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Is it supposed to b "this hard"
January 08 2018
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
You’re lacking direction from your taxi driver.... Take the wheel and steer it yourself.... He’ll either let you steer, or jump ship.... Choice is yours... - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
You’re lacking direction from your taxi driver.... Take the wheel and steer it yourself.... He’ll either let you steer, or jump ship.... Choice is yours... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes it really is that hard Especially to find genuine couples, months of messages and still haven't found any fun people to hang out with! Genuine people should get in contact with us for some fun! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Nope 🤔 No it isn't
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RHP User
7 years ago
Firstly it sounds like you're going for numbers. You had a few at the ready within that few hours? And you seem quite demanding like a spoilt child stamping your feet, chucking your toys out of the cot because no-one will play with you 😉 Maybe slow the truck up because the any cock will do attitude will be obvious to them as well. Secondly, I almost needed a translator, lazy text speak is a turn off and quite frankly, hard to read. Your profile is full of 'n' (and) or b (be), come on thats one extra letter 😁 Listen, you're owning your bogan I assume? That's your choice, we're not born bogans lol but it's not for everyone. Men aren't disposable rags, just the same as us. Maybe treat them with respect by respecting their choice 👍
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi I here u Is there any real people on here Your a beautiful lady - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Things take time. But I have to say 200 exchange of text messages, is that overall your time here or just with the one person? Another thing, do you want hook ups (as in one offs) or on going lover/s. To me, there is a huge difference. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
To find a regular. Too many just want you to get them off through chat or if you are lucky enough to meet up it's only once or twice and then you are ghosted. I'm not out to get as many men as possible, just a regular fwb that can also come to the club or parties with me occasionally - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
7 years ago
that you have made your own bed. Checking out your profile your "about me" section seems to virtually eliminate any person that may initially show interest. You have ruled out just about every equation possible.Also as I Touch has noted, your profile is loaded with txt spk. At your age, you should be able to string together a profile without all that crap. Generally not appealling for whom you are seeking.I beleive there are a reasonable number of guys in the general Perth vicinity to choose from, so maybe a bit if a revision of your profile might help. Tall
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
I have to agree with others here that your prose is more suited to one in their 20's. A ''phat'' time? That aside, you are finding out what most other people on here find out, in about the same timeframe you have, that it is not a buffet meal here. Lots of sent messages, very few received back, a few meets that go nowhere, the occasional success. Seems about right to me.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I hate to agree with T&H (Don't take that personally T&H.. I don't like to agree with ANYONE.) BUT... "T&H says it for me"Even IF I was in your age range, I would scan quickly over your profile and move on.and it would be a "Thanks but no thanks" to a flirt from you. IF you don't just want a "Bogan root" then smarten your profile up to suit what sort of fella you are looking for..I say this shit because you asked for opinions Redz, not because I want to sound like a cunt.. Good luck, and I DO hope you pick yourself up some awesome sex friends..
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Sawadee
7 years ago
... the longer you're here without hookups , the more you tend to treat that as the norm... I'm convinced there's many here for entertainment than hookup's . I'd love to know the ratio of who's fair dinkum and who's here just for the ride ?
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Katkat
7 years ago
I don’t think you’d have any problem at all it’s just your location I guess. You’d be saying damn it’s raining men. - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
7 years ago
I can’t believe the spelling and grammar police still have a license to trade here. I’m more interested in finding out what’s a “phat time” quite frankly. Is it like a swell time, or dare I suggest... an engorged time? I’ve got half a mongrel just coming to terms with the possibilities. Hugs G - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
7 years ago
Oicuraqt n gr8 2c a6uldv8 2, keepn up with the grandkidz on the weekends bb..so cool. Chill, don't frapp out, u will find a fwb soon as... Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
lmao 😂😂
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' I can’t believe the spelling and grammar police still have a license to trade here. I’m more interested in finding out what’s a “phat time” quite frankly. Is it like a swell time, or dare I suggest... an engorged time? I’ve got half a mongrel just coming to terms with the possibilities. The thing is it's actually easier to type ''fat''. Hugs G - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Limit this experience. As in life we do not always get what we think we deserve. You cannot have any sense of entitlement on here. I have always been a guest. I don't send multiple messages back and forth, I don't have the time. I have met great guys who I would not have looked at twice in RL but decided to open to this experience and not write anyone off. I have blocked heaps, I have chatted to a few great guys who I would like to consider friends even if only on RHP. I have found regular FWBs. I have had one offs which I really enjoyed and would happily see some of them again if the opportunity arose. I have also received hundreds of messages and had to wade through a lot of time wasters but that it how it is. I went into this being myself, being open to new things, I conduct myself with integrity and honesty, I do what I say I am going to do with hook-ups, messaging and flirts. I participate in the forums because people can get an insight into who I am and know I am not fake. I do not live in a major city and I have limited time and options but have still done pretty well. I am specific in my profile with no BS just put myself on the page. So do I think this is hard, yes of course but as I said I had no expectations.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Without meaning to generalise an age group but i do hear about this a fair bit where the older guys seem to mess peoole about and not turn up when agreed alot more than younger guys, obviously i dont mean all older guys do that as im sure there are some decent genuine guys on here - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
I'm thinking he has got his rocks off already and doesn't need to see you in person. Limit the texting prior to meeting. Message via here until you are comfortable meeting them. Limit the number of pics you send via text/kik etc....if they receive a collection of nudes, accompanied by some explicit texts about sexual positions, sexual interests etc etc from you, they have all they need to get their rocks off. From your post it seems they were on their way to your place but failed to arrive...which means they most likely have your address....unless you only gave them a suburb to head to and final details to follow when they proved where they were. (Sounds like a treasure hunt...hmm.....sounds like fun! 😅) But if you gave out your address ........ are you worried about your personal safety yet? I bloody well would be! Total strangers knowing where I lived, if anyone was home, availability discussed (and therefore when you may NOT be home..oh so easy for a thief!) etc. Meet in person away from your place/home so you know you can maintain your personal safety, then if you like them ask them around....at a later date.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I find it really hard to get to meet people on here. Im always getting the pre written sorry you're not what I'm looking for. Hundreds of them. So yes I agree with your comments. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
200 txt messages? Don't people ring each other anymore? Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
7 years ago
A look at your profile. Instead of making the first 10 lines about what you don't want. Rewrite it and make it about what you do want. Not too long or guys will switch off. Just be clear and concise. Also I wouldn't put in there that you are a grandma. LC.
