RHP

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Judgemental

March 21 2013

Am I being too judgemental in judgeing people on what I see in the background of their pics.   If I look at a persons pics and see a messy, untidy view in the background, I tend to think that maybe they arn't clean in themselves.   Men I can make excuses for (sorry guys but I know alot of you arn't domestic gods) but womens and couples profiles.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    pink floral bedspread and curtains was pretty good. I guess he wanted to show his feminine side.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The gentleman with the floral wallpaper and Nemo shower curtain in in his bathroom. But, yes. I judge. When taking selfies in the mirror, please put away your wet towels, anal lube and stray feminine hygiene products. And a clean mirror is not optional. Having said that, at least a huge mess tells me a man is single. I'd much rather see a bedroom that resembles Circular Quay on New Years Eve, than a pic with a half cropped-off woman.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    when you can distinctly tell they are in their bedroom @ their mothers house... age 35 ummmmm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Gotta read all the signs, it's how we work out what's kosha and what's not. Not judgmental if it's part (rather than all) of your decision making process, in my view. I was *forced* into taking a mirror selfy this week that I knew would be seen by only a few handfuls of people at best (but what handfuls!), and I spent a loooong time trying to get a door to sit right as a background, rather than the toilet that is actually opposite the mirror... and the seat was down and everything! Present company excluded, I've noticed couples are the worst! Crapola all over the place!! Now, who wants to see me with my Nemo??? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I sometimes like to look at what other people put in their shopping trolleys at the supermarket check out. I know it's wrong...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That's hilarious.... me too! :-/ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    At the background of meso's picture and blimey, it's a nipple! ???his??? By the way great profile, enjoyed reading it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Don't we all?

  • WhispersAndMoans

    WhispersAndMoans

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Don't we all? That does it - cucumbers and carrots are going to the bottom of the shopping trolley now - too many dirty minds out there.As far as OP's question goes - yes, we are overly judgemental too. but it does provide some information on the other person or at least their taste in photo backgrounds....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's normal to explore the picture, after all your looking at this person wanting to find out about them. And we all make assumptions and judgements according to what we see every day. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm judgmental also.The naked ones taken in the kids rooms turn me off immediately, followed by dirty bathrooms and messy bedrooms.C'mon peeps, if you can see it in the mirror, it's going to be in the photo - change rooms and clean that shit up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'naughty3some'That does it - cucumbers and carrots are going to the bottom of the shopping trolley now - too many dirty minds out there.Here, I thought it meant you might be vegetarian/vegan.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...of a selfie shot in the bathroom.   In the mirror you could see the girl was clearly sitting on the throne with her pants around her ankles mid business.   definately not as sexy as she thought!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If I see a beautifully presented bedroom that looks likes it out of a magazine, I runaway. I don't want to worry about breaking things. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Personally I've played Judge and Jury but to date have avoided the Executioner role... have too many friends who if judged by where and how they live wouldn't be worth talking to... one lass has a bedroom like a city dump but she is immaculate outside of that room and overall an awesome person.   Judge away I say, just don't cut yourself off from something that may be good simply because they had a bad hair day... says he with no hair

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    watch too much ''Big Bang Theory'' and think Chaos Theory is sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If it's a dirty room then run for the hills as they are probably dirty. If it's just a messy room then maybe they were a bit busy that week.. Personally I wouldn't put mess in the background of a picture, but not everyone is like me. There's a difference between messy and dirty. I have family members that clean vigorously two or three times a week but there is always stuff lying around in thier house which is clean but messy and they are clean people as far as personal hygene is concerned. God help us when we move into our new home if that's the way you judge. We are setting up a man cave for Mr in the garage area and it will have a computer. So if he's on cam you will see a typical garage area which is never as tidy as a house unless your the anally retentive type in those areas. So look again at those pics and ask is it messy or dirty and then judge.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    I like what I like. I'm not here to justify my preferences to anyone. Is that judgmental?! Great! You call it that, I'll call it my selective standards. If you don't match them, I'm fine with it.... and good luck to you. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi! Fun4some2 Thanks for your Topic.. I rarely get those type of Guys saying hi! when I do, I try to bypass the room and focus on the vibes he's sending me from his Pic. I can pretty much sense his Personality , feel his emotions especially the stronger ones just from looking in his eyes. That's my Priority Since I won't be there to clean up after him at his place, it doesn't really matter if it's not spotless.. However if it's a dump he's unkempt unshaven and just a real slob who looked like he just returned from the wilderness after getting lost Then it won't matter what his room looks like 1 look at him would put me right off! Pronto!! End of story!! Cheers Lu :)