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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
And something that most of us would have encountered in our lives whether we were the ones exhibiting it or exposed to it. There is not much that we can do about it, other than try to take control of the way we react to it, and to teach our children how to react /not to react. It also helps to try to understand why someone, (even yourself ) is showing signs of jealousy - is it envy based? Is it due to insecurity issues? Low self esteem? What is driving it?
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mango69er
7 years ago
Got to be mad if its anyones cup of tea - Posted from rhpmobile
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boxestotick
7 years ago
Jealously doesn’t play a part in this game for us. “Ain’t nobody got time for that”... - Posted from rhpmobile
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boxestotick
7 years ago
Jealously doesn’t play a part in this game for us. “Ain’t nobody got time for that”... - Posted from rhpmobile
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swingalingson
7 years ago
And why?
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
As part of my screening process.... Am I a jealous person?? No, as I could care less if people hang around or not....so I won’t waste my time feeling worried about who they give attention to... - Posted from rhpmobile
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blondes6365
7 years ago
No jealousy hear its communication
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think some jealousy is ok, as long as its controlled and dealt with. We humans have a wide range of emotions, jealousy being one of them. Its when it threatens to upset a relationship that its dangerous. Some people do have issues, I havent encountered it personally but I know someone who has. Ive had twinges of jealousy in the past, lasted a few seconds and was over and done with there and then.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I call BS on those who say they have never felt it. Who knows what their future brings? It may come as a surprise one day. Then what? Every single human has that trait, as its a sliding scale. How one deals with it, will decide the outcome on the way they behave. Ms Foxy
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LissnJules
7 years ago
Given the right circumstances anyone can feel jealous for some reason. Jealousy is part of life and love. It can come out at unexpected times. But if u talk about it address it and move on its not an issue. Letting it fester can cause big problems. We have experienced it in our relationship from time to time but we have very open communication so we work through. There is normally something else behind it. Those who say it never happens well i don't believe it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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OkeyDoke45
7 years ago
When I was a teenager and thus ridiculously insecure as most teens are, I was insanely jealous of any other bloke talking to my girlfriend (I only ever had the one in my teens). She found it and me too suffocating - quite rightly so - and she eventually ditched me. I must have gained more confidence as I emerged into adulthood as I have never had this problem since. Mind you, I didn't have another serious relationship until my early 30's. There are different forms of jealousy - you can be jealous of someone's achievements in life, jealous of those remarkably popular people, jealous of lovers. I think if all comes down to insecurity and lack of esteem - they have succeeded in their job quicker than I did, my partner will start to realize what a fake I am if I let them speak to others etc etc. I still get the odd twinge of jealousy these days, mainly at work, but not enough to jeapordise anything. I just keep it hidden, hatching a devious little plan in my head of how I'll bring them down one day.
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
In what context are you referring to? Life in general or in the swinging scene? It’s a normal emotion displayed by everyone at some point or another. We’re all human and all have insecurities. How we affect others depends how we process those feelings of jealousy. I don’t feel there should be any place for those feelings when sharing yourself with others (swinging). Yes, experience can reduce any underlying insecurities if you choose the right people to play with. But We feel like there’s an awful lot of people out there that just shouldn’t do it. They simply don’t have the emotional maturity to deal with their feelings of jealousy. Some may potentially ruin somebody else’s experience but their own inability to process their feelings. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Gr8distraction
7 years ago
Perfect!
