Is it Me, Or am I just a Sook???

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  Eiliethiya

  6 years ago

  it's easy enough to say "don't take it personally", but I have been in similar situations..and even telling yourself it's THEM and not you, you still wonder what it is about you that makes them treat you or talk to you that way :(I have no advice unfortunately, except to say you're not alone, and it happens to most people at some point (not ALL, for those about to argue the point) ;)

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Using this type of platform to meet people leaves you wide open to scrutiny of both the mind and body. You will be preliminarily judged based on your looks and the small amount of your personality you can offer via your profile wording to deem potential suitability for further contact. It’s hard to be judged - in any form. There will always be rejections sadly and yes it is hard to take. It beats and batters the confidence and makes you wonder whether this is worth it. But once in a while you’ll come across someone who gives you the time of day, who sees you for the beautiful person you deserve to be seen as. Theses people make it worthwhile. Don’t give thought to those who’s words put you down - you get to choose who’s words means something to you, choose wisely. Head up, keep being bold, keep being beautiful and you’ll find that needle who will rock your world. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  MissRedFox

  6 years ago

  And most people I come across have similar stories. For whatever reason we seem to be a point where manners and reliability have gone out the window. Keep searching, what you're looking for is out there OK I may have been just as much reassuring myself there XX - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  It's not you, I think s lot of people just get a thrill from a lady chatting to them I have looked st your profile awhile ago and you are straight up and honest so don't worry it is them Keep happy

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  Self confidence is always a work in progress. You have to constantly top it up. I do that with music a lot. My go to song atm is-: This Is Me Keala Settle, The Greatest Showman Ensemble I am not a stranger to the dark Hide away, they say 'Cause we don't want your broken parts I've learned to be ashamed of all my scars Run away, they say No one'll love you as you are But I won't let them break me down to dust I know that there's a place for us For we are glorious When the sharpest words wanna cut me down I'm gonna send a flood, gonna drown them out I am brave, I am bruised I am who I'm meant to be, this is me Look out 'cause here I come And I'm marching on to the beat I drum I'm not scared to be seen I make no apologies, this is me Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh, oh Another round of bullets hits my skin Well, fire away 'cause today, I won't let the shame sink in We are bursting through the barricades and Reaching for the sun (we are warriors) Yeah, that's what we've become (yeah, that's what we've become) I won't let them break me down to dust I know that there's a place for us For we are glorious When the sharpest words wanna cut me down I'm gonna send a flood, gonna drown them out I am brave, I am bruised I am who I'm meant to be, this is me Look out 'cause here I come And I'm marching on to the beat I drum I'm not scared to be seen I make no apologies, this is me Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh-oh Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh, oh This is me and I know that I deserve your love (Oh-oh-oh-oh) 'cause there's nothing I'm not worthy of (Oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh-oh-oh, oh, oh) When the sharpest words wanna cut me down I'm gonna send a flood, gonna drown them out This is brave, this is proof This is who I'm meant to be, this is me Look out 'cause here I come (look out 'cause here I come) And I'm marching on to the beat I drum (marching on, marching, marching on) I'm not scared to be seen I make no apologies, this is me When the sharpest words wanna cut me down I'm gonna send a flood, gonna drown them out I'm gonna send a flood Gonna drown them out Oh This is me

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Than what has already been written but be reassured it is definitely not you. NO ITS NOT I’ve had it happen to me I do not believe it’s your body shape at all. Sometimes once you start chatting off site the chemistry is just not there and that’s happen to me or you find the person not as interesting as you once thought Or As I have found, they disappear due to a unexplainable force of nature I’ve noticed more men seem to be able to KIK me between the hours of 9am - 5pm, but from 5.32pm until 8.54am the following morning they disappear into a mythical place where their IPhone X fails to work or the coverage of Telstra, Optus and Vodafone combined, fail to show bars on their phones. This phenomenon also regularly appears on a Friday arvo, same time from 5.32pm and can last up to 72 hours till Monday morning again 8.54am or apparently their phone has been on silent ALL weekend after they forgot to turn it off silent after work finished Curious phenomena So Busty, there is many factors to consider but far from it, being you Annies song says it all. A great anthem

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Youre not a sook and who givs a fk if people think you are...well fk them to...rejection?...there is no rejection with strangers though a medium like this where profiles and pics are merely superficial BS. Its more luck and a roll of the dice if we meet someone worthwhile on here...half the pics don't even look like the person in real life and most people talk shit and tell you what you wana hear. Fk em...well that's my deep and meaningful for tonight ..good luck girl.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Just a lot of fucked up men who like to play with people's feelings. Don't change a thing. I for the life of me don't understand why people have to play games which leave you questioning your self worth. They are not worthy my lovely - Posted from rhpmobile

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  OkeyDoke45

  6 years ago

  I remember your last forum topic was in a similar vein. If I remember correctly you had met some lovely people and had some good times on here, but then a few bad apples made you want to close down your account. Internet dating is fraught with trying to not just throw your hands up in despair. May I suggest that you think of internet dating as a wheelbarrow that is mostly filled with bad apples, with a few good ones buried in there somewhere. If you want the good apples you have to pick your way through the bad ones, which is laborious and frustrating. I really am not trying to be nasty here, same as the last time, but this arena is not a good one for the fragile.

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  FeistyFatty

  6 years ago

  After reading this post and your previous post a few weeks ago i really feel you need to grow thicker skin. Attraction is fickle and we are all drawn to different things and seek different things from this site. Some people relish is the chase.... some in the catch. Sounds like you may (forgive me if I am wrong) be presenting yourself as easy pickens and then getting your hopes up at the same time. We all get rejected in some way, shape or form its how we handle that and pull up our big girl or big boy panties and move onto the next thats important. And never automatically assume its because you're a large lady. I'm a large lady too so i can understand its easy to go to that fallback but its not always the case. Sometimes you van very quickly ascertain that there's zero mental attraction to someone and therefore you jump ship so as to not waste each others time. Maybe thats what is happening also?? Consider these not so good outcomes as bullets dodged and keep on truckin babe. Don't let it sour your time here x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  The_Phoenix

  6 years ago

  Pipsqueak nailed it. Plenty of time wasters. They will never meet and it’s just a cop out as they can’t maintain a decent sense of conversation past “wanna fuck” Definitely not you my dear. Try not to take it on board. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  What they said...

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  There is a lot to factor in, just because all the boxes tick whilst reading a persons profile when you start having a conversation some of the boxes become blank and I have found that women are as much to blame as men. Also the cost of a subscription to this site is a tad expensive compared with others. My advice is keep your chin up and soldier on and the person you’re looking for is going to be just around the corner - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  Well his subject heading is right... "Not me"

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Sadly on any online site you will come across those spoiled arses who feel they can say what they wish without thinking of others. There are always good eggs, just got to find them. I guess maybe don't be too overly excited over contacts as one minute you could be chatting and the next you are blocked, there are so many options being the reason why. I feel the best advice has already been given in don't take it personally and thicken that skin cause there will always be a turd around the corner.

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