RHP

RHP User

M51 F51

Is RHP all its cracked up to be...??????

August 07 2013

Well after being on RHP for quite some time..... we have had little to no response to our profile.....   So I ask the question.. is RHP all its cracked up to be...??   Is it our profile..?? is it the fact we are new and have never done anything like this..??? or is that we live in TAS..???   we have had lots of folk look at our profile.... most of them are male or couples.. (both of we are not seeking..)   we have had 2 couples contact us but as I say we are new and only want to take it slow.... and our first stop isn't going to be a couple on couple.....   any tips and hints would be great....

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your profile states you are chasing the Unicorn (single female), perhaps look at expanding to include couples?Humour is strong in your profile which is super cute :)good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    On your profile it says, you want the unicornthat is the single woman who wants to play with a couple. They are rare for a number or reasons.they may not be bi, or they might just want a man or a couple of men to themselves.the best thing is to go to events. As in a swingers , that way you can meet in a social setting and see how you are attracted. a single woman will soon let you know she wants to play with you both.also get rid of the wig picture, sorry but to me its a bit silly put up the stuff that shows that nice chest and arms and cut the funny bits out, humour can be a bit of an odd thing at times.what tickles your fancy may not do it for others, so wait till your with a person in the flesh.try couples, every one has boundary so maybe some soft play stuff first, little flirting a little play with each other in front of people.dont give up, just tweak your profile and be patientfinding a single girl is like fly fishing, takes time and a good sense of seduction.good luck with it guys, its sure worth it has been for me anyway cheersLadyT

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    11 years ago

    And while you're still in the process of finding your feet here pay for a membership, it helps others find you.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    But my recreational pastimes aside...... the profile.... was uninspiring.Sure, Im not your target demographic, but one word tainted it.Spoil... repeated.That made the profile reads as though the M was the only one who wrote it. Just saying.And in a site where there are a LOT of pretenders..... you need to avoid looking like one too.As T said.... add some detail.Look through the profiles you AIM to attract, your target demographic, and see the kind of effort and energy they exhibit.Mirror that, with personalisation to your own personality as a couple.... give people more of an idea why they should contact you, or, accept your contact. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    RHP - like other sites of this nature, is what you make of it. I'm only going to make a comment on your location - being in Tassie must suck, just as it does being in a regional area outside of a big city, your options are limited and you need to rely on some of the locals being game to search for you - in various ways, parties and meet&greets are few and far between :-)Stick with it, and you might be rewarded, I am only starting out and have already met a few interesting friends...!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    your three questions. 1. yes definitely 2.nope,probably not. 3.awwww c'mon..you SO know the answer to this one...it's a tiny island ffs.

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    11 years ago

    I've been here for about 10 years I thinkI've not hooked up with manyBut I don't try real hardAre you proactive in your searching or are you waiting for the unicorn round up to head your way ?Being in Tas won't help due to limited numbers... maybe some dirty weekends away in Melbourne should be on your fuckit list

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    11 years ago

    What you are asking for is in shortage...what you are offering may not be as gr8...check out what others are offering and where you stand...I don't think it has much to do with RHP. Most adult sites are simply as good as users. RHP have most features. it is unlikely it will get better then this in online scene.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think one of your main problems is that you're in Tassie and people might be scared to meet in case they know you. We live in Canberra and come across people we know ALL THE TIME and its annoying.Also add some more info on your girl, too many 'ask me' answers left blank makes us think a guy wrote the profile without the girls help (or knowledge)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quite boring.....but I'm not your demographic either as DG has said. It's also formatted in what reads like dot points.....where's the reflection of personalities that seem to be exhibited in your photos??? I would've written this profile off as a fake, had it not been for the forum thread. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The ever elusive single female wanted to join couple. ? They do exist' but so do dinosaur eggs. This' I would say is most sought after activity for couples on RHP . In a ideal world, they should be falling over them selfs to get to you. In the real world' they don't. Me thinks if you still keen you might as well get on the end of the line and patiently wait til the Bigfoot makes a appearance. My suggestion is to relax some of your demands and look to making it a little more viewer friendly.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    If you do not have a pic with your mower. I doubt anyone would contact you.Mado, Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    RHP been nothin but awesome in my experience...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hallo ;Just about everything will depend on how open you are willing and capable of being. One thing I have found very useful is to create my own website and then to publish openly about my interests.RedHotPie is good as far as it goes but its content is not accessible to search engines. These days, potentially interested people don't bother joining organisations they just plug keywords into their favourite search engine and eagerly scan the results. The entire Internet then becomes your network.Message me and I'll show you what certainly worked for me. Even got me accepting an invitation to be interviewed on a Perth radio station, way back in 2004. I had no idea there was such interest in my 'hobby' .Eric aka Bottom_Liner

