M43

Interests versus pastimes

December 26 2016

Dear RHPers, I have a question regarding the interests (sexual etc) that you can choose from on your profile. I'm curious in knowing whether you choose the interests based on: a) Stuff you have done/like doing, b) Stuff you haven't done but would be willing to, or c) Stuff you are aroused by (eg watching/movies/hearing stories about) but not necessarily something you would actually try. Also, how often do people look at these, or how often do you look for people interested in "x" or "y". Do you ever rule out meeting someone based on their listed interests? I sometimes see profiles of complete newbies from the vanilla world (it says so in their profile), yet they have ticked almost every sexual interest. Do you think it would be beneficial to divide these interests into seperate categories (like another unnamed site does) of things you personally enjoy and things you are curious about. Just for general discussion :)

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RHP User

8 years ago

things I've done or am up for. And now that I've said that, I'll have to check what I've selected 😀 I'll report back 😉

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RHP User

8 years ago

So the things I have selected that I haven't yet done, but will when the opportunity is there are: Sexual Interests: mmf bi Fetish: bukkake, Cross-dress, water sports and gangbang and I'm 100% up for all of the above, but am fussy so they will happen when they happen. I just love sex so I don't feel I'm missing out by not experiencing any of them, but look forward to new experiences, excited about what the future brings Re how I read other preferences, I have to be honest, I don't very often 😀

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MrPlayful

8 years ago

Question 1 - a and b. I wouldn't lost a C, it's false advertising lol. More to the point though, could mislead someone. Question 2 - all the time. Especially when looking as a couple.. If a single isn't bi, no thanks, we want everyone to be involved and have as much fun as everyone else. If a couple is only interested in soft swap, not for us. Question 3 - no need to split things up, it's pretty obvious what it means I think. And where it isn't, well we can converse with the other party to work out what works for everyone. Rule number one, sort out the rules before you play. Rule number two, never forget rule number one.

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Sawadee

8 years ago

... Until you meet the a b c is a subtle indication , a creation of interests. It's the face to face that determines wether you can pull it off or not.

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RHP User

8 years ago

I am so bad at quizzes..and I prefer to chat to someone that way I have discovered things I would never have thought of.:) Q

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'Qefenta1' I am so bad at quizzes..and I prefer to chat to someone that way I have discovered things I would never have thought of.:) Q I'm just simply asking the audience... Would you like to phone a friend? :)

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RHP User

8 years ago

What a good idea .Now I have to find one :) Q

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Livingandloving2

8 years ago

Interested in finding out more - this is all about discovering what we like as we grow in experience. I personally only rule out those who don't practice safe sex.... Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

There's one that I think has camming or video and phone sex/sexting in together, something like that anyway. I think they should split moving or live footage. It's a firm no from me for any video footage for discretion and security, but as it reads, it appears I'm into camming so can lead people on. Love phone sex but only with guys I've formed a strong connection with, along with sexting, just not camming 😃

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PurePeony

8 years ago

ITM2, since you mentioned it... I'd love camming but only if I'm wearing a masquerade mask to disguise my identity, and goodness gracious... I hope I won't turn blue from sucking in my tummy! LOL!!! OP, I chose my interests based on options a and b. There are a few kink options that aren't included in the list. Maybe RHP should include an "Others" option and leave space for people to type in their preferences.

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MrPlayful

8 years ago

Some things are best kept secret until you have that naughty flirty chit chat as the lead up to before you meet!

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