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Is it me?

September 01 2017

Hi all, We are a couple that have been active on RHP for a few months now, and while we seem to get some messages and replies of interested play partners, we've found that of the ladies we start messaging, our success rate of even getting that first drinks occasion happening is very minimal. Do others find they have the same issue? We are polite and respectful by nature, but it seems that nice couples really do finish last! Any feedback/ advice on how to have more success in landing some dates? Thanks!

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RHP User

7 years ago

Too many. Big turn off for the ladies, they like information and you cultivate suspicion especially the smoking.

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RHP User

7 years ago

I think it's common of reading other couples comments are anything to go by.

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RHP User

7 years ago

I think you're looking for a little more than just a few friendly drinks.There are ladies who meet couples on here, one of my regulars does this often however your after something that it extremely rare which is why they're referred to as "unicorns"

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RHP User

7 years ago

...from a not-so-innocent bystander standing by? Why not go through your profile and add more details as the first thing I noticed was that there are enough ''Ask me'' spaces in there to make even a lenient jury quite suspicious right from the word go. You may just find that those that seek you out are both better informed and more interested/interesting that what you've experienced thus far...and certainly the best of luck to you both on your journey. CM...really it is, just ask me!

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AnnieWhichway

7 years ago

Put some effort to filling your profile out. Unicorns are rare, you need to give them all the info up front as they get so many messages. Some more public photos would help too Good luck

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AnnieWhichway

7 years ago

SaIlbadthesinner said, not Candy....derr

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LetsFrolic

7 years ago

alot of people dont meet from here.. alot of feedback from others says the same too. It may be a few messages and then nothing. Im even up for getting nothing and just touching and pleasing a woman with massage. Just how rhp seems to be - Posted from rhpmobile

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gazpacho

7 years ago

All the truly single ladies ought to be very popular, and it must surely be overwhelming. Unfortunately all the effort will be one sided. Hugs G

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DynamicCouple36

7 years ago

With too many missing sections and "ask me's". Would help also to get admin to verify your profile. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

The trick with finding unicorns is not looking for unicorns lol. Works for us! - Posted from rhpmobile

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HotNightsGC

7 years ago

Single bi women get inundated with messages, so it's best to let her view your profile that leaves no questions unanswered. It's never gonna be an easy persuit for any couple but definitely worth the effort to find and meet with an awesome single lady 😍 Good luck xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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Mischeviouslad

7 years ago

Your heading said *is it me* I think that might be a Freudian slip..... when you should be asking *is it US* Perhaps the messages and connection is being lost because the others Or as is often the case..... the couples you are messaging are just the male, and they feel they are just messaging the male of your couple. Just a thought DG.

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RHP User

7 years ago

We agree with Mischievouslad. There is no room for Freudian Slips. Also if a profile is full of "ask me" we move on. Let's face it life is short and should be full of sexy times, fun and laughter. 🔔🔔🔔 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Just had a look and ask me is gone. Guys if those are your bodies....damn! give them some more pics. Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

If your going to leave smoking as "ask me" you may as well say smoking because that's how it will be interpreted.Just saying.

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