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Is there an etiquette on a nude beach!?
January 23 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
A naked beach means just that NAKED... I guess gorking at peoples private parts is a no no.... Also respectfulnesss and confidentiality to others... Lots of sunscrean too...wouldn't want to burn ya pecker...OUCH!! I`ve never been to one either..... I reckon I couldn't help myself to sneak in a peak....is that allowed???? Im happy to tag along with you fitfunguy4u ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Would be more than happy to apply the sunscrean... :-) :-) :-) :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is where I am trying to go.. Today.. Any female keen on joining?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Whenever I have the opportunity I enjoy taking a woman to a nude beach. Rules of behavior are basically common sense.Never take photos without permission.Never criticize others or point and laugh.Do not stalk, it gives people the creeps.If you drink and have a loud, foul mouth when drunk make sure you have a friend with you to drag you home before you're beaten to death.I have witnessed a disgruntled mob of nudists, not a pretty site. A man was sneaking up to women and cpls taking photos without their permission. He was caught out and ran for his life chased by 20-30 men, dicks a swaying, threatening to kill him.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is what it says, just a nude beach I have not heard of any that engage in sex it would be an all out orgy fest. Even a nudist colony it is not about the sex but feeling one at nature. So I guess you will be pole vaulting around the beach for nothing lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You have a picture in your private gallery that makes me want to do BAD things to you !!! Jesus boy ! As far as nude beaches go , mostly people are just enjoying the freedom of being naked in the sun , any overt sexual act completely in the open would be frowned upon on most beaches . All sexual activity seems to go on in the sand dunes ( gay mostly) or discretely in sun tents etc - you could fuck in the ocean I'd imagine without too much fuss , but laying down in the middle of the beach and fucking might get you abuse from the naturalist !!! .......................Queensland has nice beaches ........just sayin'
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' A naked beach means just that NAKED... I guess gorking at peoples private parts is a no no.... Also respectfulnesss and confidentiality to others... Lots of sunscrean too...wouldn't want to burn ya pecker...OUCH!! I`ve never been to one either..... I reckon I couldn't help myself to sneak in a peak....is that allowed???? Im happy to tag along with you fitfunguy4u ;-) I attend a nude beach all the time -an advantage of living 3 minutes from it. Now where I am, a LOT of bi/gay actions goes on - but they take it further down the beach which is approx 2 kms long (and its well known that the further down the beach you go - the gayer you are) and they are very discreet..they play up in the dunes like little meerkats bobbing up and down... As a single girl , Im pretty comfortable being there..as there are lots of regulars and I know they all keep a eye out for me and look after my stuff when I go for a walk etc - its a really lovely community and trust me, most of them are older than me not to mention most of them are Poms. Its perfectly fien to check each other out - how could you not. ? just dont gawk !!!.but because these people are nudists including myself..the novelty wears after 12 seconds...its just another body - some are delectable - but the reality is most arent However yes I am constantly hit on...you think this is a good thing...??? can be and has..but the thing is, I am not there to pick up .... just because one is exposing the whole of themselves to the elements it appears for the occassional strait guy that makes his way to Warnbro that because my body is free of constraints..I must be too Ive been approached subtlely.....guys just wanting a chat....the need to have their sunscreen rubbed into their back (buy spray guys I do !!) and Im ok with that....but then I have just been blatantly asked - direct and to the point..are you here to sunbake or do you wanna fuck ? Interesting - this is what I lumbered down to the beach with A chair a book a ipod a backup book a phone towel sunscreen areoguard aloe vera chaffstick sarong thongs hat lacky bands for wild hair water bottle Im rocking unshaven legs - no girl shaves before they go to beach - this includes the pussy - ouch in salt water I stink of Banana boat sunscreen, aeroguard and aloevera, Im slathered in zinc...and theres not a scrap of makeup or perfume etc on me.................................yeah Im here to fuck !!!!! Yes Ive picked up at the beach...numbers have been exchanged and Ive caught up with said person later at the pub (nice)...ok there was one time, bu I do digress But yes it shits me that guys just assume, cause the clothes are off..so are the morals.....Im flattered by the attention but I also dont kid myself - as stated previously Im usually the only single girl within 20 kms of the beach.....so its not all tht it appears My advice..the rules are EXACTLY the same as if you were at a clothed beach - no different ..never confuse nudity with anything but what it really is..nudity....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Openly being sexual at the beach..definite no no..people do bring their kids down to nudist beaches you know You want to get playful..then take it to the water - although we all know what you are doing..or in a sun tent....be discreet and respectful...not everyone is into dogging !!! but more importantly DO NOT FORGET TO WEAR SUNSCREEN..OR YOU WILL SO PAY !!!! Cheers :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Pretty much everything shinas said is spot on, but wanted to reiterate... Suncream!! Take it from me, if your ass has never seen the light of day, make sure you slap on suncream and reapply again and again.. Speaking from experience, you don't want a burnt ass!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You're local Samurai & Birdie Beach are the two popular ones near us.I was at Samurai over Christmas and got into trouble for partaking in a little fun. "Oi get over in the dunes" I believe he yelled. We just laughed, hopped up and continued what we started - it's 4wd access onlyBirdie I believe is more forgiving (you can walk down from the car park) and I'm keen to check this one out in more detail.No matter where you go, you have to be discreet...ish especially as there are kids around.Walking around with a raging erection would also be a no no I imagine, especially if you are carrying binoculars Although I think you would look quite delicious with a raging....
