M47 F44
Just Read the Bloody Profile DUDE.
January 15 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
While we are looking for single males we have specifically said no older than 40 and must be in our state... I get very tired of 45yr olds (or older) from Sydney sending messages like loved ur profile lets hook up! wow a 2500km long cock someone call guiness book of records! I try to reply to everyone but I'm now getting to the stage where I think "if you can't be bothered reading my profile (and respecting it) then I can't be bothered answering you" So I completely hear you and I guess it's just the joys of a site like this that you have to take the good with the bad Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
15 years ago
We have had enough of them too. We even had one last night send us a message "would you like to chat?" we sent back the normal "where does it say we want to talk to single males" and got the reply of " was wanting to wind you up for a bite" and then proceeded to carry on about how I cannot satisfy my partner. Unfortunately one too many and we turned off the auto renew and our membership expires in a couple of weeks and no more. Good luck to the rest of the normal people. D and A
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RHP User
15 years ago
who the hell would want to have sex witha guy over 45yo i mean thats just eeeeww. They should be castrated or shot on their 45th Birthday!Cheers Nev ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I will put my hand up, I have sent msgs to couples only looking for women, single ladies looking for some young stud etc. BUT (and I will repeat for those who can't read past the first line), BUT I never ask for anything, nor expect a reply. The majority of mine are a result of chatting to them in the chat rooms or from here. They have said or done something that has impressed me, normally something simple like behaving with class in the face of dickheads. So I send a polite 'Well Done". Now the majority have replied, thanking me for taking the time and for noticing their efforts. Every once and again I get abused for not reading their profile. If that happens I do write back and apologise for upsetting their delicate ego's and point at at no time did I request anything. Seems at times us poor single guys aren't the only ones who can't read. Nev, oh mate I hear you. Once a guy passes that terminal age of 45, he might as well shave his head, don a orange dress and join a religeous cult that prohibits sex!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I was going for toungue in cheek.....but yep its a double edged sword! Cheers Nev.... aka the Fiddler on the Roof....man i have that stuck in my head now! (from another post)Ps : You have a great night Mooka!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'kjandnev' who the hell would want to have sex witha guy over 45yo i mean thats just eeeeww. They should be castrated or shot on their 45th Birthday! Cheers Nev ;) Sorry Nev (and Mooka), did not mean to offend... while I'm happy to CHAT to anyone, anywhere, any age when it comes to play dates the age range is my preference, hence the specifics on my profile... and yes I have shagged guys out of this range, and enjoyed it but wanted to narrow down the field a bit... and will admit to being a bit superficial, looking for a hot bod and cock... why? because it's all part of the fantasy I guess, something I never thought I could get in the past. If you were ever to send me a message saying "liked what you wrote in XYZ post, would you like to chat as just friends," then I would reply in the affirmative... its the ones who write I know I'm not in your age range OR state but I'd be the best you ever had that give me the shits. So sorry again for any offense and hope I explained myself moderately well Mrs Sassy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Getting sick of the whinging couples who have to complain about getting too many messages. Sure there are idiots that think they are gods gift to women and can turn a lesbian straight after just one session. And those that think that after they sleep with a couple the woman is going to fall head over heals for them. I admit those guys are absolute dropkicks that probably struggle to satisfy a blowup doll. No matter what you say those guys don't have enough between their ears to understand it anyway. But realise these guys are actually few and far between. 1st message unless it is something stupid should get a response. Even if that is sorry but you may have noticed we aren't after guys. At this point I think I should point out that I have seen a lot of couples profiles that say they don't want single men but still have men in their looking for. If you do this then you are as stupid as the guys messaging you. If you are playing with the male of a couple you do not select Men on looking for, you select couple. Not too hard a concept to grasp.If after a first message they then send another to try to convince you of their sexual prowess then here is the solution. BLOCK. Wow you will never hear from them again. Problem solved. But realise that these guys are probably only the bottom 1% of the guys on here. By starting to lump all single males in with them is blatently unfair in a world that is already well against them to start with.So have a little patience, use the block where necessary to get rid of the dropkicks and say thanks when someone says they like your profile. Doesn't mean they want anything, Maybe they want to talk. Give them a chance.