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Interacting Outside Yout Scope
October 06 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
Both with age and "experience". I would pass over younger guys and guys who had swinging experience because I wasnt interested in that scene. Over time I got to know a few men in those categories who I am now good friends with - Im glad I didnt stick to my guns. And Ive done things myself I wouldnt have dreamed of getting up to a couple of years ago. Its always good to look outside the box, RHP has opened my mind to many things, and although Im still quite vanilla by a lot of standards, I have much loved friends who are not quite so vanilla, and I cherish them very much xxx
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Occasionally interact with people who are outside my scope when, either they can write a good (proper writing language, not the lazy text language) message to me, or their profiles have caught my eyes. However, these experiences have never changed my preferences in what I seek ultimately, and so I have never made any changes on my profile based on those out of scope experiences, even if they are good experiences, especially the age range. You (as in general reference) can criticise me for being an "age queen" but that is my preference and I am entitled to own what attracts me to a man! 😛😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
9 years ago
I'm a shocker for it always switching and changing. I never used to go above 45 but have experienced a few men that are 50 and must say they have some serious talent. 😍😍
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RHP User
9 years ago
Changed my rule to only sleep with Sydneysiders. Only a few times, and fun while it lasted, but have gone back to my previous decision as I want something regular and ongoing.
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secure2
9 years ago
I am happy to chat & flirt with most even out of our scope, but as for playing with someone outside scope would have to have a great connection through chat 1st. But never say neverMrs Secure
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RHP User
9 years ago
Have done a couple of times - two were with age, one with location, one in regards to kinks. And I have the say the experience was great - probably because I had spent more time conversing with no expectations of meeting, and therefore had a better connection/ interaction. Though while the experience at the time was awesome, the reasons I would have initally dismissed the whole scenario were still important and meant things didn't continue for long. Hasn't made me change what I'm looking for - just made me appreciate the odd enjoyable tangent.
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RHP User
9 years ago
way back when I first started online, I was swamped (another website) enjoying the eye candy, the visual and contact from the hotties that were out there, then along came this guy who was nothing like the physical I'm usually attracted to, skinny, but there was something about him. I was desperate for a tongue lashing at the time too and kind of remember that in his resume so decided to go ahead and meet him, god am I glad I did. He was so easy to hook up with, open and honest, cruisy nature, travelled a long way to come and see me the first time we met, even though I had a work xmas dinner on at the time, he waited in a carpark up the beach, I think for a few hours until I could get away. He didn't only live up to the skills he had on his resume lol, he was an amazing lover in so many ways. He was married, but never, not once, did he make me feel like he was rushing, never looked over his shoulder, held my hand, chatted freely, and when it was time to lay under the stars and get down to business, whoa, he was tender and spoiled me, then enjoyed cuddling after, we'd spend hours together, and he'd hook up on a moment's notice, how I don't know. But the point is, a guy that I decided to take out for a spin, surprised me big time, so although i'm a creature of habit and know what I go for, I'm fully aware I'd be passing up some great lovers, roll of the dice isn't it. How do we ever know really
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RHP User
9 years ago
to add, I didn't change my profile, still go for the hot young thangs
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes. Have rewritten / our profile a few times to reflect where in the journey of exploration we are at and to better describe our interests at different times. Adjusted fetishes. Interests. Age groups - tend to overlook under 30 ) and 'who' we are looking for. For example single men. Some things never change. Not interested in smokers , self indulgent, aggressive types or cheaters. Body shapes far different to us - this includes very muscled beefed up men- though love a strong woman. And at times paused the profile to reassess where we want to go. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
to someone outside my scope but no. I don't change it up really. This is my private dating profile and I have another for couples antics and parties where we both attend. My desires will differ a bit, depending. Both are fine tuned (should be after 3 years!) and represent perfectly what I'm looking for. Everything from looks to mannor are the truth and really it's hard to sway me. Even if I engage for a while, when it comes down to it: Without a really strong attraction I'm lax to get out of my uggboots or find a sitter. Occasionally I'm even lucky enough to find what I'm after. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I usually avoid all template profiles, no matter how good the photo/s are, but once in a blue moon Ill give someone the benefit of the doubt, and they will usually prove me right in that their personality is as vacuous as their profile. And I'm almost always rewarded after meeting people with well thought out, enjoyable, intelligent, witty, profiles, that state wants or needs, and direction. The more you put into your profile, the more somone can get a hint or gist of your personailty and humour from it. Its funny how the search wanes when your in a good run with fun, honest, imaginative play friends.It really is true that the more time you spend with someone naked, the more buttons you find and learn how to push each other to amazing new heights :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
👍👍👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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