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Is the Cuckold life style becoming more popular or fashionable?
August 18 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
We evolved into this before we knew it had a name but then when we got told we were in a cuckhold or hotwife relationship I did a bit of searching on the web and there are 100s of sites dedicated to this, a lot of them a lot more extream than I would like to take things to with humiliation ect But I think like swinging the access to the Internet has made it a lot easier to search for and find partners discreetly - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
i am more curios as to how you get in to swinging and is it very awkward the first time ?
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madotara69
11 years ago
stands for convenient, therefore it is probably very convenient to committ with others alone.Mado
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chevtrek
11 years ago
I cant answer this one but will say it has been going on for years. I can also add it might not be as much as it was because relationships are shorter. Sorry but no real help on this topic.
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Mister_Miss
11 years ago
My partner chooses who she invites into her bed, sometimes she stays overnight with her lover, and I love watching her returning the next morning after a night of passion, it enriches our sex life.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would say it is as long as you have the right people. Some do get that process clinging which i dont like its all about having fun
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RHP User
11 years ago
We fell into it before we even knew what it was called! I'm not sure that there is any more or less of it going on, just easier with sites like RHP
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
its nothing that new though is it? From what ive read , in many cultures English or not , men invited other men to fuck there wives if the wife was interested . Or the wife would be fucking someone and they hustband fucking someone and it was understood and known and secretly accepted ,but never talked about lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some guys get very turned on that your a married women.I talk so dirty to them when I know they are into the taking another mans wife.The lover I had yesterday was like that and as sexy as hell what he was saying to me, while he was taking me.My husband does not want to know, he knows I am on rhp but the deal is that we pretend that I am not on rap.though he is ok with the women friends I make on RHP being around. But has yet to play with any of them.I ask him if he wanted a couples profile, he said yes until i said, how would you go watching me being fucked by a guy and loving it.He saidNope so that was that.I know that I am a very lucky woman that my husband is so understanding
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cougar4fun
11 years ago
my husbands favourite part of us being with another couple was watching me with someone else. We ventured into the MMF threesomes and since they are hard to arrange most of the time, my husband suggested that I find some playmates that I could play with when he was not available and when I was travelling alone etc. The thought of me with someone else for him is just as hot as him being able to watch or join in.....he loves it when I go out for a night with someone else and come home to him, I get two hot sessions (sometimes more) in one night and he loves it! So yes, I do think it is a lot more popular now than you would think....not sure about the comparison of popularity from previously to now, but it is not something I would ever have given any thought to if my husband was not so into it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I personally think this is a very hot idea and am on another website that has a few couples that are VERY into this kind of lifestyle.I don't know what it is but it it such a turn on to play with another man's wife.
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Splicey
11 years ago
I just wish the 'cuckolding' definition, or vibe, wasn't so negative. Most people who refer to it do so in a derogative way, where the husband has no say and is treated poorly, as if his desires and wishes don't matter.To me that's what people mean by cuckolding and I don't agree with it.Two people choose how they run their own relationship? All for that
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RHP User
11 years ago
Correct me if I am wrong, but isn't Cuckold the encounter where the man is demasculated?I thought the other type is hot wifing?
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
Don't like the term to me its degrading. Some guys are all ego which means I am fucking his wife because he can't do it as good as me. Rather then thinking she is just having some fun with his permission. it is not about making the other person feel like a looser. To us its about the pleasure of sex and watching or hearing about your partner enjoying themselves. Yes I can watch my wife fuck other men. But as soon as its about the men trying to degrade her chose of life partner then its all off. Its the same in reverse if I am bonking a lovely lady my wife wants to know the details but does not want to feel like she is being compared to. I guess to us its fine to have sex with other people but not cool to embarass your partner or to say she / he doesnt understand me and you are heaps better then them. Sure other people will be better at it then you. This isn't about that or comparisons its about some boundries we have which is repect for your partner and their lover . Not about degrading your man or woman which is what I think cuckolding is as defined by some of the sex sites. sure there may be different versions of it but orignally it was about saying you are no good i will go and have sex with a real man. not about having a lover or a bit on the side. Humiliation of your partner who may get off on it sure. but each to their own.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think you make it what you want it to be yes on the net it does seem to carry a negative weight however I think its very much dependent on the couple, what inspires them and to what level they enjoy, Overall i think its about enjoying the fun and thrills that sharing of a partner can bring.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'matkym' I think you make it what you want it to be yes on the net it does seem to carry a negative weight however I think its very much dependent on the couple, what inspires them and to what level they enjoy, Overall i think its about enjoying the fun and thrills that sharing of a partner can bring. So true Matkym
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Playful2looking
11 years ago
Yes it can be what ever you want it to be. Although I am inclined to think that the mums and dads tend grab stuff from the fringe side of life and sanitise it for their own use. It takes the naughtyness out of it. For example pole dancing used to be something us guys could enjoy in a strip club. now its fitness thing for mums. drop your kid at pre- school and off to your pole dancing classes. Yes my wife does it and I am not trying to be critical. Its just watching the transition of stuff from the fringe to main stream. Like Tates and pericing, used be a bikie thing now its on the cat walk. I guess this is another topic but good luck with your Cuckolding cheers
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you think about it, it has been around for at least a few centuries. All the books that talk about a wife or a husband "taking a lover". So my vote is with the it's an old concept but with a new name. I suspect that the existence of the Internet over the past 20 or so years has merely made it easier to communicate with others of like mind and share it with others
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think as has been said, it has always been around, you just hear more of it through the internet/porn/swinging etc.Watching my bf play and fuck other women always makes me so turned on, it isn't something I ever thought I would like, but I usually end up bringing myself to orgasm several times before I even get to join in - so I guess it works both ways.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My wife has a full time lover with my full approval and encouragement to date and be intermit with each other. It turns me on knowing that it is more than just fucking and they both have feeling for each other. Is there a danger of them setting up together? Possible, I have told them both they can have the best of both worlds. If you are a cuckold then you will understand more than a guy who is not how far you go in to cuckolding is up to you. Risk is a big turn on for us cuckolds I would say, such as risk going bareback while unprotected, her and lover going away for weekends, get pregnant. I would like to chat more with members who are cuckold or would like to know more/
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