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mooka and Nev... We have received messages from straight single men from the forums along the lines you are talking about ............... hey nice post ............. hey like what you have to say................. Hey isnt sophie74 hot........? that kinda stuff. Never worries us....... its nice, just general chit chat. BUT oh dear USM79 yes while its been a while we do get ridiculous messages "hey can I #5@$ her" or " she needs me to root her good and proper......." (oh hell thanks for the offer, being a sad single man who cant follow instructions your just the kinda guy I want my partner with ) Its just rude and I often reply.............. "this champ is why you are single......." Other thing is its about ratio's if they plague 100 couple with messages they may get a messagemaybe even two!!!! yay!!!!!! in return. Coooooool they think lets keep that game up! We simple get their name add it to our block list (oh what an extensive list it is becoming lol) and it's over. Any way dont worry its all apart of the game. Move on there are plenty of very fun people on here to meet! mmmmm like us! Sweet kisses to all sexy swingers and a happy new year! (We are back)
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RHP User
15 years ago
You have nothing to apologise for, it is your right to ask for whatever you want. I took no offence, and knew what you meant, was just a little toungue in cheek humour.But in a way it is accurate as Mooka said, not to many are interested in mid 45's and older guys, again not your problem.You guys Have a great night!Cheers Nev......We dont' ever contact anyone we don't match with...unless invited
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't think they can read! We get 29 year old guys contacting us as well. I don't care how big and hard you are or how long you say you can satisfy me..... read the profile!!!!! As soon as I see they are a single guy (or girl) I delete the msg. I used to reply with a "sorry you're not what we are looking for", but I've got typer's cramp and those letters on my keyboard are wearing out. So now I just hit "delete", but even that key is beginning to wear! Mrs D
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RHP User
15 years ago
JUST THOUGHT I'D ADD MY TWO BOBS WORTH IN AND SAY THAT IM AMAZED HOW MANY SO CALLED STRAIGHT MALE PARTNERS IN THE COUPLES SCENE AREN'T STRAIGHT AT ALL AND EITHER CHECK OUT MY PROFILE AND MESSAGE ME OR REQUEST A CHAT IT BLOWS THE OPEN RELATIONSHIP OUT THE WINDOW PS MR AND MRS SASSY I M GLAD I READ YOURS AND CHECKED OUT THIS TOPIC I WON'T MEESSAGE U BECAUSE IM A DECREPID 46 YR OLD BUT BTHATS LIFE JUST ENJOY WHATEVER COMES YOUR WAY
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usm79
15 years ago
As a few of you have said, a polite nice post or the like is normally replied to with a simple thank you as a mark of respect. However for the gentleman claiming that these poeple who can't read are only the bottom 1% of the males on this site should see our block list and inbox from these idiots. It is getting to a size that might need it's own server soon ;-) With the function on here that brings up that you are not what they are looking for and to still get messages from 'Hungdonkey24inches' or his mate 'ompalumpa2cm' it does make you wonder just how much rejection they want to take? We are not saying they don't have the right to look at our profile or even stroke their cocks whilst looking enjoying our public gallery, but please just leave it at that if the profile has 'No Single Males' typed in it. The tick and flick boxes can sometimes get selected without you even noticing. We discover a lot of single men posing as couples, single girls, or even entire groups just to get people interested. This always leads to us getting upset for wasting our time and the them getting shitty because we won't meet with 'just the male whilst the female is away', or 'my boyfriend whilst I'm ill', or 'I don't know why more people haven't turned up to this party?' Or the ever disturbing 'my partner is pregnant and want's me to go out and play but not confirm she is ok with this over the phone'. All we ask is that single men realise that by approching us in such a disrespectful manner the only result will be rejection and save both their and our time, move on and find someone who might be interested in them.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We deal with the same shit daily......I dont wana read there sob stories and why they havent had sex bla bla bla...if they want a sympathy fuck go find it elsewhere as far as im concerned...mrs twoisfun
