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Is it seriously about how long you can be HARD for or how LONG you can play for

November 20 2012

My partner and I are intimately into each other - mentally and physically in every way.......we are very much focused on foreplay and the buildup and intensity to penetration which leaves us both "breathless" LOL.......so just posing a question (seen on some other forums that some woman like a man to be HARD for several hours) and is it truly about how long you can keep it HARD for or more about how long can you PLAY for - just saying?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You have that wrong. We don't want a man to be hard for hours but we do want to play for hours. There is nothing more disappointing when I guy comes within the first half hour and that's it? Nothing else? PLEASE SIR I WANT SOME MORE!

  • Splicey

    Splicey

    12 years ago

    Once I cum, I'm pretty much after a feed and a nap MrsSplicey

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    12 years ago

    Just wait for the second cumming Any man worth the time should gladly continue giving it to you until they are ready for a second round themselves...nothing wrong with a floppy tongue while a soft cock revives...but then why would it go soft on you ? ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We too think its about how long you can play but we read on some other forums that some people want men to be hard for hours ......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    its 'neither' to us...we dont want 'all night' play, or even 'long lasting' erections.....we just want honest, respectful encounters, with people who are genuinely aroused, and not chemically enhanced, and who have realistic expectations of what the evening might, or might not, include.... if thats an hour and a half of play, or even three hours, what does it matter, so long as all have a good time?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    its all about .....................................

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I recon you can play all day. It's not how long you can keep it hard. you can fiddle and touch play with your lovers bits all day. like when you walk past each other and press her up against wall or over the kitchen bench and pull her nickers down and grab a hand full. You can do that all day.Then at the end of the day when the build up gets to a high point go for it. It makes for a big crescendo of an orgasm at the end.Play is fun the build up is even better. Like British paints. Keep on keeping on don't stop.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We think Meeks is onto it, With the dynamics of two couples playing, there is not intimate / loving type foreplay we enjoy with our wives. Its more play, exploring someone different in a physical way. We do expect intercourse combined with play to be longer than 15 minutes in the bedroom. plus round two.   We have a couple rules we dont normally tell others but thru experiance we have decided. I do not have intercourse with the other lady untill her husband is having intercourse with my wife...reason some guys dont get hard so why should my wife miss out? We are thinking about extending this to giving oral as well, reason: Some guys just think about themselves they recieve oral and move straight onto intercourse.   When her husband cums with my wife, I do the same with his wife, Reason: My wife may not be satisfied, he has not given her oral, had intercourse and its all over in 10 minutes. Us guys know if we get the urge to cum to withdraw and give the lady oral.   My wife reckons some couples swing because their husbands are hopeless in bed, or they are only interested in girl / girl play. Fortunately these experiances are a minority and we have have met great couples who do think they same as us, we are meeting to play with each others partners....hehehe ......they allways go for round 2. And so what if a bit of Viagra helps when we occsionally play, we allways carry some spare.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    They do but if you do 'the math' right it will work out to about 15 minutes once every 4 hours with non-stop play in between. You can't break it but you sure as hell can wear the damn thing out in a hurry.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What's the longest you've felt "Toey", "Had something on your mind" so to speak and just enjoyed that without rushing out to "itch a scratch"! One and a half hours Sydney to Newcastle, two by the time we got to the accomodation and the three of us just went at it when we got there. Now I wasn't rock hard the whole way there but I was as horny as for two hours... and the rest of the afternoon/night. Didn't see much of newcastle that night but a fun time was had by all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ok when your married or partnered you can have sex as often as you like but when you play its often arranged and theres NOTHING more disappointing in it being over too quickly. So no not hard for hours ??? thats of course not it but yes touch play tease laugh and hopefully for as long as possible. Because for us singles we dont have our partners to have that quickie with daily. And I'm not knocking the couples just expressing a singles point of view.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Once ever hour for 15 minutes for at least four hours is the prescription of choice, then a nap, light meal or head to lounge and order another round of 'Sex on Tap' before crawling back on top of the covers or on the floor or ceiling.   I'm old but sure as hell not dead yet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    How can a man be hard for hours while shagging! Well, OK maybe with viagra but natural means, no way! Yes, I agree that the playtime should be good and solid but time is not the appropriate measure, intensity and orgasms are ;) had occassions where a quickie left both parties breathless........ but seriously remain hard for hours

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've noticed that some women are used to certain "patterns and routines" when it comes to playtime. They often don't stray too far from what their other/past lovers have done. Can't wait to find someone who is genuinely spontaneous

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Just.......lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    name eh HT.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Trying to change this name....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think I am spontaneous. At least I like to try lots of new things but I normally have to be comfortable with the people I am with. Otherwise what sort of spontaneity do you mean? Interested to know.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Torturedcliche' I've noticed that some women are used to certain "patterns and routines" when it comes to playtime. They often don't stray too far from what their other/past lovers have done. Can't wait to find someone who is genuinely spontaneous I disagree...... While your comment about women being used to certain routines is certainly correct......In effect, they have been "trained" to hold these expectations by the men they've been with..... and the women in here will tell you that most men have no idea. So when a man comes along that comprehensively shakes things up, incites her passion, and focusses on her genuine pleasure ... and not merely makes her climax to satisfy his ego..... she will not only deviate from what she is used to but she will crave and demand it from that point onwards.... ..... because the bar of expectations has been lifted. DG Nothing is that predictable not even a woman.   Each man I fuck I go with the flow, some are hard and quick, some just wank over my skirt. Some kiss with passion some hang of the shower and whistle Dixie.   I do not expect anything from anyone , sometimes I enjoy it no matter what it is. I do not believe in Unicorns   I just enjoy men, good and bad, good lovers bad lovers, I see something good in them all. Hard or soft! If a man goes all night I would be bored shitless I need sleep I am old and cranky   And ML, you may think you know what women want but until you grown your own cunt, I don’t think so.   TR big cranky cunt today.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    WHIP it in, WHOP it out, WIPE it on the curtain as you leave...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I grow a cock occasionally. It's brilliant. I totally get why men can't keep their hands off it. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I said love I said pet I said dear,you is an inspiration for more perspiration

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'tuscanred' And ML, you may think you know what women want but until you grown your own cunt, I don’t think so.   TR big cranky cunt today. I dont need one of my own..... ...I can borrow one when I like. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you. DG. made me smile   I am just fine today, managed to work of a bit of that steam...ahhh I do so love RHP where what you have grows wild   Its easy to borrow an penis though, one can order one and it arrives before the pizza if you lucky they both arrive at the same time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'tuscanred' And ML, you may think you know what women want but until you grown your own cunt, I don’t think so.   TR big cranky cunt today. I dont need one of my own..... ...I can borrow one when I like. I hope tomorrow is a better day for you. DG. made me smile   I am just fine today, managed to work of a bit of that steam...ahhh I do so love RHP where what you have grows wild   Its easy to borrow an penis though, one can order one and it arrives before the pizza if you lucky they both arrive at the same time

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I just want a man.............................................to put to test alof your theories and report accordingly ....:(           and ML..thats just gloating...