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Is it Weird??

July 04 2011

We have been together for 12 yrs & are very, very happy & have no intention of cheating. Swinging has always come up in conversation but never actually acted upon. We have been on RHP for a bit & have met a guy who we have met up with on a couple of occasions. We all get along really well & have had great times. I love to watch her being fingered & she loves it too but i feel like its weird that I want the women I love being fingered by another man. Does anyone else who swings have these thoughts & feels the same? Why do i feel like i'm so weird for liking it?(MR)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Mr. TnT the one thing I've learnt on here, is absolutely nothing is weird So you obviously get off on your girl getting off, and in a typically voyeuristic manner. Nothing wrong with that at all Whatever blows your hair back

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Whether we are single or a couple, this is a journey of exploration...and as with anything, something new is bound to feel different at first. Think about your favourite old pair of shoes...they probably didn't fit just quite right when you first came home either. That's not wierd...that's normal, and you just need to walk around the house for a bit to make sure they fit or take them back to the store. | What I might suggest is to talk to your partner...use sentences that start with "I feel" rather than "I think" and I am sure she will do the same in return. I hate to admit it, but women are usually better at talking about their feelings than men are...it's part of the celebration of the differences. | Some things you do and share together might feel strange at first, again that's normal as we are playing outside the set of rules that have been handed down to us by a broader society that is probably doing a lot of things that are different too...they just don't tell you about the good stuff. | Once the two of you have talked, you might find that it's not all that strange and you both enjoy it. That makes it perfectly normal for the two of you...wierd is left of science, like the television show. If there is a difference of opinion or you both put it in the "strange" box...then it's not for you then just move on. | The difference between strange and normal can be as simple as a conversation...and just make sure you are both enjoying the journey. Not talking about it... | ...now that, is wierd.

  • sexyskier

    sexyskier

    13 years ago

    So the queston is when are you going to allow her to be fucked by another guy ? If you love and trust each other - then is it not good to see each other have some fun and pleasure ! I find that I get off and very horny, watching my guy pleasing another girl and knowing he will do the same to me later ! And it is the same in return I believe ! After a 3some session we have the best sex ever ! And that is why we love 3somes !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I get amazed what turns me on sometimes ..as lond as your head is cool then go with it..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    As long as she is enjoying it and not just doing it to please you. In my line of work nothing is weird anymore. Bit sad really........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Aww come on...surely every once in a while even you have to walk away shaking your head? | Quoting 'MistressT' In my line of work nothing is weird anymore. Bit sad really........ | Let me guess...the guy that I referred to you that had a thing for hang gliders, handcuffs and flying upside down until he crash landed in a pile of freshly collected organic fertilizer from 50 feet up hasn't called you yet? | ...oh well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Aww come on...surely every once in a while even you have to walk away shaking your head? | Quoting 'MistressT' In my line of work nothing is weird anymore. Bit sad really........ | Let me guess...the guy that I referred to you that had a thing for hang gliders, handcuffs and flying upside down until he crash landed in a pile of freshly collected organic fertilizer from 50 feet up hasn't called you yet? | ...oh well. I wondered why someone was waving madly at me as my partner and I took off in his Microlight the other weekend. Pity I couldn't wave back as my hands were freezing and I had to keep them tucked away. Better send him over and make sure he has his own shovel.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    So you did cross paths then... | Quoting 'MistressT'I wondered why someone was waving madly at me as my partner and I took off in his Microlight the other weekend. | ...and as it seems not only did he wave, but did it with both hands. I told him not to worry, you would strap him in or onto something and he fell out! This story has a happy ending though as he just ended up safely... | ....Resting In Poop.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I would love to see my lady pleasuring another man and also being pleasured by him. I would love to sit back and watch for a bit before I too joined in. I always have this awesome vision of my lady with another mans cock in her mouth and and seeing the enjoyment as she puts on a show for me. mmmmmmmmm Jack