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am finding this a very interesting thread, some very good comments are here. There have been several threads on Nice Guys versus Bad Guys with the resulting opinion that the Bad Guys always win. You only have to venture into the chat rooms and even the forums to a lesser extent, to see the loudest (and often crudest) people - yes I am talking of guys, girls and couples - are often the most popular. So lets take this a step further. A guy joins RHP, and cruises around the chat rooms, even reads some of the forum threads. He tries being polite and more often than not, doesn't even get a reply simply due to the volume of correspondence his intented target is receiving. So he ponders on what to do and notices that being loud and obnoxious seems to work here a hell of a lot. So he tries to act like that, thinking it is the norm (and from what I have heard and read, maybe it is, but actually know it isn't). The poor guy thinks he has to act like a sex depraved arsehole just to get noticed. Unfortunately the poor smuck has based his entire methodology of conquest on a very small yet vocal group and incorrect thinks that everyone on this site behaves the same way. Now lets get one thing straight, I am not codoning the actions of these idiots who send out crude, unwanted messages without reading a profile or worse, failing to acknowledging or comprehen what their intended recipient is after. All I am attempting to do is offer an alternate explanation as to why this sort of action seems so prevalent here. mooka
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RHP User
15 years ago
lol @ decrepid 46 y.o.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hello USM79, sOME PEOPLE ONLY BREEZE THROUGH PROFILES.Often they only read what interests them. Your profile has the following two things in it: We have a real cuckold type fantasy that we would love to live out. In short we seduce 'wifey' while 'hubby' is forced to watch whilst She teases him. Sound like your thing, contact us right away. She wants; 1) Fit guys who look after themselves and know how to use what they've got, 2) Confident guys who don't mind other men being present and joining whilst being filmed, 3) Gentleman who don't ask stupid questions, & 4) Respectful people who understand the need for descrition If i read your profile, those above two lines, would get me to try my luck, even though you do state that you will contact males when you want. I would be ruled out anyway, cause i would fail point 3!!lol. Maybe remove those two things, it might make a difference.. Cheers.. p.s.If ur ever in Melb, and looking for guys, pls look me up..
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usm79
15 years ago
We'd suggest you re-read the first line you highlighted. It does say 'in short WE seduce wifey!' please note the WE not you, but WE meaning us as a couple. The second point reffering to what she is looking for in a man is linked to what he is looking for in women. Should we remove that so we don't get single women contacting us? You have just proven a major point single1. Single men skim a profile and don't really read it. Couples have males in them aswell hench the entry in our profile. But why when we clearly state we are not looking for single guys would you try your 'luck'? We have asked at the start for this not to be personal or mud slingling. SO thank you for getting personal. If we are ever in Melbourne we will not be contacting you. But thank you for you input.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Also rude people, Cough shirecpl, please if you think that chatting to more than one person is insulting, sorry move on. We are not the time-wasters, you know you are.I did a username search and suspect shirecpl must have changed their handle... perhaps it would be an idea to update your profile and remove the parts that might make you look like rude people.Cheers Mrs P'PS: re your question... Why, oh why do we get single men approaching us telling us that they love our profile and have fully read it?I don't get it that it seems to be such a common problem for others. We have an update on our profile to make it clear that while we are seeking men, we aren't seeking at the moment, yet have received very few messages of the type you describe over the past few months. We have an auto-reply set for people that didn't read our profile properly that repeats the message in our profile with, what we hope is, a touch of humour.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I didnt get personal..Just highlited what i thought might be the problem... Compare your profile to Peachy Pears... Anyway with an attitude like yours, i wouldnt want to get to know u.. Just look at line three in her wants..Gentlemen who dont ask stupid questions?? aS FAR AS IM CONCERNED THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A STUPID QUESTION... You guys just sound so arrogant!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We thought yours was a well thought out and explained post. After reading the profile, we were seriously confused and didn't dare to go there aside from the mention we made which has now been removed from their profile, something good to see. Quoting 'single1_4fun' I didnt get personal..Just highlited what i thought might be the problem... Compare your profile to Peachy Pears... Anyway with an attitude like yours, i wouldnt want to get to know u.. Just look at line three in her wants..Gentlemen who dont ask stupid questions?? aS FAR AS IM CONCERNED THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A STUPID QUESTION... You guys just sound so arrogant!!! If we ever went interstate and headed your way, we'd be sure to look you up!Have fun... hugs Peachypear {:-*}
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RHP User
15 years ago
not to many neurones in a phallishugs, Earl.
