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Is your first message/reply back a true reflection of your profile ?
January 26 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think some men are a little clueless when it comes to women, or their idea of a woman on a sex site is a caricature of their favourite porn star. We are not real people or women to them. One assumes that men that do this will put their dick in any hole. Or they have hardly any experience with a real woman. Totally unappealing..... NEXT!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi there shina,.... I opened my. profile for a few days earlier this week. (Never mind why). I didn't get any of those type of messages. I did get several well written articulate and intelligent messages (some spelling and grammar issues but hey who cares). They showed that my profile had been read and they suggested something that I like to do in order to meet with me. I did meet a few of them this week and apart from one who I think is married and I don't have to do the debate because there was no spark.... They were pretty much who they said they were. Only one is a potential new playmate and there are a couple that I haven't met yet. I want to understand why I am not getting the types that are plaguing you. Closed profile after 72 hours. Views 415 messages 40 odd, meetings 4, Still to schedule 2. I have in the past used my guest message to contact two men whose profile and in own case forum posts intrigued me. Both were/are fwb
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RHP User
12 years ago
As we all know, single men just do not read profiles. It's been stated over and over, with much wailing and gnashing of teeth on the various RHP fora (is that the plural of forum??), and the subject will no doubt rear its ugly head again and again ad nauseum. Obviously your average single man has either an aversion to profile reading, or is simply illiterate. Sad as that is, it's a fact of RHP life, and the sooner we all come to terms with it, the sooner we can all deal with it and move on.As a female on what is considered to be a sex-site, you will be subjected to just the type of message you describe from time to time, whether the message in question is a first contact from a hopeful male, or a response to an initial contact from your good self. Again, a fact of RHP life.I doubt very much that you are the only one experiencing this particular phenomenon, so take heart that you are not alone.To answer your actual question:I have never sent a first message back, as I've yet to receive an initial message from anyone. If I did receive an initial message - meaning somebody takes the time to seek me out rather than the other way around - my reply would not be a reflection of my profile, but rather it would be a reflection of me.My profile is merely the slightest glimpse of who I am, and changes from time to time on a whim, depending on how I want to put myself across, so I would have to say it is not a true representation of me, just a small part of me.Which is not to say that I have a small part.....I have the stick-figure drawings to prove it..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes Meeka - clueless - I just dont get it..the put quite a bit effort into a great profile which will always get my attention - to totally blowing it in their first message-reply message back...its like two completely different people are at work here (hence my belief - do their sisters write their profle ?) Whoare you..:) how are you ? - where are you finding these men ? - we residein the same city ?? - goddamn it..lol- Well Im glad you dint receive messages like this- and like I said I dont get it all the time but I do get a lot..I sift thru the shite profiles, find a awesome one and like bang their message back is so not like their profile..and I end up walking away form computer in despair going - god can I not interpret or get a feel for a profile anymore ???..arrggh...thsi is why Im not looking at taking out paid membership again.. Hey Manly - thanks for posting..yep I realise single guys dont read ..but this is about guys that do make a effort to create a interesting profile - you see it, get all excited, message and the reply back is like WTF ? - sorry are these two people the same ?? ..no way - Im questioning more my judgement - how can I be so wrong ??...but yes your rite your message back should be a reflection of you and therefore, I guess I am getting messages back of what these guys really are...and they arent their profile !!! - you are correct (thankyou for male insight) ...oh wel the Quest continues... And Manly - if I lived in Victoria - I'd definitely message you ... damn all those gorgeous guys back East .
