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It's winter solstice already...
June 20 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
There's an air of sadness to your post, are you okay? I know you can't get too personal on here but you're surrounded by friends, I hope you're well. Winter is a strange time for me, I hate it really, because I love the beach and the sun, and doing hook ups means I don't have a partner to keep me warm through the nights, that's my choice but the long cold rainy days and nights can be hard to get through without that warmth from another human being. That being said, this year has been a major turning point in my life, best year of my life, without question, and I don't blame anyone else for the preceding years, I just found myself, if that makes sense, it took me all my life to do that. I had a lot of uncertain years, I was never comfortable with my body, shy sexually, then everything changed, on a dime, overnight almost. I have ups and downs, don't always know what I want, but I try not to think too far ahead, just live for the moment, and I'm a lot more light hearted about everything in life, I love music, I'm not scared of being in crowded places by myself like I used to be, my whole world has opened up. As far as what I'm hoping for the rest of the year, I have to be honest, I feel like I'm killing time until summer gets here again haha but drinking way too much coffee, snuggling up and talking dirty to friends in those in between times, works for me. Have you had a good year?
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TheLuckyOne
9 years ago
Has already exceeded all my expectations! Life could not be better at the moment 😍 So the second half of this year will be just enjoying more of the same! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Where I had hoped to be physically.. No excuses just need to work harder..... Haven't started any plans for Christmas yet other than thinking it will be more of a presence event than presents!! Just keep plugging away.....set small goals and tick them off..... Tomorrow is another day! Love and Light :))
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RHP User
9 years ago
The days are getting longer again! I do hope to get in some sort of shape before summer though, and time is ticking. Soon... ;-)
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Missb4u
9 years ago
the second half of the year is better than the first. It does scare me how quickly the days tick by and I sometimes feel I am wasting my life. But these are good reminders for me to raise my head and look outside and remember there is so much more to life than work and even kids. I know I'm going though a bit of an emotional change at the moment and am starting to look for something different to what I've had in the past. I am interested to see where this journey will take me. And how badly I will be hurt. on another note I celebrated the winter solstice at my youngest daughters school the other night with fire dancing (the kids did this) and a bonfire, it was spectacular.
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RHP User
9 years ago
My lover/manfriend brought around another gorgeous man and I got my first DVP on my birthday this month. It was the most full-filling experience. Yummm... Best birthday surprise ever! 😘 Things can only get better the second half of the year. I say, bring it on 🙌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Newday10
9 years ago
Your in perfect shape meander already
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RHP User
9 years ago
Doesn't take much to keep me Happy
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ruby_blossum
9 years ago
hump day for the year My brain isnt in alignment with the calender though.....it still thinks its around April -May. Looking forward to the 2nd half of the year and all it has to throw at me.
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cleopatrababe
9 years ago
Its the year of big changes for me ...60 is looming and im still 35 in the head thank god the body is holding up tick that box ..my dreams of travel are out the door ..asbestos removal has tsken those funds ..looking for a sugar daddy now lol anyone interested in filling that role .overall i look at life in a positive way dont let people affect me ...realize its about them not me most of the time .we live in a wonderful country i feel blessed - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well the yr started off on a roll. Finished my diploma after a 2 yrs slog.( would of had it finished way earlier if I didnt spend so much time on the forums but...) had planned on changing occupations after 10 yrs, so the plan was to be studying again and having that finished by the end of the yr so I could start in the new field of work in the new yr.But after not being well, feeling very flat and unmotivated,plus some family dramas,thats all been postponed until I get my mojo back. Pretty much the last 4 months have been in a time freeze of sorts.Just ground hogging each day. Hopefully it will be a bit more positive in the second half of the yr. No, it will be better.
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RHP User
9 years ago
My updated profile is showing my body building progress... and now doing advanced classes in dance, so enjoying being able to surprise ladies that a 6'6" guy with a little muscle can move... and no I'm not gay, but possibly just as hard to get :p Finding it great to get more in touch with my body. Though the big one was deciding to go celebrate until my divorce is finalised this month. Kinda made the decision in Feb and before I know it, it's June. Though now at this point, having met lots of ladies but not clicking with any... trying to avoid going back to predominantly sex focused relationships. Keeping the faith that there's someone beautiful out there for me :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have a good life, beautiful son, the best friends, good health and a loving family back home. The past few weeks have been difficult due to my ever charming ex partner who cant bear to see me and his son happy without him. Its the only negative thing in my life so if thats all I have have to worry about I am very blessed indeed. The months ahead look positive, and we have the big Perth RHP meet and greet in October. So looking forward to meeting some of the interstaters I chat to regularly. Violet.......there are much better days to come xx
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Violetincredible
9 years ago
Thanks for caring -I touch myself- that is lovely.😘. I'm ok just a bit bemused that we are already at solstice... Like others I still feel like I'm in march... But I look back at my photos and realised I've crammed so many awesome events, friendships and adventures in the last 6 months... But I'm not where I thought I would be or doing what I thought I would be doing... And then there are these short cold days... Like meanda I'm the type of person that needs sunlight to thrive ☀️💕👀 Yes Koko and Willow better, longer , warmer days are coming... We are on the slope to Christmas eek!!! I hope you all enjoy the ride. And missb don't worry about the hurt- use it for that artistic angst material you can get from it- 😁🎨🎧 Anyway it made me smile to hear your stories and feel connected by relating to each post in some way! So thanks again- have an awesome 2nd half of year Xxviolet Ps what is this event in October Koko?- clearly I've been under a rock!!x
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RHP User
9 years ago
There is a big meet and.greet night on the 17 th October. There are people flying over from interstate so it should be a cracking night. ...... .keep it free xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
The first half of the year has been....interesting to say the least. I have met some wonderful RHP members through lunch meets etc, my kids are settled mostly, I finished a nursing diploma and in 15 days I am meeting the most amazing guy from Queensland! He makes me laugh ( snort sometimes with uncontrollable laughter), warms my heart and I cant wait to meet him! Very much looking forward to the Perth meet and greet in October too.Oh, this is my first ever post too
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RHP User
9 years ago
We are now moving towards longer days ..I don't function well around Winter Solstice....as for plans,I have never been a planner Violet I tend to just respond to whatever comes along xxFreya
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