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Inspired by missSarah

February 05 2012

Hi ladies, we all know that you are way outnumbered by guys (terrible for us, great for you) so we have to put a bit of effort in if we want to get any notice.I am curious. What is the perfect first message?Because I usually follow several key rules. -Introduce myself first up-Show that I have read their profile by commenting on something-ALWAYS make sure spelling and grammar is good-Proof read-try to make it chuckleworthyI still don't get a hell of a lot of replies. am I doing it wrong? or are girls just sick of getting thousands of messages a day.

Comments

  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    13 years ago

    I would reply to a message that follows those rules (even if you are all the way across the country) It is true that statistically it seems reply rates on here are very low it is not just single ladies, couples and guys are guilty of this too, I don't really know the reason and besides that has been done to death on other threads.All I can say is don't drop your standards and think " well it doesn't mater anyway" because ultimately it is a numbers game and eventually you will get a response that will hopefully lead to loads of fun for you. Good Luck WBYM

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    Although I looked at your profile and there's a bit of a focus on looks, combine that with your pic and maybe you're just a bit too intimidating for them? You can't help being sexy, but sometimes women can't help being self-conscious.xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...but could be along the lines of what the divine MissS noticed. | Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'.... combine that with your pic and maybe you're just a bit too intimidating for them? | Not being critical but you might want to get a different picture as the touch ups are a bit intense. I noticed that your chain kind of disappears right into your neck and the left side of your face is a bit uneven. My apologies if that photo hasn't been retouched and I am way out of line. | Women...they notice stuff like that. Thank god all we have to notice is their new shoes and great big........eyes. | MissSarah...now she definitely has big eyes.

  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' ...but could be along the lines of what the divine MissS noticed. | Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'.... combine that with your pic and maybe you're just a bit too intimidating for them? | Not being critical but you might want to get a different picture as the touch ups are a bit intense. I noticed that your chain kind of disappears right into your neck and the left side of your face is a bit uneven. My apologies if that photo hasn't been retouched and I am way out of line. | Women...they notice stuff like that. Thank god all we have to notice is their new shoes and great big........eyes. | MissSarah...now she definitely has big eyes. I remember the original version of that pic, he was just as pretty then as he is now..And as for what big eyes I have, all the better to smother you with... :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    to follow....seems to work fairly well for me....I'm probably a tad less intimidating in the looks department :-)Lucky bastard :-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...you can see this coming, can't you? | Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' And as for what big eyes I have, all the better to smother you with... :P What big teeth I have...and a long tongue. | | Hey, they can tell the fairy tale however they like....I know the wolf ate her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'wannabyummymummy' I would reply to a message that follows those rules (even if you are all the way across the country) Good Luck WBYM thanks WBYM... wish i still lived in qld..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'You can't help being sexy, but sometimes women can't help being self-conscious.xx Sarah ok, thank you, will have a look at thatQuoting 'ChasingMidnight' Not being critical but you might want to get a different picture as the touch ups are a bit intense. I noticed that your chain kind of disappears right into your neck and the left side of your face is a bit uneven. My apologies if that photo hasn't been retouched and I am way out of line. | MissSarah...now she definitely has big eyes. yes it is touched up CM, but only because my ex was in there and i have very few photos as i was always the one behind the camera..and yesss, she certainly does..Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'I remember the original version of that pic, he was just as pretty then as he is now..And as for what big eyes I have, all the better to smother you with... :P loving your behind..

  • RogueGeek

    RogueGeek

    13 years ago

    And to be honest, when I read profiles that only talk about how often a person exercises and how they are looking for "other attractive people", I think, "Hrrmmm. Thinks rather well of himself/herself/themselves. NEXT."MS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jamesnp' to follow....seems to work fairly well for me....I'm probably a tad less intimidating in the looks department :-)Lucky bastard :-P Don't sell yourself short. You look hot to me!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' Quoting 'jamesnp' to follow....seems to work fairly well for me....I'm probably a tad less intimidating in the looks department :-)Lucky bastard :-P Don't sell yourself short. You look hot to me!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingChilli' Thanks for the advice guys, i will have a look at that now. no wonder we used to get LOTS of messages from all the guys that don't even bother with the 'reading the profile' bit. Honestly though, my comments about going to the gym weren't at all because of looks, it was more because i have had very little else to do for the past two years and that is what interests me the most, i love going to the gym and the fact that i am finally starting to notice some resultsPerhaps get TuscanRed to take some pics for you. Small investment with seemingly good resultsI have actually been talking to TR about the pictures, it is something i would like to do but will have to wait for a little while.. maybe..i like that you've left her in the 2nd pic but self conscious girls will see her in light of your comments on looks and think your standards are going to be higher than us every day girls can reachfunnily enough chilli, my standards aren't that high at all, sure a hot girl is nice for some fun, but i prefer a lady that knows how to have a good time and be realistic..And just for the record... your ex is seriously HOT HOT HOT i know, problem is...... nevermind...Does your ex have a singles profile here??? pretty sure she doesn't... sorry :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ok, made some changes... hopefully they reflect who i really am a bit better than before...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    is my profile any better now guys?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    update the profile and it is finally unlocked,, is it any better noW?