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I find it kinda hard to know why your experience has been so good. I just looked at your profile and come up with the following honest criticisms. Picture climbing the rock... Well' Oh' nice arse....The picture on the beach... Ohh' very nice arse.... (did I repeat myself ? )On the bed... Ohhhhhhh my god On the bed #2.. Ohhhhh Ahhhhh ... cold spoon plz.... Damn... Guess I'll just have to look harder next time.... Jay...

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    11 years ago

    OK So I am part of a couple but I am the F part. I have considered playing as a single woman with a couple because I would like to see what that dynamic feels like. These are the reasons why I would pass you over;Firstly the lady (F??) of you guys is straight. For me if I was going to play with a couple by myself I would need to interact sexually with you both.Secondly as has already been said this looks like a profile written by M (I won't use the word gentleman for a person who describes his wife as F!) with no input by the lady. So it kind of leads me to ask does she want this. The fact that you are seeking a single girl for your first encounter but the lady of the couple is not interested in women screams out that the guy of the couple wants to fuck another girl but he is not prepared to share his wife. This is NOT cool. Sorry but my experience of unicorns as limited as it is tells me that they are not interested in being involved with a guy like that.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    You know..... profiles have words too And sometimes.... they even say more than just "horny and in need of attention now!" etc ;-) DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your profile to be lacks maturity.The photos, showing you both having 'fun'.....just makes you look a little 'young'You haven't inputted all your details about yourself....penis size, breast size etc etc. Its off putting thinking you need to ask. Just put it out thereHow you have written your profile says nothing really about who you both are and what you're like. I don't know, it just doesn't flow.I hope you can take this as construcitve critism. Why not perhaps let your lady play alone with women and see if she can find a friend to share at a later stage perhaps

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You can find them online.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You know what, you have the pictures that you feel comfortable having there. All those people above ^^^ are obviously not going to be your cup of tea so you aren't wanting to attract them. I think fun photos are great, but then again I do prefer people that are light hearted and don't take sex and this whole RHP thing so seriously. It's about standing out and making single women feel comfortable, which your pictures may do. Makes you appear down to earth regular people not some glamour pusses which I think puts lots of single women off as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As has already been mentioned, unicorns are not the easiest to find. It may help if you upgraded your membership and started actively seeking someone rather than waiting for all the unicorns to message you. That may sound a little negative, but I mean it in an honest and constructive way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    How do you even change ur username? Extremely new to this site and no idea how..also how long once you hv paid for membership does it take to use the messages etc ? Thx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Trying to find that out too?! Very new to this and didn't realise there was a whole "unicorn" thing going on ?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I assume if your a single man, then NO as men outnumber the women here. If your a single lady ,i think you have a lot of guys vying for your attention.That's how it seems to be in the chat room ,one poor lady is trying to have a convo with 50 guys hahah!It's the seagull on a chip mentality on RHP , to many seagulls and only one chip ahahah!For couples ,i assume they would be very busy with both girls and guys altho i should not comment on couples as IDK!No one looks at my profile , life is great being the grey guy !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well as a couple seeking a female so far only views we hv had are from single men and mainly couples? One female has made contact but we can't contact her back yet as payment still hasn't processed! And yes I totally agree so far it seems to be the single ladies can take their pick ..good for them tho !- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well blow me down... I seriously did'nt have a clue ; but I'm not too worried ' I have these special guardian angels who follow me around hanging on my every word and jump at the chance to let me know ....so no biggy... Now we can all sleep ...