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  KrisM

  2 years ago

  As appealing as that looks in writing, what you're looking for is someone who finds both of you attractive enough to warrant being intimate. And seeing as women tend to be fairly selective, this is a challenging prospect in its own right. Further complicating the issue is the scenario you're putting forward. While this many not be reflect other people, if I have a partner, I reject any/every advance made on me. If she attempted to force the point, I'd end up creating a scene to avoid betraying my partner. By organising a 'affair opportunity', you're asking a strange to accept the risk of being publicly shamed (or worse). You may have more luck with a different theme. A friend of mine was surprised on his birthday. They were getting ready for 'bed', and his partner excused herself saying she needed to take care of something. When she returned, there were two women and both were naked. His questions about 'wtf' were shushed as they took care of business. By avoiding answering any questions, and just silently carrying on with things, it left everything open as a possibility... and not knowing what could happen next added to the excitement. My own threesomes worked out in a less dramatic / surprising manner. The first was a mutual friend who asked partner (in private) if she could join us. My girlfriend's excitement about the prospect when she asked me left no room for concerns. Due to having a taste for threesomes, I spoke to my friends about their views, and (surprisingly) quickly found a woman that would be receptive to an offer. She said 'yes'. It was a few days later that I asked my partner if she was curious (a different partner to the first example). She was innocent enough to think that I was joking. She simply would not believe me and it was played off as a joke. The next time we were hanging out as a group, I said, directed to the friend, 'my partner doesn't believe me about the threesome'... and my partner spat her drink out in surprise. Suffice to say, we ended up forming something of a three-person relationship for about a year. Sometimes it's about opportunity and knowing people well enough to be confident that a move won't end in disaster. As an example, I was in a spa with two girls on either side of me; one was my partner. It takes a certain type of courage to discretely slide your pants down, grab a hand on either side, and casually direct both towards your cock. They both seemed interested in proceeding, and when their hands met... there's was this brief pause, they lent forward to look at each other (for one of glances where a complicated discussion happens in a moment), my partner rolled her eyes as though to say 'boys will be boys', and off we went. My third partner, in my university years, was a feisty woman who came easily and loved cumming often. Our record was 23 times in a night. Our agreement was that she would find women to share out bed (rather than me). And, who am I to argue..? My current partner is interested in threesomes, but not just yet. She's happy for me to play on my own until she's ready to join in, and it's up to me to find someone; which is much harder when you're beyond the 'hanging out with friends daily' phase of your life. I've found that finding play partners is very challenging if you're looking online. You'd think that it'd be much easier to match people's interests because of the number of people in the 'catalogue'. However, it's common for people to be dismissing of anything that doesn't perfectly match their needs/interests. When you've got someone in front of you saying 'how about a threesome' the choice is 'have a threesome with them' or 'don't have a threesome'. It's a decision about an activity rather than (in relation to online dating) a comparison between one person and a catalogue of possibilities... and there's most definitely someone better in that list. If your social circle is refined enough that approaching one of your friends isn't an option, you may find more luck going to some of the kink friendly / swinger clubs. Go solo with the intention of making connections with people who fit your needs. This gives the women you meet the time/opportunity to learn who you are, alleviating any concerns they might (otherwise) have about your offer.

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