I've resisted

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  my only tips would be some smiling pics of you - all your pics look quite serious and ' . Just ask me! Actually it's hard to talk about yourself without sounding corny.' most wont bother to ask we want to know before getting to the messaging stage - so tell us about you. You wont sound corny if you write it correctly.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  ...but do you think, maybe, you are trying to punch above your weight division? Because, our "weight divisions" here are not equal to what they are in the real world, of course. Speaking for myself only, but several years ago, when I joined here, I found it quite easy to message, chat with, and eventually meet someone. Only took me 2 weeks...and I'm certainly nothing special to look at. But when I "aimed a little higher", I mostly hit a wall. Like you have. Just the way it is unfortunately. But don't stop aiming high 😊.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  That part of your profile could do with editing, in my opinion. Passion has a more romantic feel, rather than NSA fun. Have you gone to any parties, clubs or events? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Nice to see you back on the forums. Been a while. Sorry to hear that you are getting frustrated about meeting women. But what I want to know is, how are you going since your badly timed health scare? Last we heard from you, you were having kemo or radiation treatment? How are you doing now?

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  How are you doing? Thanks Willow. I hope you're well, that would be the most important thing. As for your profile, I'm surprised you haven't been having much luck. I like your profile. The only thing I think you should do is take out the picture in the car I think it is? I don't think that pic is that great, kind of a scowl or mean look lol otherwise though, I love the pictures of you laying on the bed, the clean shaven look suits you, your face looks delicious, your skin looks yummy, all over for that matter. So yeah, I liked your written part, surprised couples haven't hitbyou up. You don't brag, it's well written and you talk about wanting to please, it all sounds down to earth and believable. So I don't know really. It's so hard for men on here. Ballsy move asking btw

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Is empty.....forget advertising your prowess, that's something that's shown, not bragged about.. Who ARE you??? As a person?? None of your about me really showed me your personality/humour/etc... So I didn't read anymore.... But.... It doesn't need to appeal to me as I'm not female - Posted from rhpmobile

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  On_Safari

  8 years ago

  About Me About me version no. ...... lost count actually. I was a paid member but just shifted back to guest for a little while. I'm a great guy. (Subjective, of course you're not going to say you're an asshole). Just ask me! Actually it's hard to talk about yourself without sounding corny. (Yes it is) I honest and very approachable and looking to just have a great time meeting some relaxed people, have a laugh (Going good there until..) and maybe indulge in some great sex if we click. (You blew it, you've just negated the former ny reducing yourself to every other Dick, Dick and Dick here looking for Sex) I like to take my time when it comes to sex and build to a very deep connected orgasm and I get great satisfaction in seeing my partner achieve complete satisfaction. (Frankly Delving I, as a woman; don't give a damn what you say sexual prowess is also subjective and dependant on a number of things like mutual attraction, physical attraction, mental stimulation as a precursor to sex, mind before loins, etc etc) I am Looking For Great girls who want to have fun with maybe an intense passionate experience thrown into the mix (aren't we all great girls? And yes that's a factor but not everything) I am open to couples as well. Lots of passion to share around. (that's nice dear) I've lately become more curious about being with a couple that involved a little bit of guy on guy. (I'd like to see that 😎....ooops already have). Not really sure to be honest but I think it's an itch that I need to scratch and find out (Good for you!!) . Open to some suggestions. (stirry gave you the best ones. WHO ARE YOU REALLY?) And I do hope you're feeling well and recovering from your illness/treatment/malady. PS You can pick my profile apart too. At the end of the day there's no 100% guaranteed sure fire successful approach BUT being genuine and real will work wonders for you unless you're deadset boring. AND if you genuinely want to meet people to see what else may transpire take sex out of the equation and your approach. People are still people and want to engage with "people" not genitalia. That comes later if you have common ground and attraction. All the best, Indy On Safari

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  For the replies. I've read them and gone away and thought about what you guys have said. I've tried to think about how I would describe myself in a way that sounds more appealing. When I was younger I was told a lot that I was a hot guy. I never really thought I was. I lacked the confidence to run with it maybe. I guess age has caught up with me and I'm not that guy any more but I do have more confidence in myself. While the comment has merits the concept of 'punching above my weight' I find curious. Is it only the hot young gym fit studs that deserve the right to approach the most attractive women? Even if they could be total jerks. Like most on here there is a certain type of woman that floats my boat. Not bemoaning just an observation. Thanks for the well wishes on my health. For those out of the loop I had Lymphoma and went through Chemo and radiation earlier in the year. I'm now in remission and just travelling home from two weeks mtb in NZ. I think I can safely say at teh moment I have been cured. I haven't felt this good in a long time. Hence the increased time on here and the normal dating sites. While I'm not ready for a relationship after my marriage breakdown I am lonely and would like to meet some nice down to earth people who also like to undress together as well. I have been to Mikes Place and that was fun. Met some great people and most of the night didn't even talk about sex. I met a lovely lady from here but the chemistry wasn't there and I have been invited to a small gang bang but it clashed with my kids staying over. They will always take precedence over my playtime. I appreciate the comments and suggestions. Some are a bit hard to cop but it's good to get them to get a reality check. I will get some better selfies when I get home and rewrite my profile. Cheers guys.

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  Bazingal

  8 years ago

  A smiling face pic is always a draw card for me. A little bit more info on you would be good, but not necessary. You may want to reconsider the wording a little, some people might be put off with "scratching an itch" someone else has. And as KissKiss mentioned clubs, parties, events (I know it's harder for a single male to receive an invitation to these, but) it is a great way to meet people in a social group environment. Perhaps even hosting your own social event to meet people? Most importantly, be yourself. Good luck. I hope you are in good health now too.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  With most of the above. Put some time and effort into your About Me and Looking For sections. Personally I'm interested in a man who knows who he is and what he is looking for - if you can't articulate that, or can't be bothered, I'm going to move on to the next profile. You also say you are a guest, but you aren't? Shows you haven't updated your info, again = lack of effort imo (apologies in advance if you have just made that change and it hasn't been approved yet). Good luck, and from reading Willow's comment above - hope you are well x

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Funny thing is I written and rewritten my profile heaps of times. I have put a lot of work into it. Im obviously shit at writing. Yes I forgot to take out the 'guest' part. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  And unfortunately the written word can not convey the smile I had when writing it. It was a light hearted joke at my fumbling around with it. Thats just me I guess (smiling) I don't take myself that seriously and can have a joke about things I get wrong but I always try hard to do better. I read back through what I wrote today and t does sound negative. Its not eant to be just really frank and open comments and observations. Ive been told I can be too harsh on myself when self critiqueing and maybe I wear too much of that on my sleeve. I discovered after many years of struggling that I have social anxiety. Ive lost really good friends because of it. I working my arse off and putting myself well outside my comfort zones to overcome it and be a better person. I hope that explains some of me in this particular conversation. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Pinky and the brain have got nothin on us NARF!!!!! ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Write it.... Just so that you're on the right path lol Which isn't the left one ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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