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Inboxes - what are the best ways to open a conversation?

June 22 2021

What do you think is a good inbox message? So many I just roll my eyes and cringe…. Really? I know I know, I should be grateful you want to make me orgasm multiple times, lick me until I scream, that you have a huge black cock you want to share, or that your wife thinks I am hot…. That’s really nice, but does anyone actually read your profile before they inbox? Or do they just see a sexy photo and lose all rational thought? I often wonder how my inboxes are received. Many go ignored, until I put up a hot new photo, then I get a response, so I guess my opening liners aren’t that good either. What are the best best inbox messages you have received? That got your attention. I like it when they are specific, you have great energy, you sound like fun, we share some common sexual interests, let’s chat some more and see.

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Freaky_Fun

3 years ago

😂😂😂 l could have wrote this post. In saying that l recieved quite a witty limerick type message the other day which gave me a giggle.

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innerbestcouple

3 years ago

Let me say, I coached my partner to tweak messages to be more personal (as it’s a couples profile after all). When I was a single lady, I binned so many! So pathetic. I mean it’s the same as trite repeated phrases in profiles too - there’s a low level of creativity. Myself included - I’m in a rather pragmatic facts space for work and maybe that’s why?!

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RHP User

3 years ago

1. Read profile of possible candidate. 2. Send message with clear photos (not cock) and let them know you’ve read their profile with a reference to something about their profile in your message so they know you’ve actually read it. 3. When they read it , they then go to your profile that has a whole lot of information about you. They skim over it. 4. Then they ignore you and go to the next message because they don’t like the way you look 😂😂 5. Repeat steps 1 and 2 until you achieve the desired result and secure a date/time to meet. 6. Hear her out 6a. Take her out 6b. Eat her out 6c. Cuddle her afterwards 7. Aftercare is just as important as anything.

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sapioscorp

3 years ago

I am always polite and try and build rapport based on what’s in their profile. But even that gets me left on read and no reply. ;)

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Brisbloke4006

3 years ago

I have had that experience many times too - see an interesting profile, write a polite, respectful personalised message and get nothing in return. I get that there is an imbalance between women / couples and single men but it does get disheartening. And no I don’t send unsolicited dick picks - I always ask before unlocking

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Anewcraze

3 years ago

Compliment ...introduce.. question.. always works well in person.. on here I find it harder to strike the conversation up

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Pomme81

3 years ago

Number 4 though 😂. I know I should take it with a pinch of salt, but sometimes it really frustrates me lol. At least it’s not just me.

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