Interests V Orientation

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Simple. A woman can be bisexual but at the time may only be interested in heterosexual encounters. Just because she's bi doesn't mean she's actively seeking female attention lol I don't think you need to read into it too much. The girls in question may not have been concentrating either when selecting their interests. If you like the look of someone and they are seeking couple/female, send them a message! Maybe they are also trying to let ppl know that they are interested in MF interaction as opposed to being a female who is listed as bisexual but will only consider FF fun because she 'saves' her heterosexuality for her partner :)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  whats the worry here? if a straight guy or a straight women messages or flirts on my profile wanting contact with me I don't give them the third degree on why they say thier straight.... Im more interested that its to be understood no strings fun... as I'm attached.... and that were going to be sexually compatiable.... As for who visits my profile...I get couples...mf/mm..bdsm...tv...ts...women/straight/bi...men/straight/bi/gay and even guys who say they are unsure what they are... I'm only interested in having a lend I don't want to keep them...cheers astralwalker

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  playfulhorse

  16 years ago

  i am bisexual, but i am also bored of women and not looking for same sex encounters. If i am in a group , i may get into the groove, but otherwise i am not actively seeking my own sex.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  There are plenty of couples out there that appear when you search for 'couples seeking men', yet when you go into their profile is clearly says 'no single men'. Either you want them or you don't. A lot of user of this site ne to take a look at their profiles and make sure that it is very clear as to what they are looking for, that way if anyone messages you that is outside of what you are looking for then you can ignore them without feeling bad about it.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  thanks for your opinions, its appreciated, for sure. As the Female of this long standing relationship, we do have our aggreed boundaries, however, what we list on rhp, is what we stand for and aggree on. I Guess, that my beliefs, are more highly defined than that of a high percentile of female registrations on rhp. Not just a friday night at home, ill perv on a chick, or flirt on a instant messenger type of person. I think that RHP should have more clearly defined targets or ambitions or preferences, so that, basicly, people are screened out, as opposed to screened in to searches. I did not mention that my search last night, revealed entirely straight single or attatched women, were not seeking couples, of any kind, but preferred MMF encounters. (Huh?) SO, to aggree with all who have commented and to prove my point in full... RHP should have more specific criteria, so that single hetero females, do not get viewed and maybe possibly mistakenly contacted by FM, FF couples, seeking females. Maybe its not my perception, but the way in which RHP singles out profiles. To add to this point, searching by distance from me, reveals that a few people in perth, cairns, S.A are in fact more appropriate to my search, than people on page 3, 5, 10 or 15+ that really live 5km from me, or even in the same State .

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I sort of get you but not really... If a woman is straight and not seeking couples, she shouldn't come up in your search for women seeking couples as long as she has specified that she isn't seeking couples. If you're getting anomalies in your searches maybe you should write to RHP?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  hi whitsundayscoupl you use the words 5k away and distance are you doing your searches by Advanced Search where you put in your postcode then preferences like hair colour, height, body type, etc ....then sexual preferences like oral, fetishes like watersports, specified couple combinations like mmf bi or mff bi, or mmf straight or mff straight these searches can be saved and summoned back to review on when I have done this way I might find only 2 the most 24 and then they can be the wrong sexual preference due to the ammount you put in to be matched things like eye colour ,hair colour, height, bodytype out pointing the actual sexual preference....so therefore can only be used as being a very rough chance for providing that perfect encounter....cheers astralwalker.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Hi there. Good question. I think its pretty simple. Straight means only interested in the opposite sex. Many straight people may have unvoiced fantasys of trying same sex. That was me for many years. Bi curious means into the opposite sex and wants to experiment with the opposite sex and may turn into bisexual. Bisexual means interested in both but more intrested in the opposite sex. Its a fine line. Gay mean only interested in same sex. Gay may also be bi curious. So is a bisexual woman seeks either f-m or fmm is not being really truthful as a true bisexual woman whould seek both m and f with probably more males in the mix. On the other hand she may just have the hots for guys at the time. Mars nterests V Orientation Posted by: whitsundayscoupl Date: Oct 08, 2008 We have another question we would like comments on, How is it that females (in particular) can list themselves on rhp as BISEXUAL orientated, but clicking on the new sexual interests tab reveals, they are only after f-m or f-m-m encounters, 1. how exactly does that work 2. how can a bisexual person be only interested in heterosexual encounters ? 3. who exactly are they lying to ? themselves or everyone, 4. which "tab" is one supposed to take for truth befor inititating a flirt or contact of anykind. these females are revealed when a search is made on females seeking couples, and females seeking females by the way Surely We cant be the only ones left a little bedazzled, in a not too complicated situation ? then again, myabe it is just us...out of the sexuality loop ponderous

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  HotOzCouple_cc

  16 years ago

  Maybe people should be thinking about which boxes they click in their profile? Why would a female click interested in: 'couples', When they want to play with the woman only? Or the guy only? or one more than the other? When we say we want to play as a couple, we mean as a couple. Yes, usually the girls kick off the fun, but couples that ONLY want ff while guys watch, usually lose our attention pretty quick. We're happy for FF/gw the first or second time, but are ultimately looking to watch each other pleasure and be pleasured by others. The more the merrier and all in is even better... So really, RHP's Search formula is fine, the problem is that people don't know what they really want and just put whatever they think is cool in their profiles, which then leads to mismatched searches.

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