Introduction and the Offer

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Where are you meeting these people? I could imagine they'd be more likely to say yes in a swingers club than a cafe. Maybe the clubs would be a good place to start? Ps I know you didn't ask, but may I suggest you update your profile? Mentioning your 2013 plans doesn't really show people your putting any effort into this in my humble opinion. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  You two should have an understanding of what and who you want, and be able to communicate to each other, be it a nod or a wink if you are comfortable with the "extras" If you are both comfortable, then ask us if we'd like to head off somewhere else with you... 😈 You two need to be happy with who you are with, and not be taking one for the team... Hp xo Because you're worth it...

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Why don't you try, 'Would you like to come home with us?' Danny

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  ....... at 30 something, a smile should just about do it ! ..... Meanders comment about the aproapriate forum ..... ie like minded ....... look at private party's in the events, pleasure lounge if your more adventurous. ...... Or tee up a private meet ? ....., not that hard really ? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Practice makes perfect. Like anything you have to put yourself out there and I am sure you will get better at the offer each time. It's the only way.

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  inspirit

  10 years ago

  Good Luck. I found the Pilbara very limited and not one single club in the whole area :-)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Just do what we do. We meet them at the door naked.

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  wetrynplease

  10 years ago

  Thank you, someone that understands our frustration... It is as though we are intimidated or scared to ask, we just don't know how to approach this topic as there isn't any swingers clubs or even a night club in town... Our best bet is the pub and walking up to someone and Say "hey, you're cute. Want to come home with us?"

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Hi trynplease, I am local to you and would like to send pics of me on email but can't message your profile. Could you email me on vwbeepbeep@gmail.com Iam 32female blonde

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  We are having trouble getting things started on here as well - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  It is very difficult to arrange contacts. This is a life of sexual frustration. So difficult to walk up to somebody and say 'how about it'. There is no known swinger group or know acquaintances in town. One would think that with a university here and the business activity it would be easy. Frustrated. Often horny.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  So. Who the hell goes up to someone and says how about it? Sorry but you all have to make the effort and chat people up, a bit of flirtation, hell buy a few people a drink or two. Seriously! Get talking to people. I don't understand. When you are talking to people you can tell after a few raunchy comments who may be into it by the look in their eyes. Can't you?

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  ReyandJean

  9 years ago

  Tryn We know what you mean. It's like being tongue tied teenagers again. We've learnt from others more experienced that the well worn "Let's sit somewhere more comfortable" ( like the edge of a bed) Or "Let me feel those .... Muscles" And other icebreakers lets you both convey interest and seriousness, and helps move things forward. We'd love to be able to pick up in bars, but that's way beyond our comfort zone!

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  We are so excited and on such a high. We have just joined and had no idea what to expect.. we have had some private messages and tonight met an awesome couple... god we both feel like teenagers again.............WE LOVE RHP ALREADY

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