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It's a little bi(t) funny, this feeling inside...
August 10 2014
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Taby_DK
10 years ago
I am 'very' bi because most the time (last year or so) I have preferred playing with women over men & especially since my discovery of strap-on's. So I suppose this would have me as a 3 on your list being 'very' bi but I did recently have a long think about the fact I may be homoflexible which is sort of the opposite of hetroflexible in that the individual usually considers themselves gay or lesbian but does occasionally have a fling with someone of the opposite sex. This confused me for a good two or three week when I finally posted a forum on a fetish site asking if I could in fact be homoflexible rather than bi-sexual as lately I have really preferred playing with women over men. Basicly the general response was that labels don't matter & no one should have to be put into a category box which I do agree with. It is only society that classifies us & puts us in a certain box via our sexual preference. However category boxes do make it easier to understand where others are coming from so I thought about this & decided that I will label myself as bi-sexual because I would have a relationship with a woman or a man rather than just a women & I am currently in a relationship with a man so yes I am bi-sexual & not homoflexible. Wow I think I just confused myself haha. So back to the original question. I classify myself as 'very' bi as I want to get across the point that girl play in a full swap situation with another couple is VERY important to me & I will not be satisfied unless I get a decent amount of girl play which I have put on our profile. I also want to advertise to potential single girls on our profile that I can play with them without my partner so again this is why I have put it on our profile. There is nothing worse for me than playing with a couple when it involves no girl play, I would rather get up & leave the room than continue on with no chance of touching beautiful soft feminine skin, & boobs. For this reason I have again put a note on our profile saying we are only interested in couples with bi girls or VERY keen bi-curious girls so that I do not get into that situation. But this of course bring into light one of my previous forum posts where I spoke of girls who pretend to be bi-sexual when they are straight, which is a whole other story I wont go into. lol Ok I think Iv'e rambled on enough. So that is my general response to why I say I am 'very' bi Taby xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Taby_DK' I am 'very' bi because most the time (last year or so) I have preferred playing with women over men I considered adding this as a possibility as I know a couple where the wife feels the same way as you, though I believe in her case she's not homoflexible. Thought my OP was confusing enough though... Love your explanation, thanks! And thanks for being the inspiration for this forum.
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Taby_DK
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Taby_DK' I am 'very' bi because most the time (last year or so) I have preferred playing with women over men I considered adding this as a possibility as I know a couple where the wife feels the same way as you, though I believe in her case she's not homoflexible. Thought my OP was confusing enough though... Love your explanation, thanks! And thanks for being the inspiration for this forum. I put a lot of thought into that post & almost confused myself once or twice haha. Although I may have considered myself homoflexible at one time I now believe that I am bi-sexual as per the reasons in my previous post. I add 'very' because I prefer women at this current time :D I feel like a popped the nail on the head & got my point across :) Feel free to use me for inspiration any time Taby xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think it's just a way of being 'emphatic'... Like if I was to say I am 'VERY Hetero', then I am saying (which is true), that I would NOT consider any kind of encounter with a man whatsoever... Not even for many dollars. I suppose it means that the actual thought of it makes me feel a bit 'icky' (now there's a good adjective... LOL). Not to be taken wrongly... I am not homophobic... I have a gay son and I love him as much as my other children and treat him no differently. So, I am not homophobic, nor do I have anything whatsoever against people who have different orientations to myself. I suppose 'Very Bi'' means that you are 'extremely' into that particular practice and want people to know that you are probably leaning more towards gay than hetero... That's my take on it...
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Circe
10 years ago
To let someone else know that I'm primarily interested for the ff aspect, and that if she's a bit unsure about things that she should look elsewhere. I suppose for me I'm indicating that I'm not wishy-washy about having sex with a woman but that it is something that I want and seek.
