very active sexy imagination, and do it frequently too. It may be from seeing an old acquaintance, someone on my facebook posting a new picture and I imagine whats next.....hell, I may have even thought about one or two RHP members here.... Just gotta remember to never think too racy in front of a crowd of people in loose fit pants. That, could be embarrassing.... ...again.

  • lovman8

    lovman8

    9 years ago

    ........what women I meet in the street look like naked, but when it comes to sex fantasies I tend to imagine what they feel like !!

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    9 years ago

    I do it all the time, mainly with complete strangers tho, whilst I'm people watching usually. God, now that sounds a tad creepy....But my mind just wonders off on it's own and I don't try to stop it, I picture myself doing things also...💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sorry to say I don't do it at all because my manbandit satisfies me in every possible way I now have a completely inactive imagination .... Sorrynotsorryatall. Whatever works for anyone is my motto. Manbandit says - that may not be completely true, she has pointed out a number of fine looking male specimens on here and I'm happy she has some vivid thoughts about them ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I must try it ..the ultimate in safe sex maybe,as long as you wash your hands 😝😝😝xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I often imagine what meander and lovinit look like having sex!! 😀😀😀 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My imagination in public, tends to be more about what I'd do to first interact with them, rather than what they'd look like naked. Eg, if someone is frowning, what they'd do if I walked over and smoothed their brow with my finger tips. So more the foreplay of the situation rather than their clothes all off. My imagination during masturbation would tend to be using those people who are or have been reliable performers. When I see pictures, I imagine what I'd do if that image was in front of me. But I'm sure I'm not the only one who has imagine pulling your top apart Luck_Dragon, when they saw your profile pic. And the other posters, well, lalalala

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    From the comments so far it seems that quite a few people fantasise about the lead up to a liaison / how they would get there. I'm thinking about it but I can't remember ever doing that...my fantasies definitely tend to be more focused on the 'nitty gritty' so to speak . Ah well, just more evidence of the wonderful differences in those big grey blobs that rule our perceptions, preferences, and behaviour.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Its more fun when you can draw them as well, I can do photo realism so there is little room left for imagination once I have done a scene. For some reason the more outraged I think the person would be if they saw the image the more I enjoy drawing it. Its my private little fetish.

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    9 years ago

    Can be very sexy. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Guilty here ☺ If I fancy a guy I imagine what sort of lover he'd be.

  • andyrabbit

    andyrabbit

    9 years ago

    Also imagining what type of kinky things they do ! look at them and think what they might be into i.e. fetish play or do they love anal, water sports, BDSM or strap on it makes that trip to work more fun, but if you start thinking about tony abbott does, you need help....lol

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    Hell.... Im ana void people watcher... and when I see certain couples... I can't help but wonder how they do it. Really skinny with really large..... Really large with really large Dwarves Senior citizens and those hormonally supercharged teens learning at a million miles an hour.... Its all kind of entertaining within my own head.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    try to imagine what their skin feels and smells like.... How it would feel with their arms or legs wrapped around me as I enter her... What their breathing would sound like in my ear... And how our bodies move in response to what we are doing to each other.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm doing it right now....BM puts out weekly vids and new (female) employee is a total babe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'HennaJay'When I see pictures, I imagine what I'd do if that image was in front of me. But I'm sure I'm not the only one who has imagine pulling your top apart Luck_Dragon, when they saw your profile pic. Yep. Guilty as charged too. If you put a delicious treat down in front of me...I'm going to think about eating it.That's natural, isn't it..?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Only kidding. Careful Luckdragon, you've been in my mind before, and just might again. Oops, too late :) Hmmmmmmmmn. Hmmmmn. Hmmmmmmmhmhmmhmhmhmhnnnnnnnhnnnnmhmmmmm. Ahem, I have a powerful imagination. Like letting a bucking wild horse off its rope. Uh oh. Luckdragon, Meander and Lovinit have all felt (in my mind) the full force of my mental passion!!! Missb too. Hope you enjoyed it. Also, not sure it applies but in reality I've had some amazing sex with librarian types. People you wouldn't really (at least I didn't at the time) tend to overly sexualise. Ah, the lucky dip, and humbling experience of the mercy fuck. You wonderful women all look devastatingly seductive, sensual and transplendent in action by the way. Ooooh, can't wait to get into bed and....dream. Who will it be tonight? ()

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    9 years ago

    especially a really fine body that they obviously put a lot of work into, I often day dream about how it would look. How the abs would move would they flex and release? How the the thighs bunch, the biceps flex... If there toes curl when they cum. Yummy!

  • compressor

    compressor

    9 years ago

    I think it is hard to imagine what I look like having sex but can imagine myself having sex with different ladies.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I never imagine people having sex. If I do fantasize about someone it is more about how it makes my body feel, imagining his arms around me or sliding up my body, etc. I don't picture a person's face in the throes of passion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I work in a office with a lot of young girls. Sigh refer to early 20's as young now. In summer on casual dress Fridays very hard ( bad pun intended 😊 ) to not imagine what they would look naked in skimpy clothing. Have To scuttle Back to my dirty old man cubicle to avoid the forbidden fruit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    When they're strangers. However I was out with a friend and her boyfriend last night, and she mentioned they hadn't gotten much sleep the last few nights (wink wink). After that I kept imagining them in all kinds of positions!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I used to work with a lot of very attractive women and there were at least three that I could very easily picture what they would look like having sex. To be fair one was easier because she once made a few sexual faces and noises as an example of something. I definitely used those images when jerking off.