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Indecent proposals

May 28 2013

Before I begin I would firstly like to thank the couple I met this afternoon who put a smile on my face after a shit day at work. So what actually happened was, I was indecently proposed too when it was unexpected. I was very flatterd, but caught unaware. Expecially when most people are very conservitaive or private. This makes me ponder, do we all 'pick up' only on this site or does the urge to find someone come from meeting a total stranger and dropping the question and how?? Is it simple enough to ask that naughty question to unexpecting stranger with out them thinking your 'off your face' or simply 'weird'?? Mind you I was very polite and offered a cheeky grin in return. Mr C

Comments

  • PartyOrg

    PartyOrg

    12 years ago

    What was the proposal you received and under what circumstances ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I was at the Norfolk with a friend and an interstate couple invited us back to the Esplanade Hotel ! She was hot but we both thought he was a creep. 😔- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm not allowed to go with strangers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quote: " do we all 'pick up' only on this site or does the urge to find someone come from meeting a total stranger and dropping the question and how?"Online dating sites are my primary means of meeting new people, mainly because there's a lot about me I like people to know before getting "interested" which I've laid all out in my profile. Besides, if I go out I want to enjoy myself (and laugh at the PUAs) and there's nothing worse than being out with a friend who just wants to hook up (with other people). If I suspect someone of being kinky I'll often test the waters tactfully in a more comfortable spot (never aggressively either). It just sucks we have to hide who we really are.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    Sex is simply a normal part of my normal life. I was sexually adventurous and active before I joined this asylum.... and still am awsy from here. RHP is not my "everything".... only my sometimes thing. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Curious that is...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Every situation is different, but if you get an invitation from someone who you think is a creep, use your gut instinct. Get on board or get off that ride. Hope this helps. :)

  • talldeck

    talldeck

    12 years ago

    Well thats kinda hot. Whats the worst that could happen? you could say no and if thats the worst thing its worth a shot!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Strangers have the best candy...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Will have to agree, what I've gotten most out of the site and the people we have met or chatted with, is we can be ourselves. Wether it's to do with getting older or realizing your not alone, I've noticed it's beginning to reflect in everyday life. Not that our personal life isn't private, but you learn to accept who you are and the confidence comes out that you're happier not being like everyone else. Then noticing someone or a situation outside of this lifestyle, you feel a bit more content that others can feel safe stepping out the box. I guess the whole situation was moving, simply because someone or someones felt safe doing just that with out feeling judged. After all just because where adults "apparently" doesn't mean we can't have fun. One more thing, it's good to see people open up rather than keep their thoughts to themselves. Mr C

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Cock_Suckers' Will have to agree, what I've gotten most out of the site and the people we have met or chatted with, is we can be ourselves. Wether it's to do with getting older or realizing your not alone, I've noticed it's beginning to reflect in everyday life. Not that our personal life isn't private, but you learn to accept who you are and the confidence comes out that you're happier not being like everyone else. Then noticing someone or a situation outside of this lifestyle, you feel a bit more content that others can feel safe stepping out the box. I guess the whole situation was moving, simply because someone or someones felt safe doing just that with out feeling judged. After all just because where adults "apparently" doesn't mean we can't have fun. One more thing, it's good to see people open up rather than keep their thoughts to themselves. Mr C Well said guys !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've been conversing with a lovely lady over financial matters for a few months and we hit it off as friends and have been chatting on the phone on and off for about half a year. I had never met her face to face so she in a way was a stranger but a very nice one. She moved to Brissy so I thought I had made a nice new non play gf to socialise with up until I mentioned that we were on adult swingers sites as she mentioned RSVP and other vanilla sites stating that she was not lucky on them. I suggested she put herself on an adult site. She then said that we were the answer to her three year fantasy of wanting to experiance a couple. So it was her that made the indecent proposal to us much to our delight. We are firm friends and have played twice so far and it was extremely erotic and heaps of fun. I guess I am pretty relaxed and forward with people at times. These sites are not your only opportunity and you will be surprised at just how sexual a lot of people out there are and how many are harbouring secret desires. And if your not on the money so to speak then what's the worst thing that can happen. Not everyone is as conservative and quiet as you may think. If the subject is broached in a polite, non confronting and respectful manner then you may get lucky. We may be a little different to most people though. His family have been aware of his swinging lifestyle for over 20 years and are very accepting and my family are non the wiser. We don't live near my family so they have no impact on our lifestyle and his family dont ever get involved or offer opinion. We never mix play with work so our professional reputations will not be compromised. As for other people we really do not care for thier opinions and live by our rules so we are not shy when it comes to asking for what we like in the right manner and we have been lucky. We make friends for friends sake and if it develops into something with benefits then that's great but not a requirement with us. We've found that most people are just curious or interested and have not found us to be wierd. I picked up a nice play date going to pick up the same milk bottle in the fridge as another lady in a supermarket once, that was funny. Told her that she could have the bottle if she made me a cuppa and she said yes and we are still friends two years later. So you never know when or where. Just be open to it if it happens.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Met up with a friend whom I haven't seen in a long while.So talking about what has been keeping us busy, blabber me couldn't help but tell her about all the fun Im having being on rhp. 3-somes were mentioned and she says: I haven't been involved in a threesome and would love to, can you be my first girl on girl fling? Had to say yes to that (coz she's hot), so now, I have me the job of looking for someone to join us!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Met up with a friend whom I haven't seen in a long while.So talking about what has been keeping us busy, blabber me couldn't help but tell her about all the fun Im having being on rhp. 3-somes were mentioned and she says: I haven't been involved in a threesome and would love to, can you be my first girl on girl fling? Had to say yes to that (coz she's hot), so now, I have me the job of looking for someone to join us!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No doubt you will have to fight the offers after that Dewata.My last was accepted, and acted upon, and that bit was pretty red hot. The awkward bit came after- her crazy ex found out about the three-way and told her mum. She was in her late twenties, but there are some thing you just don't need to discuss with your parents, much less have them know about.=0

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think indecent proposals like that make you wonder what people are thinking out in public all the time. Ive had a few proposals at the typical places like a pub or nightclub but it makes you think are people thinking all the time! haha.Its always flattering and i think the best nights are the unplanned ones ;)And Dewata im sure you'll be getting alot of proposals! :)

  • imupinthesky2

    imupinthesky2

    12 years ago

    Dewata ..... I can't imagine that such a beautiful confident lady such as yourself (and you friend too for that matter) would have much trouble finding a plethora of suitable applicants ... A cherry popper - can't wait to hear how it all goes, although if your struggling please let me know ;-) x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To either give or receive an indecent proposal in the real world. Only look around on here because there aren't enough of them out " there"