Just asking for some tips

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  The_Antichrist

  6 years ago

  Sooo...what tips do you seek?

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Yes - what tips do you seek exactly? Meaning of life? Lotto numbers? Locating g spots? The list is honestly endless so more information may help your cause :-)

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  Careful of wasps when slugging on a tinnies..... Dejavu? But you have added some new pics. Well done you

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  Be careful of grammar or the grammar Nazis will chopper in I should have said " on a tinnie" or " on tinnies" Good luck OP

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Just seeking general advice I am a nice guy down to earth just looking for new friends here female preferably lol so sorry to disappoint anyone

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  The hardest thing with the whole online world it’s very difficult to portray you natural personality into words. Honestly I suck at it. Call me old fashion but I much prefer face to face interaction than messages on here. I find it hard to write about myself but am much better in person. Mate there are plenty of guy on here in the same boat. Join the club and hope for the best. Be patient you do find the odd diamond in the rough

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  deepestpurple

  6 years ago

  Try everything not to come across as desperate, needy, pushy. Women don't want to feel pressured in anyway and when the other party is super keen it can be taken as pressure not to disappoint. Learn to accept no reply as an answer. The best translation I have is "not right now, possibly not ever". The not right now is important because if you react to the no reply and try demand an answer it will turn to "not ever" (and you're unlikely to even get that answer). Women are genuinely overwhelmed at times and if you can take being ignored or rejected well it can work in your favor. Have other avenues for meeting women and socialising. This is most important because if you can't do this you will fail at my first 2 suggestions also. Make this part of a bigger plan to get out and meet new people, have things going on in your life. Do not put all your eggs in the RHP basket otherwise you're just a loser at home on a computer. If a woman is replying to you, know that she is interested. That doesn't mean she's decided to have sex with you but she's interested. Take the initiative in progressing the interaction to a face to face meet, have a plan and suggest it then leave it in her court. I always suggest coffee but let them know I could also catch up for drink if they prefer. Don't get shitty someone bails, you're a cool guy with lots going on in your life. One person bailing on something is insignificant in the scheme of that. Even if they stand you up, have a fun time anyway, try meet someone else while you're out. Give them another chance, things happen and people get nervous. Use the forums. Be yourself, don't give a shit what some of these other jerks think, stay true to yourself and your values and opinions.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  6 years ago

  For me, s soon as I hear "I'm a nice guy", I feel the hibby jibbies and is a Red Flag. There's a huge difference between "a nice guy" and a good man. Best of Luck Ms Foxy

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