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MissSarahCurious
7 years ago
I’ve gone through a few “phases” where different age groups have appealed to me and been stood up from at least one of every group, and while I wouldn’t say I was a “sure thing” I was certainly rocking a very very very sex-positive vibe at the time and would rule out anyone who seemed timid before getting to the date-making stage. No age group is more innocent or guilty than the other, IME xx S
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MissSarahCurious
7 years ago
Sorry, my response above was a direct response to adamy[numbers]
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RHP User
7 years ago
Two Things -:::- Cheerz for that.. Just look bak into the window for a sec.. I didn't scratch 2 random blokes up in a day.. 1 I been msgn for months n the other a few weeks..the 1st didn't show so hell yeah went the bak up.. I'm on this site to find a few (alot) regular fuk buddies.. Ones that don't just float my boat.. I can float my own boat.. I want them to rock my world.. Not any cock would do me.. I'd rather hav a wank n rub 1 out then bed someone I'm not into. I've slept with just ova 25℅ of the blokes I've met.. I've pretty much known b4 I wouldn't but they've been great fellas so we've met n I'm still in touch with most them.. I respect both myself n others or I'd b fukin anyone that wanted to fuk me.. And no one in life should b treated like a rag n should b respected.. And yes I respect his choice not to turn up. B good if he had enuf respect to tell me, cause like u said he's supposed to b a man.. Go figure eh.. And the fact I'm a tad haha sorry total bogan shines thru because its who I am.. I don't want to pretend I'm someone I'm not, imagine someone expecting fine dining but being served up a bbq feed, I'd feel like an asshole doin it to someone.. And I didn't chose to b an assshole I chose to b a bogan.. I'm a good person and I'm not ashamed or embarressed to b myself.. I'm not everyone's cup of tea but that's ok cause I drink coffee anyways.. But I'm taking all the advice given on board (even my spelling) and thank u for your time n your input
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks to all of u for your input.. Im not lookin for clean cut or suit n tie or surfer or biker.. I'm lookin for people I connect with sexually wateva shape or form that person comes in.. With out the connection its a no go for me.. I don't want to pretend I'm someone I'm not, to me this is my real life, I want fwb so I need to b strait up.. Not lie and them work it out themselves.. If there's things that turn em off like being bogan or a grandma then flick to the next profile.. Im happy being me n there's plenty out there that are happy to hang with a bogan n ive met some dardy as blokes n I've bedded a few of them.. Some repeatedly hehe. Its not I can't get a fuk its that I could b meeting someone else n b getting an idea about if they're my type of sexy beast.. Time off for me is short lived n I want to make the most of it.. I dont mind if somwone just wants to look at my private pics n hav a wank n flick a few msgs bak n forth then just say that as hey aren't we all on here cause were looking for wat gets us off.. And i put my private pics on to get blokes hard as fuk n giv em a phat.. So the fact some dont need to see me cause ive already helped them get their rocks off is a good thing to me. And there's plenty that ask for just that like my profile says their welcome to do. Mainly why I asked is sites promote wat a good response of people n how its a well functioning n high statistic type of way to get wat your looking for.. I dont expect to b swept away on a sea of men.. I don't expect anything as if i thought it was my right to hav it.. My questions been answered in many ways and I'm hearing it is a bit hard for a lot of people..that I'm not the only 1 hitting struggle street with the site.. I'm not bagging the site either.. I'm hearing there is no picking who is pretty words n who is deadset lookin for action to match those words, that I'll hav to go on each individual n do the hard yards n hope for the best.. I'm also hearing bout my shortening of words n yes I'm taking it onboard.. In taking all the responses given on board both negative and positive.. I appreciate the time taken to respond as well as the input.. So cheers ears to all of u.. Hav a sexy day.peeps... Redz x
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RHP User
7 years ago
We had a night on the GC last Saturday and were stood up by a single guy, frustrating af. Out of quite a few choices on our datefinder we chose one particular guy and he jerked around so much by the time we were informed he wouldn't make it our other choices already had other plans. Pissweak form, who does that, when i was a single guy i always fulFILLED my commitments. 😁😉😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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