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usm79
15 years ago
Single1_4fun You may not have meant to be personal, but that is how we read and re-read your post. However when you say things like "Your profile has the following two things in it:" that is a personal comment about us! If you think we are arrogant that is of course your right. We have formed our opion of you based on the available information. We felt that the proposition was quite insulting seeing as this whole topic/thread is about reading the profile fully and respecting what is written there in. We have clearly stated time and time again that we are not inviting single men to contact us and yet you make a pass at us in a forum post about not wanting single men to approch us? We think that is pretty arrogant in itself. But that is our opion and just as we respect yours we hope you will respect ours. General We have taken note of the suggestions/recommendations made by other postings within this forum. We hope this will clearify what we are looking for and what we are not after.So thank you for the feed back everybody. We are sure this thread we continue to create much debate. Can we ask that no-one quotes from anyone else's profile as this can lead to misunderstanding.
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RHP User
15 years ago
But I wanted to add that I thought single1_4fun was only ever offering advice on your profile {not you personally} in an attempt to help you solve your problem from your end. He made it clear it was only from HIS point of view as well making sure you understood they were only ever suggestions. I found your profile confusing myself but had no suggestions to offer aside from the one I offered that you followed up on.I'm astonished that you seem surprised that people would look at your profile in trying to find an answer to help you... Me, I'm into problem solving, leaves me with a sense that I am taking control and I'm happy to say as I said before that we have no problems with the sort of situation you described in your original post anymore thanks to that urge to problem solve combined with a desire to make the best of our time on RHP. Cheers... Mrs P' Quoting 'usm79' Single1_4fun You may not have meant to be personal, but that is how we read and re-read your post. However when you say things like "Your profile has the following two things in it:" that is a personal comment about us!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thankyou Mrs P. You make very good points. Their profile is confusing..yours isnt... Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Great Profile. Very Clear and concise... And a great Pic too!! Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
for helping me to clarify the point I wanted to make... And for confirming that we have indeed achieved what we were hoping with our profile. I think people sometimes forget that that the people searching their profile have probably already read a mind-numbing number of profiles already, a lot of which probably don't match their search parameters cos they get there and find the people really aren't looking for.... whatever led the seeker to the profile in the first place...The pics we hope to add to one of these days, so many theories that now just need to proceed to the 'putting in practice' stage...Hugs... PP69
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usm79
15 years ago
We look for somments about a common problem manner couples face on RHP, namely the original debate topic. But as we pointed out when you start, as has been said, offering advice on an individual profile then it instantly becomes personal and as such somewhat disrepsectful. To then make a pass is poor form and some what insulting. Having reviewed both profiles we don't feel they offer much to the casual looker and we wouldn't be inclined to cocntact either. But that is our chioce. To say if you are ever in XXXXXXX please contact me, in the middle of a forum is just not on. If you review single1's first post on this subject where he starts to disect our profile in public for the world to see you'll note he has shouted his first comment (used CAPS) and as such insently set the tone for the remainder of his post. This was not a post saying 'hi, i've looked at your post can I messgage you to offer some suggestions?' but instead was 'sOME PEOPLE ONLY BREEZE THROUGH PROFILES' a whole different approach to the subject matter and other posters in this forum. We have made it clear that we have welcomed the debate about how to deal with the issue and even taken the advice and removed a portion of our word picture that was a little out of date. We have cleared up what could have been a some wat confusing issue by amending what she & he wants into what WE want. The rest we are happy with as if you read it we feel it is very clear, the confusion comes from people just skimnming profiles. Now can we please move on from this tangent and get back to the debate of why single men don't read profiles and ignore the big section of writting in CAPS saying no single males please. Thank you