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have to agree and you're very welcome to include me in your generalisation.... I agree completely that because i'm a woman on a sex site (and in my case of a certain age, build etc...) im home alone desperately waiting for someone... anyone... to do me the honour of a good fucking.... Sadly so many are deluded and God forbid you say no... It is confounding that after reading a great written profile, where you can see similiar interests, type etc... you receive crass replies. I have 2 theories either A when writing their profile, they take the time to put it together so it reads really well (lets face it we can all do that) but are no good at composing a quick reply (?????) or B his mates girlfriend writes it and because its written well he gets lucky and the she gets her man back. (Shifting aforesaid mentioned mate from her couch!) But in answer to your question, i say its the replies that a true representation of who they are. Chin up Shinas and move onto the next hot studly muffin out there waiting for you
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think your onto something SassMissM................its the best mates girlfriend, your logic and theorising makes total sense.......................she so needs to write a standard template then !!!!! and lets be honest..totally operate his RHP profile.............. Your a wise woman But where are these muffins...all Im encountering of late is loaves of bread......... On a liter note...Shinas clapping hands and doing happy dance with the impending arrival of a sassy single lady from back East...................roll on April................-imagine the bitching over the footy !!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' I have to agree and you're very welcome to include me in your generalisation.... I agree completely that because i'm a woman on a sex site (and in my case of a certain age, build etc...) im home alone desperately waiting for someone... anyone... to do me the honour of a good fucking.... Sadly so many are deluded and God forbid you say no... It is confounding that after reading a great written profile, where you can see similiar interests, type etc... you receive crass replies. I have 2 theories either A when writing their profile, they take the time to put it together so it reads really well (lets face it we can all do that) but are no good at composing a quick reply (?????) or B his mates girlfriend writes it and because its written well he gets lucky and the she gets her man back. (Shifting aforesaid mentioned mate from her couch!) But in answer to your question, i say its the replies that a true representation of who they are. Chin up Shinas and move onto the next hot studly muffin out there waiting for you Studly muffin..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I *used* to live in Perth..Oh, and Go Lions!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I remember when i was married a single friend of my ex was alwaaaaays at our place, drove me freaking nuts! Even crashed our honeymoon for 2 nights.... I would have done absolutely anything to get rid of him - hence my theory B.... i mean when you read a profile written by a mature, confident man then read his replies, its got to be the small boy replying right? And if i knew exactly where these hot studly muffins were dont you think i'd be onto these lads by now?!?!?!? See you may have loaves of bread in the West but over East they are incredibly stale and have mouldy green bits! lol What you need to do is get that booty back out to the beach! The beach is your lucky charm..... There will be no bitching about footy my sweet, on that we will have to agree to disagree oooooooorrrr you can see the light and jump on the Pie bandwagon and what are you thinking MM.. Lions?? Really from a Victorian??? Soooo Saaaad I cant wait to get my ass to the West..... see the sexy Shinas in action and the world of Burlesque baby!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' I remember when i was married a single friend of my ex was alwaaaaays at our place, drove me freaking nuts! Even crashed our honeymoon for 2 nights.... I would have done absolutely anything to get rid of him - hence my theory B.... i mean when you read a profile written by a mature, confident man then read his replies, its got to be the small boy replying right? And if i knew exactly where these hot studly muffins were dont you think i'd be onto these lads by now?!?!?!? See you may have loaves of bread in the West but over East they are incredibly stale and have mouldy green bits! lol What you need to do is get that booty back out to the beach! The beach is your lucky charm..... There will be no bitching about footy my sweet, on that we will have to agree to disagree oooooooorrrr you can see the light and jump on the Pie bandwagon and what are you thinking MM.. Lions?? Really from a Victorian??? Soooo Saaaad I cant wait to get my ass to the West..... see the sexy Shinas in action and the world of Burlesque baby!! First of all, MissM, this Studly Muffin is sitting on the couch at home watching the cricket, wondering why, with all my Studly Muffin-ness, the women of this town aren't beating a path to my door. Especially since I went to all the trouble of colouring over my green mouldy bits with a brown texta.Secondly, I'm an ex-Fitzroy supporter.....so it was either Brisbane, or Collingwood.....and I wasn't about to have a frontal labotomy, pull out my front teeth, and marry my sister.