Impromptu meets - yes or no?

February 15 2013

Who here browses online to meet someone today/tonight/in the next half hour? It seems to me a lot of guys are looking for that but most women browse with the intention of setting something up in the next week or so. What do you do?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    meeting up straight away....there is nothing wrong with it, as long as both parties are interested. the whole reason im on this site is to meet ppl rather than be stuck at home on my computer, wishing i had someone to go out with for the night and discover a life beyond the boredom of my room. if were too scared to meet ppl at the drop of a hat, i dare say that goes to their lack of self confidence. why would someone chose to be involved, sexually or not, with someone who is too scared to show the world who they are and say it proudly.   if you both wish to meet straight away, power to u....i say go for it.

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    12 years ago

    Because my time is booked in advance- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's not really something I'd consider. I usually organise drinks about a week in advance. I'm not usually available at the drop of a hat, and I do have (some) patience. As far as I'm concerned, I'm not meeting people for the convenience or because they're available, I'm meeting them because I'm interested in them, so timing's not really a factor.It might work for other people, but it's not how I use the site (and I've never even bothered to look at Datefinder, since it just strikes me as a limited version of the rest of the site!)

  • xFunlovingx

    xFunlovingx

    12 years ago

    I have met guys on the spur of the moment from one or two messages exchanged! Most experiences were HOT HOT HOT...I can only remember one being a dud! Might get back into it when I start meeting again! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The answer is 42.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Gypsy boy,if I confessed to such a thing,I would be outing myself as an indiscriminate slut.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Young ones, I suspect if you're in here EXPECTING to browse profiles, hit someone up and be fucking within hours, you probably need to revisit the definition of prostitution. That's an altogether different service than RHP and the closest thing to a sure bet you're going to find. Does it happen here? Yes. Should anyone expect it? God no, what foolishness.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Wrong thread....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There are people on RHP who are here just for hook ups. And I do get emails from men that want a wham bam thank you ma'am. To me, men who are after basically a quick fuck wouldn't put the effort in to make it that great for the women. It's all about them really. A blow and go.... how boring. I have encountered a few men like that over the years mind you I don't have a lot of experience in this as these sorts of meets are not really my thing. So I may be making a generalisation here?

  • blond_gypsy

    blond_gypsy

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' Gypsy boy,if I confessed to such a thing,I would be outing myself as an indiscriminate slut. Nothing wrong with a slut, provided you discriminate just a little ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have spent weeks chatting and have also met people on the day after a couple of messages , just like funloving says:) The number of messages exchanged or time spent never seems to bear any direct correlation between the "success" of the meet. Minxy xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Silly clunky app! They need to make a better one. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    As we seek couples, having a magical time when everyone is free of work and kids that very same week is highly improbable so we do have to plan. But a spontaneous meet for us would be that same week some time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Go back and read neptune drifts‘ take on it. For me to comment would just be reframing the same thing and at the moment i‘m too lazy to try! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I agree there's nothing wrong with meeting straight up if all are keen, it doesn't nessasarily mean that play is a given, that just depends on how everything goes, sometimes yes n other times no, it just depends on how everything works n clicks but yes we've done it and had a absolute ball and we'd surely do it again if all party's involved we keen xx- Posted from rhpmobile