M36
Just friends
August 13 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your MAN LICENSE will be revoked 😢
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not sure what the question is. Are you are asking if its ok to share a bed but not take things further? It is really up to the people involved. If there is no physical attraction between the two of you then it is perfectly acceptable to have no expectations of sex. It would be like a brother/sister relationship. Would you spoon your sister? If there is physical attraction expressed from your friend but you don't feel the same then no, do not share a bed with her. Its a case where she may receiving mixed messages from you. "We slept together but he didn't do anything more". It also depends on the scenario. Were you comforting your friend through a rough time in her life? In that case, she may have needed the hugs and closeness of a friend. If you do take it further then you could risk the friendship for something that probably won't be very satisfying sex. I hope this helps! SF
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RHP User
11 years ago
it's called being very respectful towards each other!FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
You spooned? Sounds like she either just doesn't see you that way, or she was waiting for you to make the first move. Either way, you may now be friend-zoned.
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RHP User
11 years ago
sweet OP,and sounds like you are both just in the friends zone....a good friend beats a quick bonk any day
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'sweet OP,and sounds like you are both just in the friends zone....a good friend beats a quick bonk any day But what if being friends leads to bonking which leads to relationship where you are great friends and lovers.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The question is, did she press back into you while you spooned her? Maybe you should ask her about why she let you spoon her.
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RHP User
11 years ago
sounds like you want to change the relationship to FWB.What gets me is that females who are strictly platonic, can share a bed, however males run for the hills at the sheer mention
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sensory, basically I find her attractive but not sure she feels the same way.. The reason for her staying in my bed is because she stayed at my house because we went out in town & got drunk so she couldn't drive home. The question is would you share a bed with someone if you don't find them attractive or want something sexually out of it- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You want it to be more than friends....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is safe... still have mine and I've spooned with quite a few female friends... and 2 strangers. Just because you are in bed with a woman doesn't mean you have to poke her. After all we hug and kiss friends, and that doesn't always lead to a climatic event. Now if she was flirting and being more suggestive. . .
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have two very special lady friends that I have not slept with as such in a sexual way. We have shared the bed on a few occasions but nothing other than a cuddle or spooning. I have the up most respect for these ladies and we have agreed that our friendship is far more valuable than throwing sex in the mix and stuffing up a very good friendship. If you like this lady in a sexual way tell her don't play on the friends part. If you have respect for her and only want a good friendship, nothing wrong with sharing a bed, just remember once you cross the boundary of friends to friends with benefits its a whole new ball game. Just my thoughts on it anyway OP
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RHP User
11 years ago
Did it take a lot of self control to do nothing more ? I just can't imagine being in bed with a man , spooning , and not doing anything more .... But that's just me ;p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have this close lady friend who for many years I always thought was a spunk but out of bounds. We mixed in the same circles ( her brother played NRL with me ) and got along like a house on fire' but that was it. One of my footy mates invited me to his wedding in Brisbane. She also got the invite but was scared of flying. A mates girlfriend the same so the 4 of us decided to drive up. Our plan was to drive halfway , stop the night and continue the next. We got to Coffs Harbour about 6pm and couldn't find a motel with vacancies anywhere. Then someone suggests the local caravan park which we find but only has 2 van available , so I was happy for the couple to have one ' the girl the other and I'll sleep in the car. At dinner' she suggests I sleep on one of the bunks instead of the car' so at bedtime ' we're in bed ' her on the double, me on the bunk with my arse hanging over the edge.. She starts laughing then invites me to share the big bed. Cut a long story short, laughing turned to a playful wrestle which turned to touching which turned to sex. Next morning we showered had breakfast and went on our way. So yes' you an have sex with a friend for the hell of it and still remain that way..
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm all happy with Spooning Just don't blame me if I get Hard ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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Plain
11 years ago
See girls there are gentleman amongst us, if you are lucky and you both openly discuss the situation as to what each other was seeking that night, you might find yourselves entwined rather than bonking.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sound like my marriage for god sake lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was offered a bed once with no action as a test. Her test "make it through the night without touching me as I'll be naked and you never know your luck for night 2!!" Hmmmm....my bed was 10 minutes away.....I'll pass. But now, when I go home, I quite often stay the night with a lady friend whom I met working at the local nightclub. Yes we've shagged, but no longer, and occasionally she'll just want someone to share the bed with...meh I'm cool with that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
responses here actually, keep it up folks
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot'I was offered a bed once with no action as a test. Her test "make it through the night without touching me as I'll be naked and you never know your luck for night 2!!" Sounds like a head-fuck.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'shakaG009'See girls there are gentleman amongst us, if you are lucky and you both openly discuss the situation as to what each other was seeking that night, you might find yourselves entwined rather than bonking. Personally I couldn't really imagine just spooning if it was with a guy I'd not had sex with. I'm not sure I'd be able to relax completely. But with lovers there certainly have been times where all we did was hold each other and sleep. Physical contact is great for the soul.
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RHP User
11 years ago
your on. As you say Mesmerised sometimes just being together is as good as it gets, no need for physical stuff, the mental needs are met.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
I have done this with a few female friends so no worries mate
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RHP User
11 years ago
REVOKED. Poor Funlover learnt the answer to this question the hard way :(.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'grand_poobah'REVOKED. Poor Funlover learnt the answer to this question the hard way :(. As for spooning your friend. No issue there as far as I can see, I've done it. Sometimes it's just nice to feel someone there. If it's playing with your head and you want more then I suggest you talk to her about it.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
OP Have you two had wild crazy monkey love yet?!!! That's what you want, right?!!! That's exactly why you've asked, without asking. Be honest with yourself, and her. So if you want that.... why act like her gay best friend?! She already likes you and is comfortable and trusting enough to sleep in your bed. But is she showing signs of Attraction.... and are you pouring cold water on her smoldering coals by being 'nice'. Man-up Be BOLD. You just might find something amazing there that you both want. Or, you might just gain a FB Or you find out there's nothing. But right now.... you've got what?! DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Having "FRIENDS" of the opposite sex is hard work!!!!!I am really struggling with this at the moment.No matter what I do lately, I just can't seem to get it right. FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
I only have one and he is now wearing fishnet stockings :(. Lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' OP Have you two had wild crazy monkey love yet?!!! That's what you want, right?!!! That's exactly why you've asked, without asking. Be honest with yourself, and her. So if you want that.... why act like her gay best friend?! She already likes you and is comfortable and trusting enough to sleep in your bed. But is she showing signs of Attraction.... and are you pouring cold water on her smoldering coals by being 'nice'. Man-up Be BOLD. You just might find something amazing there that you both want. Or, you might just gain a FB Or you find out there's nothing. But right now.... you've got what?! DG 100%If you didn't want to go there (yeah right) then fine.But if you wanted to but "went along" with it, congratulations you are now in the "just good friends basket"softcock licence granted !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sometimes my BIG MOUTH gets me into trouble as I often forget that not everybody thinks I'm funny or certain things are amusing. When I step over a line, all I can do is apologise, hope it accepted and try to remember that line next time. So u wanna f
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