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RHP User
12 years ago
have seen females playing with males, not much more, have done a bit near the sand dunes, but away from people, ( did not want to go to the bi area) mant people went out of there way to watch, & got many offers of assistancce
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Respect respect respect! Ppl that go to nudist beaches does not mean they naturally are swingers n want to get it on right there n then! Ppl go there to be themselves - no judgements, everyone is the same without their clothes on apart from shape n size - but it doesn't matter if your a brain surgeon or a chimney cleaner - same respect for all! Plus kids go too to some nudist beaches!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know, it shits me when people can't control their urges enough to be respectful. Nude beaches are for everyone, including families, so how about just not doing things that you know will make others uncomfortable. I'm all for naughty, spontaneous, public sex - on the beach or elsewhere - but not when it overrides common decency and courtesy. JMO :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I went to la peruse last tuesday about mid morning.. Was good, not too many ppl, I easily found a nice spot to lay my towel and began to sunbake. Pretty soon , a couple settle on one side of me and soon after a single girl on the other side.. both at respectable distant.. I turn over face down and enjoy the sun for maybe 10 minutes.. then decided to go for a swim..When I got up I noticed , 3 guys had already laid their towels around the girl and 2 either side of the couple.. one guy was that close, to the girl she could have touched him. Mind you, the beach was near empty , accept for where we were...The girl slipped on her bottom and came into the water just behind me. When she returned , she picked up her towel and stuff and moved further up the beach.. obviously uncomfortable.. THIS is the type of thing you dont do... Respect people s personal space, allow them to relax and enjoy the beach as you would. Dont presume females are there to look at your dick.. if they want that, its up to them...Yes' we all take a peek ... that's natural.. being a nuisance is not...
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you ever want someone to go to the nudie beach (grays lane down near Byron) I would be happy to accompany you, I can apply sunscreen if you like ;-) at HMmmmm if your logical ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'nobighurry' Whenever I have the opportunity I enjoy taking a woman to a nude beach. Rules of behavior are basically common sense.Never take photos without permission.Never criticize others or point and laugh.Do not stalk, it gives people the creeps.If you drink and have a loud, foul mouth when drunk make sure you have a friend with you to drag you home before you're beaten to death.I have witnessed a disgruntled mob of nudists, not a pretty site. A man was sneaking up to women and cpls taking photos without their permission. He was caught out and ran for his life chased by 20-30 men, dicks a swaying, threatening to kill him. I'll have to agree with you there on all the above. Who takes pic's like that? Geez! people these day. I've gotta go.. to even out my tan
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are there any in Brissie?? I would love to get a little outside my comfort zone.
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verago250
12 years ago
Well said Jay-Me .I would follow by saying look out for and look after the single or couple having trouble.When I go its by my self so I make an effert to make people around me feel comfotable.Its nice to just chat to some one on the beach but this I find tricky as at first you/Im invading thier privacy.It can also be good to have a hand to get sun screen on hard to get to places and I mean high on the back not the bits that may get hard.Once at Swanie had the mispleasure of a very drunk female.Its the only time I wished I had been clothed as someone need to take her to help off the beach.Lastly a suggestion,could have been said befor, how about RHPers putting a red spot on your umbrella at the beach if your open to talk to others,not a chat up just company.If not compatable just move on.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How great to see so many here recognising that it's a nude beach, not a sex club! If you feel the urge up at Cobblers in Sydney, there are plenty of bushes to retire to. But I have seen families with kids there on more than one occasion, PLUS I'm with Shinasbabe here - when I go as a female, I'm there to get an all-over tan and a skinny dip, NOT find some action. The majority of people keeping the sex out of it makes it a much more comfortable place for females to hang out. - rant over - Having said all that, it's a cool place to break the ice when meeting other potential playmates for the first time. Seeing each other naked and NOT getting it on can be a very nice way to build the sexual tension of an afternoon ... The only problem I have with nude beaches is, they ruin you for the normal kind :) MsKinkster x
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RHP User
12 years ago
a few cpls and a lady and I are heading there on Sunday if keenQuoting 'Kinkstersinc' How great to see so many here recognising that it's a nude beach, not a sex club! If you feel the urge up at Cobblers in Sydney, there are plenty of bushes to retire to. But I have seen families with kids there on more than one occasion, PLUS I'm with Shinasbabe here - when I go as a female, I'm there to get an all-over tan and a skinny dip, NOT find some action. The majority of people keeping the sex out of it makes it a much more comfortable place for females to hang out. - rant over - Having said all that, it's a cool place to break the ice when meeting other potential playmates for the first time. Seeing each other naked and NOT getting it on can be a very nice way to build the sexual tension of an afternoon ... The only problem I have with nude beaches is, they ruin you for the normal kind :) MsKinkster x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' You have a picture in your private gallery that makes me want to do BAD things to you !!! EXACTLY!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'imupinthesky' If you ever want someone to go to the nudie beach (grays lane down near Byron) Quoting 'Micksecrets81' Are there any in Brissie??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Micksecrets81' Are there any in Brissie?? I would love to get a little outside my comfort zone. Then again, I have not looked here as yet...Always thought it something I'd do in like Europe..
