Is it ok or not ok, Attached Persons

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  xFunlovingx

  14 years ago

  Not here to judge anyone. I am not in an attached/married persons shoes...so, why would I judge. There are heaps of people out there that will do attached people. It is up to the individual on the other end if they want to go there or not, but if they call you scum and whatever...then they have their own problems. It's so sad when this world is still so judgemental in the 21st Century on others. Your life, do what you want with it!! xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Would your wife approve of you being here, and what will happen if she ever cottons on? As others have said, we aren't  here to judge you, we don't know your circumstances and its really none of our business.If you want to play with fire thats your call.Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  .....when they have lied, been dishonest, neglected to clarify to the person/persons they contact on rhp about their relationship status. Personally, I am not interested in men who are attached, married, or in an open relationship but there are many women who are. Whatever happens between a couple for one of them to explore this site without the other's knowledge is purely between the two of you, I dont want or need to know. All I ask for is the honesty about your situation so that I have the information to make a choice that is right for me....if you present yourself as single and you are married ect, then you have cheated me....... .......and that is when I would call you cheating scum.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We think thats your call and none of our bussiness, but weather we chose to play with you thats our call. It is surprising just how many play couples are out there, they are married to others but play together. We even came across a master (guy married) and his slave (single shela) she is happy to obey her master!looking to play with a couple. Am sure you will find what you are looking for. For best results stick with your partner and talk about playing together as a foursome, much better than open relationships as well in our books.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  You and your partner are the only two with any chance of properly answering the questions as to whether you should or shouldn't be here. Surely you already know then answers? Just because they might be "No, it's not okay", it doesn't mean that you shouldn't be here - it just means that you know that you're doing the wrong thing. Life goes on...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  BUT, can I suggest that if you want to stay in a relationship then wifey should know about it in advance and then if she is ok with it, go for it. Personally I don't cut another mans grass so I stay away from the attached ladies. That's just my choice and everyone is entitled to their own options. Their seems to be a comon thread coming through from the COUPLES on here and it may pay to remember," COUPLES THAT PLAY TOGETHER, STAY TOGETHER"

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I would only be peeking over your fence to see what you are wearing today or not

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'ORBITRON'I would only be peeking over your fence to see what you are wearing today or not We agree its allways nice But no touching...lol

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  The boundary between swinging and cheating is a bit blurred and there are degrees of marital misdemeanour. For just having a sneaky little perve at a website, the punishment may not be too severe, but for full-on wild times with another person, everyone involved should consent first. How that consent is achieved might vary between couples, and there might be some negotiation, like I will let you do that with our money if you let me do this with my body....

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  JnJcpl

  14 years ago

  Our rule is "No OK, no play".Meaning we will not play with anyone in a relationship unless their other half is fully aware and has given their blessing (or participates ).A simple rule that saves a lot of pain.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Your private life is your business not ours. Are you what we are looking for ? and agree with our rules? Then lets ,,,,playxxxxxsexxxxxx Quoting 'JnJcpl'Our rule is "No OK, no play".Meaning we will not play with anyone in a relationship unless their other half is fully aware and has given their blessing (or participates ).A simple rule that saves a lot of pain.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Do we ever really know the other half knows ? Unless of course they are sitting at the end of the bed !! But do you really know otherwise ? it is not as though we get a note saying " yes its okay to fuck my wife" signed hubby ..

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  And a cabcharge to get home i hope Sweetiepie !!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  let me just say this, if you couldn't bring yourself to actually plunge you hand into your spouse's chest and rip her/his heart out, then don't cheat. It feels exactly the same when they find out. I know because that's where I am at the moment. Ripped open. I found my husband's secret account and email after an anonymous letter - want to know what happens to your insides when you open attatchments and see your husband fucking other women? No, cheaters aren't scum - scum can be cleaned away with bleach. The stain that this leaves stays forever.And the anonymous letter - from someone he fucked who wanted more, despite their profile stating they only wanted casual no strings sex. You might think you can't get caught, but it's just a matter of time.It's so sad when this world is still so judgemental in the 21st Century on others. Your life, do what you want with it!!xfunlovingx - don't you think you're being judgemental on the ones that don't condone it? Sorry, but when you're married it's not just your life, you are part of a family. If you want it to be your life, and yours alone, then leave. And before anyone sympathises with my 'poor' husband who must have had a sexless marriage - we had regular, and good sex.

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