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It works both ways too... Some women reply to your initial message, indicating they may be interested. But the reply is a one sentence reply, or something inane like "Hey you sound nice", and nothing else. Even if they have a detailed profile. Can never seem to work that one out! Anyway, yes, I do try and make my messages a true reflection of my profile/ersonality, for better or for worse lol, without trying to ramble on too much. But as has been stated above, anyone can write anything on their profile that they may have even received help in writing, though the true reflection of how they are is in the messages (or phone calls if it gets to that) I believe.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You nasty piece of work!!! For your information sunny boy, i have all my teeth, am gainfully employed, my sister is already married (so no go there) and a full frontal labotomy???? Me thinks no!! Oh how men discrimiate then wonder why their home alone watching the cricket on Saturday night!!! Hmmmmh! Tennis is on 7 - flick over!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' You nasty piece of work!!! For your information sunny boy, i have all my teeth, am gainfully employed, my sister is already married (so no go there) and a full frontal labotomy???? Me thinks no!! Oh how men discrimiate then wonder why their home alone watching the cricket on Saturday night!!! Hmmmmh! Tennis is on 7 - flick over! I had no idea you're a Collingwood fan! Just goes to show, you either love 'em or hate 'em And just so's you know, I have a much nicer gold jacket than Joffa's...actually, it's canary yellow with black crushed velvet collar and cuffs, from my days in a rock'n'roll band CRAP! Better get back on topic....i alway writ my mesage good..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Manly_McHardon' Quoting 'SassyMissM' You nasty piece of work!!! For your information sunny boy, i have all my teeth, am gainfully employed, my sister is already married (so no go there) and a full frontal labotomy???? Me thinks no!! Oh how men discrimiate then wonder why their home alone watching the cricket on Saturday night!!! Hmmmmh! Tennis is on 7 - flick over! I had no idea you're a Collingwood fan! Just goes to show, you either love 'em or hate 'em And just so's you know, I have a much nicer gold jacket than Joffa's...actually, it's canary yellow with black crushed velvet collar and cuffs, from my days in a rock'n'roll band CRAP! Better get back on topic....i alway writ my mesage good.. Writ it better!! Sorry Shinas, kinda hijacked your thread.... slinking away in shame
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' Quoting 'Manly_McHardon' Quoting 'SassyMissM' You nasty piece of work!!! For your information sunny boy, i have all my teeth, am gainfully employed, my sister is already married (so no go there) and a full frontal labotomy???? Me thinks no!! Oh how men discrimiate then wonder why their home alone watching the cricket on Saturday night!!! Hmmmmh! Tennis is on 7 - flick over! I had no idea you're a Collingwood fan! Just goes to show, you either love 'em or hate 'em And just so's you know, I have a much nicer gold jacket than Joffa's...actually, it's canary yellow with black crushed velvet collar and cuffs, from my days in a rock'n'roll band CRAP! Better get back on topic....i alway writ my mesage good.. Writ it better!! Sorry Shinas, kinda hijacked your thread.... slinking away in shame ...or I will send you a message....full of brown texta coloured green mouldy bits. And the Brisbane Lions club song lyrics.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seriously you two ?....get a room Rite just for the record -CATS - end of story..good..done Manly ..come back over - the water is mighty fine here...35 and the days are perfect Sassy...I love you..cant wait for April but please reconsider your footy team but in full agreeance that the mates g/f may have a lot to answer for .....mmmm - I will see what my messaging brings forward tonite !!! Back on topic - ...please anyone, please post so this doesnt turn in to the FOOTY THREAD.... Cheers :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
surely that is the only team on this site that any of you lot should be barracking for...what was the question...oh yes,men and messages .Hardly get any,same goes for messages on here,moot point for me
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RHP User
12 years ago
... hon/babe/darl there's simply only one explanation for it. A total frontal lobotomy. Yep, that's definitely it. Either that or they've had a strap on yanked up their jacksy so hard they can't think straight ;-) KK xx
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GezWouldGo
12 years ago
They get their besties girl to write the profiles.Now, back to the point at hand. Manly can't jump onboard ..... we're FULLGO PIES !