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I'm circling a nude beach at 500', is it poor form to point it out to my student?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Manly, if she is cute maybe you won't have to point it out to her as she will have already seen the tell tale sign !! If however you take a couple of fly bys just to get a good look it might be a bit obvious, but then who could blame you as there are "some" fine figures to have a perve on ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Superfox, the closest is possibly just before you get go Byron Bay, I'm on the GC so it's not far to go, about 100 clicks or an hour door to sand ..... if you are looking for a chaperone then let me know, I'm sure you can work out how to get in touch with me in the sunshine place ;-) xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes....nude beaches are exactly that...nude beaches. we havent been to our favourite beach this year, as we were really put off by the antics of a few desperately immature men last year...Grays Lane at Byron was a nice place to go....but its lost its appeal...our backyard is much nicer, and if theres perves....at least they are discreet......
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MissSarahCurious
12 years ago
There are no legal nude beaches in Queensland, while there are a couple of unofficial spots where it's common.Did you know that if you get caught and charged with nude bathing or public sex in QLD you get put on the Sex Offenders register? Imagine explaining that to prospective partners or employers! Not very sexy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lol my my man and I heading back to greys lane had such a lovely time there our first time in the sun and surf nudey rudey almost feel like naughty teenagers a real buzz I was enjoying my sunbathing until a guy stopped right infront of me staring at my pink bits talking on the phone I swiveled around and faced it to the dunes where there was probably a pervy person in the bush ahaa you cant win just free yourself and any insecurities as really liberating especially with a loving partner,we didnt do anything sexual just layed back in the shallow me leaning into him felt gorgeous cant wait to go again :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'friskyeatin' I have witnessed a disgruntled mob of nudists, not a pretty site. A man was sneaking up to women and cpls taking photos without their permission. He was caught out and ran for his life chased by 20-30 men, dicks a swaying, threatening to kill him.Death by mob dicking.nasty
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sammybgood81'Lol my my man and I heading back to greys lane had such a lovely time there our first time in the sun and surf nudey rudey almost feel like naughty teenagers a real buzz I was enjoying my sunbathing until a guy stopped right infront of me staring at my pink bits talking on the phone I swiveled around and faced it to the dunes where there was probably a pervy person in the bush ahaa you cant win just free yourself and any insecurities as really liberating especially with a loving partner,we didnt do anything sexual just layed back in the shallow me leaning into him felt gorgeous cant wait to go again :p- Posted from rhpmobile As generally I go by myself I always appreciate the guys who will step in and tell the creeps to leave me alone. Just because Im lying on a beach naked and by myself doesnt mean Im gagging for sex.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Have never had the "balls" to actually go. But considering that when I have clothing on I get hit on by the creepy old guys I figure it will be worse with less clothing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sunny side haven't been all summer, hmm how is? Anyone else thinking same;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
and I was one such kid. Started going with my parents in 1975. I was 5 years old. Even at that age I was all too aware that there were nudists and then there were nudists? Falling into the category of the harmless naturist variety, OR, the opposing camp, which seemed to personify a kind of toxic and rather aggressively urgent unravelling neurosis.
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RHP User
12 years ago
you are correct Birdie Beach on the Central Coast is an "unclad beach" and it is quite acceptable to go play in the sand dunes or in the bush areas, in fact there are small areas to do it. BUT beware if anyone sees you going into the bush, they wander in to watch....so if you want to try dogging its a good place for that too...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'deepbluesumthing'and I was one such kid. Started going with my parents in 1975. I was 5 years old. Even at that age I was all too aware that there were nudists and then there were nudists? Falling into the category of the harmless naturist variety, OR, the opposing camp, which seemed to personify a kind of toxic and rather aggressively urgent unravelling neurosis. we were these kids too....with families on opposite sides of the world...we've seen the wrong things ourselves as kids, and have seen it again as adults....even to the point where we chased a guy off the beach because of his behaviour only meteres from a nude family. its not nice, and its not fair, and its very much not adult.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just echoing what a lot of people have been saying about respect. If you're going for sex you're going for the wrong reason. It's always been more about the liberating sense of freedom, and not the "sights". We've been prepositioned by a few (can count on one hand) couples the many times we've been but it doesn't feel like the right place for us for anything "more". If everyone was getting on we'd say "send us an email and we'll get in touch", right now it's all about the beach.If you talk to someone and they're not picking up the conversation then take it as a sign they're not interested. Don't badger people no matter how innocuous the conversation feels, don't follow people, and respect people's spaces. The basics.
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