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RHP User
15 years ago
you guys need to relax your lucky anyone answers your profile.. Most people skim profiles Most only look at pics and age and location Most profiles are NOT set in stone.. if you are advertising a cuckold husband ..expect replies from anyone and everyone :>
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'd like to help you with your debate about why single men don't read profiles but I doubt anything I would say would satisfy you.The fact is it's not only men that don't read profiles it's also women and couples, it's just that in your case you're seeking them and we're not. We don't find it that big a problem.I apologise that I think it's a waste of time because it's not solving anything and the topic has been done to death in my opinion, without to my knowledge any satisfactory conclusion. But to tell you the truth, if you want a good debate you might be better off in Hot Topics where you'd also get the single females possibly putting in their 2 cents worth. Quoting 'usm79'... Having reviewed both profiles we don't feel they offer much to the casual looker and we wouldn't be inclined to cocntact either. But that is our chioce.Lastly, I'd like to point out that not at any stage did I make a personal comment on how I felt about your profile re meeting you, unlike yourself re ours. But and this really is quite funny, considering ours starts with... Quoting Peachypear69 profile...********************************************************************************* We mean it when we say we are not looking right now, so please save your messages for others who are :-) *********************************************************************************it's yet again reassuring to know it is having the desired effect... all without shouting and we've even managed a smile ;-)Cheers... Mrs P' {:-*}
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RHP User
15 years ago
It is not just single guys who cant read the profiles, it is everyone from time to time. Loads of people don't appear to read my profile and write to me regardless. I have an auto reply which says something along the lines of "if you don't fit my criteria I will not be replying to your message."Don't be so touchy. so what if a guy makes a pass in a forum it isn't the end of the world, life will still go on.
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kittycat49
15 years ago
I just wanted to say that, you do sound a bit arrogant! Usm 79 If they send you messages and flirts just block them simple i do. Problem solved. Kittycat49
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'NeoAndBlaze' you guys need to relax your lucky anyone answers your profile.. Most people skim profiles Most only look at pics and age and location Most profiles are NOT set in stone.. if you are advertising a cuckold husband ..expect replies from anyone and everyone :>Magnificently said.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think the last couple of posts sums it all up..... Not that i need any backup,....but its nice to get it. Hope your endeavours go well on rhp.....
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RHP User
15 years ago
oops, sorry all, I must've dozed off............. Circular discussions tend to have that effect on me. (with tongue tucked firmly into cheek) Adrian.
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RHP User
15 years ago
USM79 how sad you two must be and desperate eh!!! with the tirade you espoused too all and sundry regards single males contacting you, you leave all you wrote to conjecture and ragging plus open to peeps to contact you males especially. Hey loosen up get with the program if you don't want uninvited( males single that is) contacting you have a spin doctor of words to write your profiles for you in such away it wilnot offend or invite single men to wanna chat with you .We do have in our profiles no single men they view and its their right but at least if she likes she will contact them but other than that leave them alone...Fergus53 h
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RHP User
15 years ago
You keep mentioning single guys cant read profiles and how to solve the problem. Lots of people dont read profiles properly and even if they do they often might try anyway. There is no solution. Just delete the messages/flirts and move on like the rest of us do. I get contacted by bisexual women, couples, guys from 19 upwards and all I am asking for is guys 40 plus!! Even I don't always read the profile properly e.g yesterday I received a message from a couple so I sent one back saying I wasn't interested in females then went over the profile again to discover it was 2 guys but I hadn't read it properly. There is nothing you can do so there is no point in worrying about.
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