RHP

RHP User

M50

Is it right

April 27 2009

I join RHP after my wife did,only as she said it was fun an good for making friends.But later on i found that she was meeting guys an sometimes havin sex with them.Se said she still loved me but didnt want me around when she was out or meeting these guys an having sex.Some of the people thought she was single an others knew she was maried but she told them we were seperated.When i asked why we couldnt try these things as a couple she said dont want to.So what do u think is that cheating an wrong.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Let me get this straight your wife has been telling guys she is seperated...and your questioning is this cheating?? Ummmmm YESSSSS its cheating if your not really seperated and shes telling people she is its called lying....Heres a question for you....Do you enjoy your wife out meeting and fucking other guys?? Do you and your wife have some sort agreement where you play alone? TIT

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    well if you have given her the ok too meet an shag other people then its not cheating.. if u never said hey thats cool you can do that then I say that it is cheating... Not everything in a relationship has to be done together... jus my 2cents whats her username? jus incase she replies

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    to try to make someone do something they don't want to. maybe she'll change her mind over time? maybe not? is there any reason not to believe what she's saying? if she's lying, then i think that's cheating. if she's being strait with you, i think she's not. i don't think shagging around is cheating. but i do think deception is. LRE (feels deception = cheating)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think if she is doing this without your consent then yes it is cheating besides she is saying she is single or separated..that rings bells with me in dishonesty There are couples on here who play with their partners consent...(open Marriages) you need to talk and find out what the other wants that will keep you both happy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    And i thought my question on hot topics was half mad but this one really takes the cake... Its time to strap a set on and put your foot firmly down-- of course it cheating..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Damn right it's cheating, and she is probably spending money you don't have or likely to sooner or later. Again with out you knowing. Change your outlook. Piss her off and get out there and have some fun too. PS. can i have her number. Salty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Without sounding like a cold bitch...ditch her! Sheesh she obviously doesnt care about u or she wouldve discussed what she was going to do first. Sorry but she's walkin all over you....lifes too short, MOVE ON! :) (and good luck)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I find it interesting (having just read your 'single' male profile) that not once did you mention that you had a wife! What's really going on here?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    mate you are a tosser !!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    my question is how long did you not relise this website is for ppl to meet and do naughty things heheh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    What Temptuss said :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    The guy asked a question and you call him a tosser got nothing to add then shut the fuck up !! tosser !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Why on earth do you even need to ask. The woman is a skank and is probably just waiting for the next relationship to come along so she can leave and take you to the cleaners. Our advice? Tell her to stop immediately or get out!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    shes just likes her rooster in many different ways- ya the main rooster and she likes a bit of this and a bit of that- but not in the same chookyard:):):)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    God when will u peopl grab a brain cell and get a fuckin life. Iv been in this swinging life style for over 10 years now and i hear so many people say my parnter want this on my parnter wants this and that. At the end of the day you both agree on the terms of what u want and if u cant agree get the fuck out of swinging and stop putting stupid question like this one up. If your parnter is changing the rules to suit them and telling people all kinds of lies, besides been a dickhead for been lead u up the garden path by your woman balls and then writting on here what she is doing to u mate i know who the fools is and it isnt her grow up and go single or tell your wife u dotn want her to do it anymore if she want to keep leading the life u have your answer so pack your bags ask your wife for your balls back and hit the road

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    awesome replies! well done everyone! what a bitch. she doesnt want you to have fun, fuck she sounds like a bitter bitch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Cheating sucks. And not in a good way. Mars

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    why don't you tell as what you think.. don't go holding back now.. LOL but actually. i think you make a very good point(s) on the get your balls back thing. LRE (checking fo balls)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    At first look here I thought like others that you were just naive and getting done over by your wife. Having looked at your profile it doesn't look that clean cut. As previously mentioned you do not mention you have a wife and you state that you know what this site is all about. Hell you basically state you want to meet people for hookups only and not interested in anything else. So are you giving all the facts here. It sounded like you first found out about the site from your wife and thought it was just for friendship. I'm not so sure about this now. In any case the fact is your wife wants to play without you and thinks she can even make your life harder by making you have to 'disappear' so she can play with her friends. Sounds like you need to tell her that it is not on. If you don't mind her playing that is fine but tell her she has to do so elsewhere so it doesn't put you out. If you do mind and she doesn't want to stop then get rid of her. She obviously puts herself ahead of your feelings and isn't worth it. There is nothing worse than staying in a relationship you are not happy in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Definatley cheating and definatley wrong. O/H and I are on this together and choose and play together only. If there is something about a guy that he does'nt like for some reason or another, I respect that and move on and visa versa. Plenty of fish in the sea. lol We also stay away from ppl on the site who are attached or married but playing as a single without their partners knowledge. For us its about having fun together, experimenting and spicing up our sex life. Trust is a big thing and should'nt be toyed with. As for your situation, play it back on her, how would she react if you started meeting single ladies from the site and lied about your partnership status. And boy is she missing out by not doing things as a cpl ;)