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  Livingandloving2

  8 years ago

  It's simply that couples preference. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  8 years ago

  They don't want to be an accessory to cheating ? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I am happily married and here with hubby's knowledge. We also have a couples profile. I only look for single guys because a married one simply can't give me what I am looking for. A married man cannot come away for a dirty weekend with me/us. I really don't want wifey putting restrictions on when he can meet with me/us. Yes, my hubby is free to play without restriction as I am. With NO restrictions on time/place. I was caught out once, early on by a married man pretending to be single. It did not go down well with his wife when she eventually found out. It caused me a lot of problems and grief for her. I have learned a lot about sussing things out since then. So sorry, it's single only for me. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  horneycouplewa

  8 years ago

  Could be an issue with not wanting to deal with no shows or cancellations due to the attached man and his secret !!! Or they have met many couples and prefer to keep them as couples. Or just because Different folks....different strokes

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Married men can be more unreliable BUT not in my personal experiences. The men who I've played with have had their wife's blessing and have been available for dirty weekends, so I've been lucky. And they're gentlemen to boot, well outside the bedroom lol ;) Single men can be unavailable more so than married men depending on how many Fbs or FWBs they have :( You do need to consider though that many men find the idea of their partner playing outside the relationship a turn on, my husband does :) Lastly, the reality of finding four people who find each other sexually and physically attractive to become longer term playmates/lovers is near impossible, though we've found a couple of couples, lol 😂 There are lots to consider. Mary xx

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Single guys will appreciate her, give her undevided attention in AND out of the bedroom. A married guy is unlikely to be able to do that as he is there for sex / play only. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Libbylou2 You say you were caught out by a married man pretending to be single. That is why we were saying, why rull out meeting a married man ( he has less to hide) If everyone is acting above board surely a simple Ph call between both parties would rule out any deceitful actions. If he is saying he's married, wouldn't it be easer to find out if he is telling the truth rather than a single guy making out he's single but married ! Thanks for everyone's imput, do see all points of view, can be a minefield, thats for sure! Cheers

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Just wondering why you say single guys hide anything? How does a married man "have less to hide"? Im pretty sure us single guys have nothing to "hide"....particularly when the female knows where we live etc. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Hi Wolf, we're not saying you are trying to be more deceitful , maybe its like this....if a married guy set up a profile saying he's single, wouldn't their be more of a chance for the woman to be caught out! Now if he's up front in saying he is in a relationship and allowed to play, wouldn't it be easy for the woman, if wanting to meet, call and speak to both. That way less likely for the female to be caught out. This is why we brought up the subject.....Woman feel, maybe? it's safer not to seek out attached men for fear of beening the unwanted 3rd cog "Drama " All we were thinking was why totally rule attached men out when really less likely to be cought out buy a fake guys single profile.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Majority of married men on here are cheating on there partners. I do say in my profile that I will need to speak to Mrs if you are married. If They are genuine after talking to partner, then no issues. Unfortunately when I ask to talk to partner they suddenly get cold feet and admit there partner knows nothing about Rhp. Yes they are cheaters and I will not be party to that. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  FeistyFatty

  8 years ago

  Pure and simple. I don't care either way because it's not my marriage. My hubby and I have an open marriage and it's full disclosure and full vetto rights all the way. If a playmate wants to cheat on their spouse; that's their prerogative (and i have no right to judge as it's not my situaton). and as I'm only borrowing them for some fun and have no interest in a relationship or affair.... I see no difference to that of a single man. But that's just how my husband and I feel and certainly respect the feelings of others that are alike and to the contrary - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  If that were to be true (Majority of married men are cheaters) that would be sad to believe!! As DynamicCouple said...no woman wants to be an accessory to cheating! We assumed that at least most men in a couples profiles were what they clamed to be!! Therefore minimising the risk of becoming an accessory! Seems you can get burnt by both, married or single.....Ohhhh

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