Is there room for deep love in a fwb relationship?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  That OP is deeply obsessive,subsuming emotional and physical madness,not what I would call deep love.This condition is closer to limerance than love, where the desire for the other ,consumes the person almost to the exclusion of anything else in their lives.x Hugs H

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Complete deep penetration...but reading your post OP, I felt perplexed, concerned, curiouser (not in a sexy way) and have to agree with Hesione, who iis the only other post I can see while writing. I had a stalker once who felt and would obsess the way you seem to be.. to lose the self to another is to lose the person they would have been attracted to in the first place, ergo, there is only them, that one - other- person left in what was a two person connection. Additionally, as you framed it within an fwb, are the feelings of "deep love" one sided, if so, please seek counselling urgently. Either that or a bdsm mistress local to you who might help you overcome yoir affliction in the most unusual ways.

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  Smilingwithfun

  12 years ago

  I have to agree with the 2 ladies above. FWB & your poem are almost opposite parallels. I think maybe one is in a FWB while the other is consumed. I'd hate to be the consumed, we all need to be ourselves in life.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  If it was written on a hand-made card my husband gave me on our anniversary..If it came from anyone else I'd be installing prison-grade razor wire on my fences, buying a German Shepherd called Killer and a hiring a bodyguard called Keith.I hope that was posted just to display your wordsmith-ship and not to display your actual state of mind towards a FWB. If not:Encapsulated by deep love put forth too rash,a swathe of blue burgeoning, captured your heart, your body, you mind and soulbringing your forth towards pure bliss to "her".High behind darkwood bench - smooth, matte shine from enveloping walls,an honour to she who when spake pronounced pure learned loveof that which she had spoken so many times before yours.Your heart pouring forth such love,Unknown to the majority, never to be discovered by the realms.Pure.Unreasoned.Lust.Passion.Darkness.Obsession.Masked under thin veil of deep love.Dark, cold, loathsome it seems to the so many, who find themselves deeply penetrated into its innermost dwelling.Deep penetrating friends with benefits within every enclosed space surrounding your heart.Yearning from every molecule of being to reach you, touch you, have you.Many will, while turned of back, showered droplets pounding downA rich lather, fragrant, disappearing on its slow journey toward unforgiving flooryet to be realised of it's true usefulness - in time lover, it shall.You were a prisoner of a pond - rippling, serene, free.Now, pronounced a prisoner yet again - stark, dangerous, bound.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I had a really cool Pushbike when i was younger   Siissy bar   Chopper style handle bars   and a T shift 3 speed Gear selector   All in Dark Blue     Now that was love .............. until i got a new BMX   No a fwb is just that ....well it is always for at least 1 of the 2

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Hesione' That OP is deeply obsessive,subsuming emotional and physical madness,not what I would call deep love.This condition is closer to limerance than love, where the desire for the other ,consumes the person almost to the exclusion of anything else in their lives.x Hugs H filling someone else's cup will never work... if both cups are full, then there's more than enough love to go around without smothering another person and forgetting yourself in the process...a lesson learnt for me

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Plagiarism lyrics to the sone Desire by Deepak Chopra performed w/ Demi Moore in Buddha Bar Vol II Disc 1?   so guys its not really him, but yes the original writter may have had a few issues for our time and culture but how we express desire and love is always in a cultural context   so OP you need to put your references in when you post   cheers da blonde

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'wowwow11' I had a really cool Pushbike when i was younger   Siissy bar   Chopper style handle bars   and a T shift 3 speed Gear selector   All in Dark Blue     Now that was love .............. until i got a new BMX   No a fwb is just that ....well it is always for at least 1 of the 2    ahh! true love

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