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gazpacho
7 years ago
Its easy to get jealousy mixed up with envy, though, I think I can be envious of someone and happy for them at the same time. Jealousy is about being unhappy for someone.... that’s not very sporting is it? Im more about lust and gluttony... or maybe im a glutton for lust? The other deadly sins are of course, pride, greed, wrath and sloth. You can have your prudence, justice, temperance and courage. I’d like Faith, Hope and Charity as side chicks. Hugs Gaz
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
hit the nail on the head for me ,couldn’t put it better and their version comes without typos ,lmao mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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Gr8distraction
7 years ago
You're just a glutton for punishment.Nice thighs and quads, by the way
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swingalingson
7 years ago
One would get jealous if the other dog was getting pets. So perhaps if animals can get jealous so can animals called humans. They too can get jealous. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Jealousy is a natural emotion, no less than happiness or anger. Animals display jealousy, as do children. Envy is different, although slightly related. I never viewed myself as a “jealous person” until last year. A few upsetting experiences led me to feel this way and certainly contributed to more insecurities. There is a huge difference to one being jealous because a member of the opposite sex works with them closely or chatting friendly in a bar and bring jealous for substantiated reasons or situations. The fear of comparison or the fear of losing that special someone to another is a natural fear of the heart. Sometimes jealousy can be a positive emotion. If your partner shows a little jealousy, they must indeed care (not to be confused with possessiveness) but this is where communication and trust and assurance keep those feelings in check and don’t create a festering issue in your relationship. Sometimes you’re happy to share and be open until that little green eyed monster pops up! Twinge. Oops. You’ve just realised you have feelings and don’t want to lose that person. Jealousy isn’t negative unless it’s a constant in your life and relationships for no reason. If your partner is experiencing jealousy too often, what are you doing to assure them of the relationship and their worth? Just some thoughts 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
All the "oh no never no jealousy here" blah blah blah..... i call Bullshit! Its a natural and seldom controllable reaction and happens to everyone at some time or another. Its where it falls on the sliding scale thats more relevant. Why can't people just be honest about their emotions and the reasons why they're feeling them?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Its how you manage and control it that splits you from the herd. It's never taken control of me since my younger days (yeah long time)and find it lessens with maturity. But its allowed me to purge those from my life who exhibit uncontrolled bouts of jealousy. It's a dangerous emotion if it takes control. It wrecks lives and takes lives. I've seen what it can do and the havoc it creates. I tend to step to the door and leave.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
I literally just realised i wrote verbatim what you said 🤣🤣😂😂 Lesson learnt.... stop skimming 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
7 years ago
Quoting 'FatFunFiesty' I literally just realised i wrote verbatim what you said 🤣🤣😂😂 Lesson learnt.... stop skimming 😄 - Posted from rhpmobilI will give reason why. First this is of 28 years married, best of friends and in love throughout all of them, to now. Emotions of jealousy on their scale sure, if that's the ride then it'll flare up in all due course, we have seen it in people we considered friends and the emotion had them act in spiteful, hateful, manipulative, possessive, furious anger, consumed in the emotion so much as to betray any loyalties, respects, honesty, trust, friendship values. ' A moment of patience in a moment of anger, can save a thousand moments of regret' There is other emotions that protect our relationship, other than jealousy, considering we have lived our life together on the sliding scale of the emotion compersion, quite the contrary to registering familiar as a person living by the sliding scale of jealousy, of course protect the emotion verbatim with aggression it flares, we can agree you are a jealous type of person:) I have had emotions protecting our relationship, not of threat to losing Tara to another, I have protected her rites as an equal with respects and by principals for one answer in any situation applies, if I were to let someone else treat Tara with disrespect, every moment from then I would be treating her with disrespect by letting it fly. Not jealousy, nor envy, she is my best friend as well, I love her and spent my life with a bunch of principals to protect the values of her wanting to be my friend, yet I do not have any rite to claim I own her, she is her own person and together we get by on the sliding scale of compersion and attributes. Word We do not register to the emotions of jealousy, 28 years to be able to say, no bullshit, call it what you want but not bullshit :) Mado Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
7 years ago
Tara I wake to see her dreamingEyes closed peaceful smile Is it me and our miles? Is it her and me the meanings Or of adventures in other time Someone, another, not of me? A pleasant feeling wells with rhyme She is free, she is not mine I love her dreaming all the time Peaceful smile, her heart defined Humble to me it is us Our time the adventures Rough lumps and bumps Comfort, cares and lust She lay there dreaming in love With me the man Who sees her as one Her own, her self, her fun Yes special she I love Dreaming fine no not enough Life for her I must Dreams not just dreams Dreams are just She lay next to me Peaceful and smiles Eyes closed peaceful and free Oh it is, clear and precise Tara she is and means to me Everything so it just seems I lay there awake with a smile To see the dreams showing our miles
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swingalingson
7 years ago
After all. Interesting responses on all sides - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Great minds think alike. 😊 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Word OriginExamplesSynonyms[jel-uh-see] Spell SyllablesjealousySee more synonyms on Thesaurus.com4.a jealous feeling, disposition, state, or mood.3.vigilance in maintaining or guarding something.2.mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry, unfaithfulness,etc., as in love or aims.1.jealous resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success oradvantage, etc., or against another's success or advantage itself.noun, plural jealousies for 4.
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Dirtyandfriendly
7 years ago
I love being made jealous by a partner or fwb. I like hearing their stories and what they did and it does make me jealous. I would like to be in a situation where I am sharing a partner and I have to watch. The only thing I don't like is someone who makes me jealous and just does it to keep me hooked for her own fun and turns into an unrewarding game. Or does it just to be a bitch.
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