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Is this a hook up site only?
December 22 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have been here long enough to see and experience much more to the place. Some might say, despite the hype, hooking up is the last thing to expect. 😉 Peachy
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RHP User
8 years ago
...as one of the best relationships I have ever had the pleasure to enjoy started here and lasted for a couple of years. That said, if I wanted to pick up tips on baking chocolate chip cookies I'd sign into the Betty Crocker website. Have fun!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Like all social networking sites, are only what you make them.... So if you're into just one offs...go with that.... If you want more than that...go with that..... If you're into wearing nappies and shitting yourself, fuck yeah run with that...... No one here should have any impact on what YOU want to get out of it....only you can define what you accept - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' If you're into wearing nappies and shitting yourself, fuck yeah run with that...... Very funny... hope you had fun with my ex-wife! She even learned how to fix the Velcro tabs!
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Seachange
8 years ago
Agree with Stirry. You make it what you want (even the kinky nappy play :-(. Naughty boy, stirry. Tut tut) When I first joined it was to meet men for fwb,not a relationship. Maybe to hook up during my work travels (that works) and the occasional ONS. Nothing wrong with that. Wasn't really seeking for just friends but I did make friends all over the country, like finding my long lost kin. I have my long term fwbs who I'm very happy with and we meet each other's needs. So you see, if you are open to possibilities, your tenure here could be rewarding as it can evolve organically beyond the boundaries you have initially set yourself. Take your time, enjoy the journey and enjoy the evolution the future presents. Best wishes.
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sweetfrangapani
8 years ago
Just a hook up site now was very different along time ago
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Hook up only for sure. I've been hooking up for nearly 2 years now......with the same people...fortnightly if not more often. Then there's the hookups with another person... yeah thats only been going on for over 12 months. We tend to have 3 or 4 one off meets back to back....AKA dirty long weekends. 😉 Seriously....the site is what you want it to be. If you are being told this rubbish by people who you are chatting to then I would question their motives. It sounds awfully like pressure to conform, pressure to meet on their terms - not your terms. Follow your own rules, do what suits you. 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
what you want it to be. I'm in a transition stage at the moment, probably just the silly season making me reflect. I don't want to remarry, I was married for a lot of years and am enjoying being single, but I have such a high sex drive and find hookups just don't give me enough sex, too much time filtering and trying to find genuine people. So I hope to find a partner who is open like I am, not the jealous type lol but do I expect to find that person here, no. If I'm to be honest, I believe guys are generally only looking for sex on here. The thing with me is if I want sex only, I'll take young guys, but if a guy in his 40's up, contacts me, I inwardly always hope they might be open to something a bit more. But it never happens. So that is no doubt influenced by my cougar status, so if I changed the way my profile read, maybe I would attract the right people. But I'm not ready to do that yet. Like I said, transition stage. I still don't know if this is the right place to find them though 😃
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theOteam
8 years ago
And so many others on here are also. It is an open site where everyone is very willing to say what they want from life, unlike vanilla sites.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sometimes it doubles as a Fight Club... But what happens in there stays in there.
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RHP User
8 years ago
The purpose of RHP is to get people together who want adult fun. Whatever that might be for each individual. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
8 years ago
The majority of people who would say that RHP is a sex/hook up site only are the ones that have hidden agenda of some kind! So of course they are only here to look for sex and nothing more! And hence their claims of the site! However, there are also single people who want nothing more than just sex, I'm not ruling them out! But it just doesn't really make sense for a single person to be so shut out from opportunities for finding some compatible lovers and have a relationship of some sort with! I'll say, use this site however you like OP, don't let what people say influence your thoughts of the site. I am definitely here for the Forums and other non-sexual stuff and who has the right to tell me to get off this site, while I am not harming anyone here? 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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PatchworkGirl
8 years ago
Perhaps it's not a traditional dating site. But for many people, the "adult fun" they are seeking on here includes dating - just with a level of openness about all thing sexual that you might not find anywhere else! I guess I'd consider that RHP is more of a "whatever you're looking for" kind of site. If you're after someone special to spend your life with, you can specific that. If you're after someone to whip your arse while your significant other watches, you can ask for that. If you're looking for the mythical bi MMMF, you can look for that. Me? I've found someone I'm spending my life with, a few people to share some fun times in bed with, and a great many people whose company I cherish. That'll do for me!
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Bazingal
8 years ago
We're all here for our own reasons. I came here for "NSA" and met a few men that scratched that itch. But found the majority of interactions empty. I changed my profile and searched for something else and met an amazing woman that invited me to a private party. There I met a bunch of people I became friends with and my circle of RHP friends (social and with benefits) has grown. My needs over 3 years on RHP have evolved. I met a wonderful man and had over a year of fun with him too. I am using RHP as my tool to create my own adventure. As each member should. If a person you are in contact with isn't on the same page as you, ok, find someone that is 😊 And enjoy yourself. Baz xx
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