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Is there a market for a reviewer of your profile for improvements
May 20 2020
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Rlee552
5 years ago
Always a market. It may mean though some guys will miss the opportunity to ask for feedback on their profile on the forums.
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sweetnsensual
5 years ago
MisJif will be discussing live on Zoom on the 30th of May on how to write a good profile. We are constantly helping couples and singles on how to write a good profile. We have also run photography classes on how to take a good pic as well. It is a needed resource!
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Phoenix_Rising
5 years ago
I don’t believe people should have help with profiles, the way they build their profile in itself says something about them and as soon as you start instructing them you’re basically helping them catfish people. I dont want to read what you think they should put up there to attract me, i want to read what they think. I dont want to see photoshopped pictures or glamour shots, thats not how theyre going to look in reqlity, i want reality, not a neatly designed, enticing cover story. Imagine picking up a National Geographic magazine only to find someone’s stuffed a copy of tv weekly or something equally devoid of intelligence inside, how annoying! There’s enough complaints on here about time wasters and fake people/profiles, in my opinion others need to stop helping them do it.
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Forus1234
5 years ago
If a profile is reviewed by someone, modified, it’s not a true reflection of who the person is. We had difficulty in trying to explain this to a couple that copied our profile in its entirety. Perhaps in their case it could have worked for them. We’ve been on this site a number of years. It’s best not to look at a profile & expect it to tick all of your boxes, but just a few. We’ve been blown away by meeting with people we wouldn’t consider a match & went with our gut feeling. Some things we look at... Validated ..sometimes Verified most of the time Paid up member...sometimes Guys Cock shots in pgs...all of the time, tuck them away! Full face shot in pgs...most of the time Most important...in your photos a little sexiness, eg towel draped over your member, a cheeky but photo! Leaving something for the imagination!! If your profile reads, see all of my validations 👎 Your profile isn’t going to cater for everyone, it’s best if it’s original.
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Freaky_Fun
5 years ago
I'd rather see the real person than a made up profile. If people aren't capable of writing a decent profile which on here is pretty self explanatory, than an adult dating site is probably not for them.
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FeistyFatty
5 years ago
People should do their OWN profiles without interference from others. And having profile writing lessons or reviews just sounds ridiculous. The result will seldom be indicative of the profile holder in my opinion.
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mango69er
5 years ago
Just a massive con job if others are helping with a persons profile. I different to filling it full of lies
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Readyfors0mefun
5 years ago
Like others have said, if people get to much help it won't be a true reflection of who they are. You could even just say fill the whole profile out and write a bit about yourself. It's a bit like all those messages from single guys saying hey how are you two? We don't need to tell them exactly what to write in a message but we can guide them by saying include a bit about yourself, what you're looking for and what you can offer. If that were to happen they'd get alot more responses to their messages than they do now.
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badboyhere
5 years ago
No. There is not
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badboyhere
5 years ago
What do you want out of it? Why help guys with their profile when you are only looking for girls and couples?
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nightingale8
5 years ago
Profiles aren’t a true reflection of anybody (lol) its just an advertisement. Most just have the home brand stamp. There’s nothing real about the internet persona, only what the person likes to project. All it can tell you is what to avoid. Kudos to you sweetnsensual for coaching others, frankly I’d have preferred more improved profiles as it would make my time trying to discern who was decent a whole lot easier.
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73bandit
5 years ago
Ahh the forum Nazis are alive and well
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RHP User
5 years ago
Just like a resume...How do you differentiate yourself and appeal to your target audience? David Ogilvy always asked the question; "What's in it for them?" when building consumer marketing campaigns.
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EarthQueen
5 years ago
I thought of this idea as well OP a few years ago when my single girlfriend and I used to look and critique profiles. Try it and see. I guess some people aren't good with words, but these days there are a million and one ways to do a search to help you with dating, taking a picture and constructing a profile. At the end of the day the profile is just a marketing campaign and I maintain that within ten lines of actual messaging (or maybe even less) you have already decided if that person is worth pursuing and /or if you click.
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Kokoflamingo
5 years ago
And so have met a few lovely men on here. If someone has a crap/crass/lazy profile and then it magically turns into a well thought out and totally different one, theres something to be wary of. You are putting yourself out there on a dating site. If you cant be bothered intitially then why should anyone take intersest?
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RHP User
5 years ago
I could use with some advice on my profile. I don’t have any rude pics and don’t do dick pics here even if it’s allowed. The only time I show it is in the bedroom on the first session. I do feel something is missing however and not too sure whether it be grammar, spelling or just plain boring. Am interested in finding out the secret to get more replies.
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tylannister
5 years ago
A friend of mine in Los Angeles has a business trying to help guys with their dating site profiles. She's got a great website for it and has even been interviewed on the radio there about it. And how much business has she got? Almost none. I think that there are a lot of obstacles to something like this - while I think it's pretty universally agreed that there are a lot of guys out there who could use help with their profiles, most of them don't realize it or don't want to believe it. And of those that do, not many seem to be willing to pay any money toward having someone help them. Then there's also the perspective of potential partners who are happy to look at a lousy profile and see it as a red flag to avoid.
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cat_n_the_hatter
5 years ago
This is not a marketplace. At least not for us. You write your profile because it reflects who you are, not to sell yourself as the final goal is not the meeting, but the journey. You wish others to know you and you to know them. Perhaps if it is a one-time meeting then a "market place" approach could apply. There are many dating - gurus who claim the one size fits all but in reality we are all different. So, what is the point in creating a profile that someone else has engineered for you and that alone can be a reason why you may miss on meeting someone ? Every person has their own "taste" in men/women, which is shaped by their past experiences and their temperament. Some like tall, rich, blonde, some like adventurous, sensitive or nerds. The list goes on... You never know what are people’s preferences. And they shouldn't tell you. If you do like someone's profile here, then let them know gracefully and honestly about how you feel. That is all. (Ms)
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Arthur_Walker
5 years ago
hey there i am open to comments and suggestions for improvement if anyone has any. thank you
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