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RHP User
12 years ago
and almost 8am, the weather is cyclonic,high winds and rain.I log on and find this message...''Hello Freya,I have this fantasy,I want to drive to the old Scarbie pub,open my car door,have a woman hop in and suck my cock.Would you be interested?'' me,''Hang on a minute I will just grab my brolly,hop on a bus and be right there''....am I very bad?
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RHP User
12 years ago
that is pure classic FridayI made contact with someone Ive wanted to chat with for a while...he wanted to Skype I hesitated not because Ididnt want to but my skype address has my surname on it (Ive since changed it) so I told him - and asked him could he give me a few minutes to work it all out so I could removemy surname from Skype ..so I would feel comfortable I was then accused of being a time waster...interesting ...I have the pics on profile (pretty much all face) -and Im verified....he had neither but somehow Im the timewaster ???..cause Ive just upgradde my msn to skype..and wanted to ensure my safety somewhat.......hmmm guys - seriously do you actually WANT TO GET LAID ????????????.
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RHP User
12 years ago
A similar topic about rejection also running has some equally stunning examples.Problem is these men do get laid occasionally and they do breed. Their fathers did too.While this forum is full of women pointing out how futile these crude attempts at seducing a mate are, the mere fact these men exist shows that they are in fact breeding.So I blame the women. If all the sisters could be a little more careful in choosing the fathers of their children we could be rid of rude, stupid and dumb men in just a few generations.It wont happen of course, because you are all selecting for tight abs and big cocks instead, and you cant have everything!Oh and Go Pies.Mr C
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well....I think....the biggest problem is that it's not they don't read, it's not that they're not smart, but in fact they have NO idea WHO THEY ARE. So, this then leads them to fake it until they make it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
his next message,yep there was another...''so where is closer to you then''...me''I gave up ironing this morning for irony'',an hour has past,nothing
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can still make the flapping bird, the little boat and the water bomb. When I was single, I quite enjoyed dancing and would do so every Friday and Saturday night. I loved rock climbing although abseiling down a skyscraper holds no real appeal to me. I reckon that Japanese rope tying is hot and I have spent many afternoons staring wistfully at the fish in Jennylee's aquarium... ...but I like to fuck more. Best to be upfront about these things. It's all about priorities, girl.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think some guys just don't know how to speak to women and they are in-experienced.Some guys are late bloomers ,and can get down if they do not get a reply from a message.They could see the polite way is not working and try a different tact IE being rude and coming on to keen.Life is a big learning curve for us all ,we all want someone to be with ,we just all go about it in a different way.I will admit i have been rude sending messages in my younger years ,was in experienced and probably a little to keen.Now i look at people in a different light,try to treat everyone with respect and hope i get the same in return.I am sure alot of young guys go threw an "chat evolution" like this,where they learn the right way to treat people in general.Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
It must the north south thing...... Although I am in Fremantle now....but still north side. Speaking of footy did I mention Geelong at all? Manly and sassy..... Get off your couches and get out there. Can I officially mention I am annoyed the Melbourne drinks are the week before I arrive???
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RHP User
12 years ago
It must the north south thing...... Although I am in Fremantle now....but still north side. Speaking of footy did I mention Geelong at all? Manly and sassy..... Get off your couches and get out there. Can I officially mention I am annoyed the Melbourne drinks are the week before I arrive???
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RHP User
12 years ago
It must the north south thing...... Although I am in Fremantle now....but still north side. Speaking of footy did I mention Geelong at all? Manly and sassy..... Get off your couches and get out there. Can I officially mention I am annoyed the Melbourne drinks are the week before I arrive???
