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Is Bi really Bi
October 03 2013
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
The question is do you enjoy it when he touches and or sucks your "cock" ?
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Ummmmmm.... Don't look now, but you're swimming in the waters you say you don't want to test. A guy sucks your cock with your consent = you're Bi..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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precious142
11 years ago
maybe bi - curious.... I have FWB who wants to experience a guy doing oral on him, but no desire to do the same........so we are discussing what that makes him - I'm leaning towards curious for now!
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Beachlover1999
11 years ago
I don't think so......lol I love having sex with girls.....rarely....when I fancy it.....more fantasy than regular.........like playing a game....but I love men more 100% I define people who are bi as loving girls and guys 50/50. I had that very conversation years ago with some lesbian girls and they were offended that I would even think of myself as bi so that was the benchmark I have considered since, not necessarily correct of course!!! Can I ask this then? I have had sex with a number of guys who love being digitally penetrated anally but would never ever consider themselves as bi or are they? Of course as long as we love it who cares!!!!! ;)))
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am the same. It's different in group play the things you do. I suppose I am experimental but I don't see myself as bi, I see myself as straight but one who plays with some women in group situations. It's a bit of fun, but I never seek women out, they are not my real interest. Mind you I think I may have fallen for a women before. To me a bi-sexual person is someone who will have sex one on one with both sexes, and have a relationship. Most people will tell me denial is not a river in Egypt. But I just don't associate myself as bi. I prefer experimental.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A guy will let someone he isn't attracted to suck his cock. So I don't think you can say he is bi. I met a guy once who saw himself as straight but just liked to fuck and suck guys in group situations when women were around. So performing for the women if you will. He himself was a top, never a bottom. And he had no gag reflex. Watching him deep throat was amazing!! LOL. 😛😛😛
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RHP User
11 years ago
I should add that he saw himself as a straight man ... So all those couples and girls who wouldn't go near a bi guy make me laugh. You just never know about people and they won't tell you.
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precious142
11 years ago
I hear what you are saying.......my FWB wants me to be there at the time as well......maybe that way it doesn't seem "gay" or bi"???
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey bud, if you say your straight and that's how's you want to label yourself then your straight. :-) Mr Funky (.)(.)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't consider myself Bi because i can't imagine being in a solo relationship with a woman. That doesn't mean i don't love the scent, taste and feel of a woman....it just means i'm more attracted to men. As another lovely unicorn puts it.......More Bi than Bi curious....more straight than Bisexual. Sexuality is a spectrum, we all fall somewhere on that plane......most are further to one end than the other, many are in the centre somewhere or slightly to one side of the centre.
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RHP User
11 years ago
All it makes you is.... well...... you.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Defined..... ..."Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior toward both males and females"... Justifying the circumstances of HOW you do it just reinforces the fact that you ARE doing it Be happy if you choose it. DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A sexual act is not bi or gay. It's who you are attracted too. Makes no sense. I like a anal sex so am I gay? No. If a guy likes a woman doing something to his butt does not make him attracted to men. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Still doesn't feel right. I am not interested in women at all. Why should I call myself bi? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is that his first time with a man? I sometimes get emails from guys who want me to take them to a bi club or arrange a threesome because some how they feel better about the fact a woman will be there, but I think a lot of the time they are bi or gay and unsure of taking that step. As in attracted to men and will probably see men on their own eventually. I think? I have never actually met any of these guys as they are usually attached and can't tell their wives or girlfriends. I feel sorry for them but I am not going to go just to hold their hand. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'GavinMcSparkles' All it makes you is.... well...... you. I'm a different me depending on who I'm with. Fuck now I'm confused ... *walks out scratching her head*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Does it matter what label you put on anything? Why not just enjoy life?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think they call it heteroflexible :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm 100% Bi, would or never have a solo relationship as you put it or live with a guy, Funny how different peoples views which respect vary on what make a person straight, bi or GAY. I'm happily married to a beautiful woman, just dig sex with guys too. Mr Funky (.)(.) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your spot on dude!! Mr Funky (.)(.) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
My profile says: "I’ve listed my orientation as Anything, as I’m not into labeling things. I am more than bi-curious, but less than fully bi-sexual. In a one-on-one situation I’m predominantly attracted to men, but I’m very much into playing with women in a moresome."
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
oh dear here we go again bi or straight guys who knows. I don't judge what every happens in bed stays in bed. I know I am bi because I can enjoy sex with either male or female. listen Bisexual doesn't mean that I am desperate for sex. being bi sexual isn't easy gays want you to commit to one side or the other. and couples think you are bi because you just want to fuck everything you can. I class myself as half male and half female. love clothes love fixing my car getting grease on my face. I am a guy with female traits grew up with girls love them; love to poke them with my cock. look like a man but have a girl inside me. no I don't want a sex change unless you can give me one of each a pussy and a cock. happy to be both. I guess I am weird sexually split
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've never in my whole life found another guy attractive or had an impulse to fuck them.However, in a group I've played with guys, mostly soft play. If the sex is great it can be a shame to put up walls and stop the flow. I don't worry about being bi or bi-curious. But I do need a woman in the room as well to get really turned on.So I personally have thought a lot about it, like you. Changed my profile through all the orientations thinking too much. Gay, bi, bi-curious, experimental or anything (hmmmn really ANYTHING Mesmerised!?), it's all about our own unique pursuit of self-discovery through pleasure! Drop the labels and be free to do as you like. Take and give your pleasures where you can!! Might be worth noting, I was initiated into the finer joys of anal play (give and take) by a woman.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I see this kind of thread all the time on RHP, the answer is very simple if you have sex with both sexes you are bi... that's it... bi meaning 2 or both and sex meaning just that Cheers all Dash
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RHP User
11 years ago
how can you get a proper response from those here that don't know you, when you don't even know yourself.To simplify things, yes your bi, move on
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks guys for your feed bak :) I now know I'm clearly st8 with a open mind to group play as I've given this more though I just can't say no to the female body as a complete desire :)) Thanks
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RHP User
11 years ago
so all the guys sucking cock and fucking in jail are Bi/gay. guys will stick their dick in anything if they are horny enough. i laugh at all this straight, bi ,gay shit. sex is sex whatever and whoever your doin it with. if im horny dont bend over lmfao
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RHP User
11 years ago
For a start, nothing makes you Bi. If you feel Bi then wear it, if you don't then don't.From what I read your a straight guy who doesn't mind who sucks his dick when playing, so thats what you are.I haven't played with a guy one on one, maybe I will, maybe not. But in a group or couple situation I love it, I hesitate to call myself bi, I think my profile says experimental, Heteroflexible works for me.And mate Bi is not a dirty word, lighten up
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RHP User
11 years ago
hi all I think we can get a little bit carried away about labeling our sexuality and what others think of us if your with consenting adults and it starts to get experimental and your curiousdon't over think it relax give it a shot you might just surprise your self cheers- Posted from rhpmobile
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precious142
11 years ago
That is the question....... I'm liking the hetroflexible name.......wonder how many people will get the meaning????
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RHP User
11 years ago
What's the problem play with the same sex and its Bi, its really simple. Don't see anything wrong with it go for it, but don't cry to us about labels "Its Bi" and so what!
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