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RHP User
10 years ago
but will play with women in the right environment. I sort of figure well I am there, might as well. No point in doing half a job
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RHP User
10 years ago
You like both sexes. So Very bi means you really like both sexes, not one more than the other? Why not just say you are bi, but prefer encounters where everyone is involved with each other? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Violetincredible
10 years ago
Meaning I know I'm not gay- but I am in a place mentally where I'm really feeling attracted to women. A while ago I was describing myself as only "vaguely bi" because I was primarily into dudes! This is just my way of describing my placement on the Kinsey scale... It would be easier to explain if I could draw a diagram... Hmm Rhp can we have a draw facility in these forums??🙏🙏 Xxviolet
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Violetincredible
10 years ago
Also they could have a little Kinsey scale to rate yourself on next to the mood button :) That would be useful.... 👾xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
or could mean in a girl phase. Ide be loathe to put very hetero when Im in boy phase tho.Think Ill just stick to Pansexual. with a craving for.... lately.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Holy snappin bat crap batman ! I think Taby and Meander are Flirting irresistibly ! and if my visions of the future are correct ! Very sexy Bi-Girls have all the fun wish i was a Bi-girl Batman.:-)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can't see the very clause,to me you are one or the other! Surely it's more of a curious interest,have seen alcohol bring out these urges in women over the years! Women perhaps have an itch they need scratched,doesn't make them bi or gay! Don't understand the guy thing,but that's just me,each to their own !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' but will play with women in the right environment. I sort of figure well I am there, might as well. No point in doing half a job LOL... That's a big difference I think, that I've noticed over many years between men and women. Some women (in fact, I think a reasonable amount) will or at least will consider activity (even if it's just a bit of touching, kissing or exploring), even if they are not 'BI' at all... As highlighted here by ralf... On the other hand, I've also noticed and been privy to the attitudes and ideas of men (in the company of only other men... and there doesn't seem to be that 'curiosity or that adventurous attitude among them. I've found that men, no matter what!!! are either 'BI' or not... and if not, they won't be curious in the slightest, regardless of alcohol, the height of sexual arousal, or anything else. I know that some might say that men are just too 'self conscious' to admit any 'leaning' in that direction among other men and wouldn't admit it even if they were 'curious'... But I think my opinion still stands and men who are not 'BI' are unlikely to have the ability to see other men as a 'sexual' turn-on. Whereas many women, in the right circumstances, can and do feel this with towards other women...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have read an article that explains that there is a range of sexuality, between heterosexual and gay, and the researchers, who's work inspired this article, rated sexuality on a scale of zero to ten (0-10). Zero was said to represent pure heterosexual while ten represented purely gay. Five would be scored if you were equally attracted to both sexes. The article went on to say that it was actually rare for a person to be on one of the extremes and that the majority of people can be described as bisexual to some degree. Most men will deny their natural impulses out of fear of being labelled and insist that their own rating is 'zero' but for my money, if you're a man who gets turned on by group sex in which both genders participate, even if you don't interact directly with other men, you should rate at least a one. I rated myself as a 'two' as I'm not repulsed by bumping dicks with another man while DPing a woman.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' I have read an article that explains that there is a range of sexuality, between heterosexual and gay, and the researchers, who's work inspired this article, rated sexuality on a scale of zero to ten (0-10). Zero was said to represent pure heterosexual while ten represented purely gay. Sounds like those researchers just plagiarised Kinsey! (Whose scale goes from 0 to 6.)
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madotara69
10 years ago
I seem too remember that you mentioned something along the lines of .....if you are in group sex and another bloke grabbed a hold of your pecker, you would not mind, as long he did not expect you too return the favour. I also scored myself as a two, as I just gave the bloke a pat on the nuts once I realised I could see both of Tara's hands. Boy did she give me a dirty look, in a nice way. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Has anyone read anything about what causes one to move up and down the continuum of hormonal lust? I think it's pretty normal and I do it too, but... Why is it so...?
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nibblemebi
10 years ago
"very bi" is a way of clearly indicating that the woman actually enjoys being with other women. I could also use the term 'fake bi' which I have sadly found on RHP... the kind of women who pretend to be bi for the sheer sake of turning their man on, when they do not find other females attractive at all. It is such a let down to the truly bi female on here to come across and it is all too common unfortunately. So in a long winded answer to your question, I'd put 'very bi' to meaning genuinely into other women :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am totally and utterly and only in "man" It is funny this theme is on here. I had someone over the other day and he ask me the same question.....because I love oral sex I cum the best with oral sex..I love men who love it too. He said you must be in women when you like oral so much....and I said not at all. There are fantastic men out there who give me oral pleasure, who enjoy the softness of a woman and the sent of a women, they cant get enough of your pussy and want to dive into it. Yes a woman maybe know the female body more....however For me its the manliness...the chest hair, the strong legs, the muscles more or less, the deep voice...the strong hands.....just male, so much male. I am total male orientated.......my sensuality and sex drive is on the male.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We may be talking about the same the same research. The entire premise makes a lot of sense to me though and it would answer your question. G'day Mado. I think I prob'ly mentioned a fantasy Jenny had about watching two men engage in oral sex. She sometimes enjoys watching gay porn and one of her online chat buddies was bisexual. He once described what he'd like to do to the pair of us, orally, if we were to get together. This excited her. I told her that, as long as he didn't expect me to return the favour, he could give it a shot. It never came to pass and I'm not sure that she's still interested as she hasn't raised the subject again.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PlaywithAbby' Has anyone read anything about what causes one to move up and down the continuum of hormonal lust? I think it's pretty normal and I do it too, but... Why is it so...? To the Bi women on a "Sliding scale": Could it be possible we are more attracted to men during the time we are ovulating? Abby mentioned "hormonal lust", which had me wandering. Just throwing it out there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know I'm Wander Woman, but I meant wondering, of course.
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Circe
10 years ago
Lol. Autocorrect does it to me all the time. Just wanted to point out that researchers tend to build on one another's work and that plagiarism doesn't come into it usually.
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