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blond_gypsy
12 years ago
...personally I'm glad guys are like this. It's selfish of me; but the more tactless, illiterate and downright disgusting men there are the more it stands out that I can reply to your polite message with one of my own, complete with fully formed sentences and obligation free respect. Guys being guys often think with their penises and expect women to do the same, forgetting women don't (usually) have penises.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i must be lucky, cause ive had some really nice messages, nothing like what youve described....well not right away anyway....
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GezWouldGo
12 years ago
Okay, so what have we got here. You've hit a profile you like and it turns out a dud, it's probably not the first and won't be the last, but the fakes aren't restricted by gender, we blokes cop 'em too.The good news is it's only taken one message to work out you're dealing with the village idiot, and that's a whole lot better than swapping a dozen eloquent ones over weeks only to find yourself sitting at the same table with him.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Profiles are Advertising a product Hands up anyone that wanted that got anything off one of those adds buy now get one free. That mop looks like it can even take out the rubbish and walk the dog I write profiles and they do sound great but the guy is exactly what I write, the problem is he is not as articulate nor as well read and written as I am. In essence a lot of men cannot express who they are in a verbal way. So when they get a text back they are besides them selves with excitement and they blurt away. This does not mean that the are crap lovers, it means they are crap at typing up a storm This site seems to be that the literate and expressive get laid more than the nice guy down the road who people ignore in real life cause they have no gift of the gab, in typing or in talking. I like those men, they are full of surprises and its lovely how they talk after they get over the initial surprise of yes I have you inside of me and yes I am loving it. Then they talk and then you get to see how lovely they are. Women can paint themselves up to be the quintessential “Goddess” I think people think that about me at times as I write so much and change my pictures all the time. But I belch and fart I get cramps in my calf when I fuck and I am probably your average shag all be it a saggy shag. I think go for the kiss principal guy. and forgive them their little hiccups in the cum fuck me baby text. RHP is not the mills and boon of sexuality and were putting it out there ourselves in our pictures in the way we write in showing our past and our future desires Then we get surprised when a guy says come suck my cock? I say , Sure honey , that’s what I am here for I actually want to fuck and suck. Call me the odd woman out I guess. Superficial sex is ok with me, and funny as that sounds it does not stay that way, men who you give a chance to will return if they enjoy your company and can relax and not be expected to be every woman’s trained seal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'blond_gypsy'...personally I'm glad guys are like this. It's selfish of me; but the more tactless, illiterate and downright disgusting men there are the more it stands out that I can reply to your polite message with one of my own, complete with fully formed sentences and obligation free respect. Guys being guys often think with their penises and expect women to do the same, forgetting women don't (usually) have penises. Need to be more understanging of your fellow Man, smart young puppy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'chickcara' A similar topic about rejection also running has some equally stunning examples.Problem is these men do get laid occasionally and they do breed. Their fathers did too.While this forum is full of women pointing out how futile these crude attempts at seducing a mate are, the mere fact these men exist shows that they are in fact breeding.So I blame the women. If all the sisters could be a little more careful in choosing the fathers of their children we could be rid of rude, stupid and dumb men in just a few generations.It wont happen of course, because you are all selecting for tight abs and big cocks instead, and you cant have everything!Oh and Go Pies.Mr C Love your work !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Reading this at work and laughing out loud. I'm getting funny looks from the boss. Manly and Sassy, I'm happy to bring my DVDs of the 2002 and 2003 grand finals to the meet next week. Oohh, sorry Shinas, My profile doesn't reflect my personality at all, it's just a statement on where I am and what I'm looking for. I show my personality on the forums and any further communications that may arise. It seems some women appreciate my humour but maybe they just pretend as I'm a STUDLY MUFFIN. Not that I'm complaining.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The two most satisfying wins ever!! (Yes, I realise I've just shot myself in the foot..)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
No thanks.... saw those games back then and to be honest... very disappointing!
