jaycon987

jaycon987

M30

Is age a big factor in decision making?

March 18 2021

I'm having a bit of trouble in understanding people's perspectives on RHP and what is to my understanding a bit of lack of refinement or hypocrisy. My understanding with the age bracket that individuals put in place on their account is set as an indicator for what you are looking for, naturally if someone is outside that bracket there is a very good chance that the individual is not after someone of that particular age which is fair enough in itself. Where my issue arises is where you fall comfortably in the age bracket and align with alot of the individuals interested but in messaging you are told you are too young. In addition to this seeing an individual profile and seeing that they have friends that are the same age if not younger. And I realise that being 'friends' on the account isn't the same as talking or seeing someone. Am I looking to hard into this? I want your thoughts

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    4 years ago

    Just a line. They're simply not interested in you. To avoid the possible upset/aggressive exchange that may ensue, they feed you that line. You're also assuming they've met and played with those on their friend's list, which is seldom the case. Irrespective, just because I've thoroughly enjoyed one 22 year old (for example) certainly doesn't mean I'll enjoy them all. During chat a woman knows when there's no initial chemistry. Be gracious and polite and onto the next.

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    4 years ago

    Further to the fat ones comment.... They may also just haven’t updated their profile to reflect the change of heart....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I agree with Fiesty. If they’re not interested, they’re not interested. It doesn’t matter what the reason is. At least you got a reply ...

  • badboyhere

    badboyhere

    4 years ago

    Yep no point looking too much into it. It will not be about age. Just another easy way of saying “sorry you not what I’m looking for in here”. Move on and good luck in your RHP travels