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Just a Question here

November 23 2008

sex

Hey, I'm 22 and sadly have not been blessed with looks so in turn I have had next to no sexual encounters in my life and as a result I am terrible at it and looking around this site I've noticed the Prerequisite of 99% of people is ability in the bedroom. This naturally presents a dilemma as listing inexperienced on my profile (which granted needs more work) will put people off and lying about my "talents" will only burn me in the end so what I want to know is at what age is it still ok to be inexperienced at sex and if its really worth my time on this site or am I better off paying for it till I at least get the logistics of it all sorted out?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey mate, I would be honest. However I would not boldly say it like "I am inexperienced in any sexual activity" I would more say it like "I am a fresh young one, in need of teachings. Would you let me be your toyboy? ;)" I think alot of women (mainly older) love to teach a boy how they want it their way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    By the time you get to my age ...42..i wanted someone who knows what there doing ....bugger toilet training anybody...been there done that with my kids. Grav might be my toyboy but well experienced and house trained, i might add, lol. Sorry goatman...get into the chatrooms and get your self noticed , go to some of the meets in your state and meet as many ppl as you can ..profile pic is a great start too..we need to know what you look like...your personality is what counts,,not looks hun. Stop worrying about what you dont have experience in and more of what you do have. Your probably a great guy, just the right girl hasnt found you yet. Have fun , the rest will happen naturally along the way. Leelee xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ok Goatman, you definetly need a pic, you might think your butt ugly, but somewhere some woman will like your face/physique. Forget about personality being the most important thing, because if she isn't Physically attracted in the 1st place, it won't matter a tinkers cuss to her how great a person you are! Secondly what makes you think all the women here are sex goddesses, bet ya most here are as inexperienced as you. Good luck fella Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hi goatman... I would suggest talking about what you'd really LIKE to try - what your fantasies are, how you imagine a really hot sexual encounter to go, what experiments interest you.. etc etc I find that sort of *detailed* information tells me a hell of a lot more about what someone is like in the bedroom than listing their experiences. And remember, what is a "talent" in one woman's eyes will be a disaster in another's. Put another way, there are women out there who like the type of sex you do. You just need to give them some info for them to recognise that you are the type they are after. As far as your other questions go, there is no age limit for sexual experience. I have met (and fucked) virgins your age and older, so no need to pay for it. (No that wasn't an offer, but feel free to message me, lol). Do whatever you need to feel like you know what you are doing. Confidence is three quarters of the way towards being great in bed. nadi xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    HI Goatman, The fact that you don't have experiance in the bedroom really doesn't matter. You are on this site and hopefully, in time, you will gain some experiance. But first you have to catch the girls' eyes. I agree with KJ & Nev. First and formost, you need a photo. Just because you think you may be unattractive doesn't mean us ladies will think the same. I will guarantee that it is not your looks that hasn't got you many sexual encounters. It would be your lack of confidence. Women LOVE confident men! Even more so than men that are sexy, muscle bound with ripped abs and a handsome face. Sure, well ALL love to LOOK at beautiful people, but that is not what makes us want to jump in the sack with them. It is their personality, charm and confidence. Here is an example...I have a lover and dear friend in my life. He is not a handsome man. He is tall and chubby, shaves his head and if he were green he would look just like Shrek. But I can't get enough of him. And women want him. And he usually gets the women he goes after. It is not because he is handsome to look at. It is because he likes who he is and he doesn't care that he may be on the chubby side or unattractive on the eye. Simply put, he is confident. So, how are you going to catch the girls eyes? 1. A pictrue 2. Confidence confidence confidence 3. It is OK to be shy, but stop telling us that you don't have experiance. (We don't care about this, we want to know what you are going to do to us and what you want us to do to you!) 4. Make us laugh 5. Make us WANT YOU By the way, I like chubby men. A lot of girls do :) "Confidence is Sexy" Cheers! Shotsido