M53

Is it worthwhile?

December 21 2011

Hi everyone! As they say in talkback radio, long time listener, fist time caller. I've only been on RHP two days, but I've been on similar sites in the past, and it always makes me wonder whether an average guy has got any chance. In my rough calculation, on adult dating sites there are anywhere from 10 to 100 men for every single woman. In addition, I am competing against many guys with finely sculpted physiques, rugged good looks and large equipment. As you can probably gather by now, I do have a body of a Greek god, just a skinny and not very muscly one, I haven't been recently asked to model for Armani and my appendage is below average. On the other hand, I do have some other valuable sexual skills, all my past parters have been quite happy, and I'm fun and good company (I will resist the dreaded "nice guy" tag since nowadays everyone reads it as "boring and wishy-washy"). But this being a sex site, it does seem to me that the men who get any action here look like athletes and/or are sexual athletes. So should I even bother? I would love to hear both from other guys, about their experiences here, and from women, in whose hands, so to speak, the fate of my sexual gratification rests.

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RHP User

13 years ago

No ..Quite Now Bye

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RHP User

13 years ago

I find it hard to believe that the ratio of me to women is as you have said. My perception is that there are just as many women not that this should make a difference. I think that it is good from two perspectives. Firstly the Forum is really educational and Secondly it is a genuine place to meet and play with some nice people

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RHP User

13 years ago

So what can I say? Apart from you can always take your own sexual gratification into your own hands. Many of us do

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RHP User

13 years ago

Yes you're probally right in your assumption. As a couple we dont bother to open some flirts and messages from guys who in most cases have no imagination , specially if theres no pic and the garble is focused on his own prowess. If you were on this side of the fence for awhile you would quickly see why. We would love to get messages from serious ' nice guys' as you say' who can sell themselves in a way that is not offensive.. Then once we get to know the person a lil more, we might ask for a more explicit pic.. but if you lead with a explicit pic... Next Please....

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RHP User

13 years ago

Fussy Eater, Go into the topic list for "Guys Ask" and you will see a topic of mine titled "Why Bother?". Read the first post from Meeka100 and it sums up the situation perfectly. If you are not too concerned about meting women privately, you could attend some private house parties. The parties are fun where everyone is friendly and relaxed and the ladies are very non judgemental and obliging. Good luck.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I suggest you untuck your skirt from your panties and man up. Do you really need someone else to make the decision as to whether you should be here or not? Shit what's going to happen if you end up on a date and can't work out what to order? I don't know if the rhp phone app covers that sort of stuff. As for accounting responsibility of your sexual gratification to the women on here - well that's just lazy - I reckon they wouldn't mind if you wriggled around a little bit during sex or even took responsibility for both your satisfaction every once in a while.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Unless you're writing a book or three, then it just might be worth your while. Research is everything mate.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Its all well and good to believe that the hot guys are getting all the action but in my experience you are incorrect. The ones with the great bodies are the ones who time waste, cancel at the last minute or offer to reschedule but you never hear from them again. They are mostly here purely for their egos. The most fun I have had are with average guys, who have average bodies and average penises. They are the ones with the personalities and can engage on a mental level which is usually the most important thing. Keep trying, put up a good profile pic (as a guest I can't see yours) and let your personality shine through on your profile. Don't send those awful messages (eg - "hey how are you today") and you will eventually get the attention that you want. Good luck!

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'Jean_Girard' I suggest you untuck your skirt from your panties and man up. Do you really need someone else to make the decision as to whether you should be here or not? Shit what's going to happen if you end up on a date and can't work out what to order? I don't know if the rhp phone app covers that sort of stuff. As for accounting responsibility of your sexual gratification to the women on here - well that's just lazy - I reckon they wouldn't mind if you wriggled around a little bit during sex or even took responsibility for both your satisfaction every once in a while. Well said JG

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uneventful

13 years ago

Quoting 'SHMiss'Its all well and good to believe that the hot guys are getting all the action but in my experience you are incorrect. The ones with the great bodies are the ones who time waste, cancel at the last minute or offer to reschedule but you never hear from them again. They are mostly here purely for their egos. The most fun I have had are with average guys, who have average bodies and average penises. They are the ones with the personalities and can engage on a mental level which is usually the most important thing. Keep trying, put up a good profile pic (as a guest I can't see yours) and let your personality shine through on your profile. Don't send those awful messages (eg - "hey how are you today") and you will eventually get the attention that you want. Good luck! Have got to agree

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RHP User

13 years ago

With respect Jean Girard, I'm not asking anyone to make a decision for me whether I should stay on RHP or go - I'm asking for people's experiences, opinions and advice because I'm always curious about different stories and points of view. I can make my own decision. As to how anything in my original post can be read to mean that I'm sexually lazy is beyond me. Everyone else - thank you for your thoughts!

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