It's okay in puberty but not afterwards?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  People change and grow all the time...Things are different for me from when a teenager to today.Some things I fantasize about other things I don't.I had to try different things to know what I like today.If I didn't try them, them how would I know today if I liked it or not??I am not into girls as in BI but yet at one stage of my life I had a thing for my female best -friend.Only pashed..I am glad I tried itDoesn't not make me "different" from anyone else.To me it's about growing up - gaining life experiences/emotional and social intelligence.That's my theory anyways.And not only that - I can change my mind several times a day - it depends also on circumstances, timing, etc etc.I think it is OK and normal to change (kinks) - how boring would it be if we all had the same kinks??FOXY

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  They've changed.....they clearly no longer wish to engage in that again..... Take the positive experiences with you, but leave the past behind. Seek out those that are ok with it, and experience it all over again.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Isn't it a phase you go through? I thought guys would do that only because they didn't have a girlfriend to experiment with. It's so bizarre, you would ever find girls doing that. Do you??

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  and still at primary school,my girlfriend and I would practice our kissing techniques on each other...I think most adolescents experiment with the same gender.I don't believe that sexuality is fixed,it can be a lifestyle choice and how you express your sexuality can change with your circumstances.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Perhaps. People do change you know- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  As a young lad I had no experience with the same sex, nor did I want it, I simply did not know about it. Was not till my late 30's that that came to me. Now I enjoy being bi, I am proud to be bi. There is still a lot of prejudice towards bi and gay people, in particular bi and gay men. People do not want to be labeled. The more of us that are open about our preferences the better it will be for all the others that hide behind the closet doors. Yes some change, but in reality I don't think that we change that much as we grow.OP there are many Bi guys here and RHP and similar sites. Great people. Time for you maybe to move on and find new and like minded friends.

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  enduran

  11 years ago

  i think you are right. sexuality changes over time and sometimes you feel like exploring things and sometimes you just want the well known. I guess it is the same with this and perhaps when you are younger you feel more comfortable exploring.Meeka - no its not about having a girlfriend or not. Both me and my friends had girlfriends at the time.

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