sweetgem

sweetgem

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Is there much room for non-kinks seekers on RHP???

April 25 2013

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Good evening dear fellows :-) You could probably tell from my profile name that I am kind of the Girl-Next-Door type of girl :-) but let me assure you that I am not in terms of looks, perhaps in terms of character/personality. However, I am not even near being vanilla lol I just love the classic intimacy between a man and a woman doing nothing extremely kinky. And I love to explore some dark fantasies with the right partner, but am not and never interested in extreme kinks. So, my question to you is, how much chance or room would there be for people like me to meet men on RHP, who are also not into extreme kinks, given that this is a sex site and many people on here seem into kinky sexual activities and use it to fulfill their desires/fantasies??? I love learning from other people's experiences as they are priceless wisdom :-)

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I would say you will fit right in quite well sweetgem. Most people aren't into extreme kinks at all. I would say most people are reasonably vanilla on RHP. Have fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I like vanilla. I can't see anything wrong with all those long lovely cuddles, sensuous strokes and leisurely love making. In fact I have often said so on this forum. Not everyone here is into extreme kinks at all. I have met a number of fabulous men who are more vanilla than kinky.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There's approx 1000 more single men than single women on here. Statistically there could be a 'Not even near Vanilla' + 'Classic Intimacy' candidate among the sincere and the players who are difficult to differentiate between..Room and Chances are therefore very favorable you'd think? Good luck in your search..Yours ExtremelyMr & Mrs TK

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    When you start talking to some males, the once who send you a flirt or a message and you say ohh I had a look at your profile, I don't think we match in anyway. I am not in half of what you ticked, you find out most are just ticking everything and have no idea what it is or even whether they would do it.So don't be disheartening, what you like you like, there is always someone who likes the same. Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Its my observation most members are more likely vanilla than kinky.. You do get the one's that like to think outside the circle and love to delve into the extreme .. It just depends on how far they like to venture..I would classify myself as adventurous more so than kinky. Im a romantic at heart ' meaning I perfer seducing my lady with sensation. Mind you, this doesnt mean Im pure vanilla.. If the situation arises and I see the lady responds to something more exciting, I'll go there within reason..Some things I just wont do.. I dont think you are the odd one out, you're in good company.. Jay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yes, agree with the above posters, you will find more than enough interest on here.   Good luck in your search and adventures.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Like they said up there ^^^^^^^^Not many single male kinksters on here. Oh there is plenty who wanna try things. Just look at thier wish lists. (yeah those interest list). Your fantasies could be classed as kinky to some as well.....each to their own.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    handmaiden....Are you trying to say Kinksters don't enjoy the same?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    is pretty much what happens here. There are quite a lot who indulge but its more of the exception in most encounters on this site. I think its more for people who want to experience some of these things but just don't have anyone to play with.   Mike

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There is plenty of 'chance'your profile reads well, has an air of confidence and I am sure you get plenty of 'hits' from the siteAfter all 'kinky' is all about perspective, what one persons finds extremely kinky, another will think it is quiet tamego with the flow, discuss boundaries at the initial contact and have fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Handmaiden'I like vanilla. I can't see anything wrong with all those long lovely cuddles, sensuous strokes and leisurely love making. In fact I have often said so on this forum. Not everyone here is into extreme kinks at all. I have met a number of fabulous men who are more vanilla than kinky.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    a kink is just something you haven't tried yet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    One person's kink is another's vanilla with sprinkles. I've found RHP to be a wonderland of all flavours, sprinkles, icing sugar, chilli spices and sometimes that yummy flambé ....