Impossible for men

December 29 2016

Hi guys, mostly posting on here because I can't really vent about it on facebook. But any other male halves of a swinging couple who are struggling to meet women? Ever since we decided to have a fully open relationship, my wife has been flooded with messages from girls/guys and couples all hanging out to meet her when I can't even get a lady to say hi back to me. Not that im jealous of her, but its starting to affect my self esteem quite a bit. I'm currently operating on 4 dating websites including this one and yet still I haven't even met 1 female who will stop to have a chat or consider me for a playmate. Could anyone offer any insight as to why and possibly suggest some solutions for me? I'd like to be able to have some fun with and without my lady.

Comments

  • usnow

    usnow

    8 years ago

    Most guys in your age bracket will jump anything ,married , single , attached , anything .Ladies how ever are a completely different beast .Although they say they are seeking a FWB or a No Strings Attached relationship most of them really aren't ,they want the option to make that exclusive if they wish .This isn't confined to ladies in your age bracket , it goes right across the board .They like to change their rules when it suits .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You need to change your tactics, the ones your using aren't working so change course, you have nothing to loose?Find something exclusive you have to offer. Also get a pic with a suit on they love the idea of a refined gentleman!

  • Metalhippie

    Metalhippie

    8 years ago

    Well shit, so basically I've got no chance in this crappy town. Thanks for the insight guys, might just delete my RHP account if there's no success in the next few weeks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    but yeah...not much will change. Better off saving your money I dare say. Women on here are spoiled for choice and know it. Being in an open relationship basically means the wife will spoiled for choice and you will be spending a lot of time on the sidelines.

  • usnow

    usnow

    8 years ago

    It has nothing to do with this town my friend , it is world wide .Oh , so young and so much to learn .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    some of us have experienced the wrath of a jealous wife even though the couple are supposedly in an open relationship. I think a lot more women become insecure and jealous than men. There's also a major lack of balance between the numbers of women compared to men on any adult site. There's still that belief in society that women liking sex are sluts and men liking are studs. Single males as young as you also seem to struggle. Have you tried going to meets? clubs?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    As Freogirl said, most of these site's have an imbalance of about 4 males for every female so i'ts going to be tougher.Also, females are a lot choosier than males.As a recently separated guy, i'm still getting used to this cyber malarkey but i do know where you're coming from my friend.

  • Metalhippie

    Metalhippie

    8 years ago

    Well, thanks for the insight guys and gals. Also no it is this country, I've been overseas and the people are so much more open and friendly. Also if love to go out and meet people that way, but I'm a student and a father, so time and money are very scarce haha. Also, nice to know I'm not the only one struggling sometimes.