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RHP User
12 years ago
after reading some of these threads..i come to realise mabe i come across to shy or gay..when i send a message to someone stating name and asking nicely if they would like to chat..mabe i should try.. hey there babe .though i look like the quiet type .would you like to meet up for random sex,i be more then pleased to tie you to bed,push ice cubes into pussy with my tongue and suck whip cream or anything else you fancy of your smoken hot body.then after a rigorious good fuck blow my load all over your body .whip my dick off on your sheets and then head off home..... or is that a bit to straight up
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's a standard email And most of us block accordingly .........depending on how hornet we are that nite !!! ... :)
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Among other things dear "Goddess" I thought I was the only one who cramped up like that. You Rock farts and all!!! 😝 In answer to the OP yup have had exactly the same experiences as you on the occassion. Overall I'm very happy with the quality of the people I've encountered here. As I'm sure most are.
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' That's a standard email And most of us block accordingly .........depending on how hornet we are that nite !!! ... :) Best.typo.ever.
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Twisted_Mister
12 years ago
Because it seems as though different ladies appreciate differing types of messages. I generally take the time to read a lady's profile, define her interests, make sure we may be compatible and THEN send a succinct message, saying hello, mentioning any common interests and asking if we should chat. This insightful, profound method of introduction has garnered almost zero. I can't bring myself to do the 'baby let's fuck' intro, but I know people on site that prefer it that way, regardless of what's on their profile. WTF? This isn't really a whinge, as no-one can hope to comprehend the picturesque labyrinth that is the female mind. It just is what it is. Or maybe I need a new profile photo. Pies for 2013! I knew you people were good value!
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RHP User
12 years ago
My fairly standard first message is along the lines of- hey I saw your profile, liked what I saw, if you're up for a chat get back to me, if not good luck. Obviously that's the shortened version but that's the general gist. Realistically, how can a guy appeal to your particular version of humour/endearing qualities/etc when there is nothing of that nature in your profile? If you want a first message to cater to your non sexual interests, put them in the profile BEFORE you write, "I'm a size queen" "love multiple cocks" "bend over and cop my strap on" and such. That's my 2c, for what it's worth - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I approach dating sites similar to real life & my initial message is often not much more then "Hi how are you" by that I'll bet 99.9% of people wouldnt walk up to a woman in public & ask what Shinasbabe27 posted “Hi hon/babe/darl/love –How are y a? yeah I’ve checked you out too. I’m always horny so do you wanna meet up this arvo or tomorrow. I lick pussy good and I could give your ass a good pounding. Do you swallow and I could give your tits a good tit fuck. My number is 04 ********** Wait to hear from ya xxx” Wazza/Jonno, Danno etc And while we are rall reasonably anonymous on here one of the goals of the site is for people to meet up in person so that anominity doesnt hold water
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RHP User
12 years ago
Damn Iphone rocking Train Posting without wearing glasses...again
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly I can see where ur coming from, and yes u have to remember us males usually make all our impulse decisions based from the rong heads brain, so while we think our MSG is makeung u as wet as it our stupid brain is hard its still very much true why they say men r from mars n woman from Venus , so maybe u can enlighten me on some of my first msgs ? Now I've only become to new to this and am obvious way off track, I have sent out a couple of msgs to ppl I think I could connect with and I just say a basic hello and what I like about there profile because I actually do read it , I add something about myself and conclude with the desire to hear back or pursue more chatter . Sweet n simple I think and not to forward and now wat gets me is no reply at all, and it's free to reply, how about a no I don't think so, ur not wat I'm looking for, or grow some balls and ask me to fuck on first dates, how hard is that??? Ladies help us to learn from this otherwise u will continue to get dumb msgs and for ppl like me even though it might be a rejection reply, it's better than being ignored,, Ok thanx for reading :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not a man bash my ass, we experience the same thing..... The other night I read a woman's profile who sounded genuine down to earth and shared very similar views and experiences as I have. I sent her a message saying how refreshing it was reading A profile that was positive, down to earth and inviting . I also discusses her interests she mentioned and asked her about her thoughts on a few of our similar hobbies..... The reply I got was this " thanks .... you have a hot bod, how big are you? i want you to tell me how you would like to fuck me!" Kind of a turnoff .......this well sort out profile which was a mile long filled with character and what I thought was class, was a crock of shit...... That's why my profile is a cheesy poem, because there is a cliche pattern in profile writing and after what has been written and what is actually a true representation of the person are completely out of whack. Some of the best friends I have met on here started with a simple hi and something small about their interests..... Other times I have sat down made the effort to address and acknowledge what is written and have had nothing but shit responses..... This happens with either sex or sexuality , it just comes down to the individual on interpretation and on demonstration.... And whether the person could actually be stuffed going you the time- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is a true reflection of who I am and what I desire. It must be working as Im attracting the exact typ of people Im after. But maybe its all a lie and Im just a very goody two shoes that isnt portrayed in the wrtitten word. :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've been on lots of sites and it makes no difference....dudes are ....welll...they're dudes !!!!! most of the time they are typing with their penis....lol....but in defence of the guys there are a lot of women out there who abuse these sites as well....and just to give u some reassurance, Shinasbabe27, I met my fella on a speed date website almost 2 years ago and he is the most wonderful, loving, caring, sexy, hard working man i've eva met....and the sex is fucking awesome!!!!!!! So just remember...they're just dudes mate !!!!!!!!!!!
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De0cypher
12 years ago
Shinas.. I can, unfortunately, relate to what your frustrations have been.. especially when the online eye balling of each other's profile can be al-most as exciting as that first eye contact across a crowded room. Imagine the disappointment when the first or even the second msg...after all that build up is an abyssmal let down. Some people treat this arena like a one night stand 'pick and mix' and good for them, if thats the experience they are after. But I have put in a bit of effort in being clear about what I want on my profile, just so, no one's time is wasted... It has happened a couple of times to me and yes, has felt like an enormous waste of time and energy. I just feel like saying, either stop checking my profile out or put some thought into your responses and try and connect! But as mentioned by some on here... people tend to get stuck on the pics and don't really read the profiles. Delete!
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RHP User
12 years ago
In early messages but not the full on "gory bits' like your example. I like to know that when my date comes up for air he'll be able to converse with me.
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12 years ago
WTF.. Fuck I would love to cum all over you face as you tounging my ass. (quote!) and another first message...... I would love to lay you back on the bed and part your lips with my tongue sucking your clit between my lips and flicking it gently with my tongue. I would then slide two fingers deep inside you massaging the roof of your pussy rubbing your special spot faster and faster until you explode in orgasm into my mouth. If this sounds like something you would like, reply and say hello. (quote)
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12 years ago
I always reply or send first message true to my profile. About me likes dislike etc etc. I always read profiles first. But have found that some girls are guilty of not reading profiles properly. I always state in my first message that I am a smoker. It's also there on my profile. But have found several times after a couple of chats. That when I mention I'm a smoker again just to make they know. I get more often than not."sorry I don't see smoker. But good luck in finding what you looking for". I also done a little research/test what ever you want to name it. As a paid member I get 20 messages a day. So several months ago I used all 20 that day to ladies that after reading there profile thought they would be a match for me. Sent each of them a long message about me. Mentioning something about each one to show I had read there profile. 16 messages were read. I had one response. I'm sooooooooooooooooooo not into tattoos and piercings. One reply thank you for taking the time. I'm sorry but I'm a none smoker and don't like the smell of it. Ok I understand that. And replied saying it was refreshing getting a reply back. And that was it. Only sexual reference in message. Was that I'm willing to experiment a little. But left it there. So may be the hey want a root text me reply does work. Don't know never tried it myself. But to end with a joke. Why won't a chick message me back with hey want me to give you head then ring me 04....... I'm free now. Hahah- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Shin, i always send gentlemen type messages and no one ever replies, it almost leads me to believe thats what id have to say in message to actually get a reply..- Posted from rhpmobile
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