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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Then....talk some more! There's no right answer as everyones relationship is different. Not sure the timing is great, but make sure you tell him clearly how you feel, and make sure you are aware how he feels. If you both agree to explore then it's a whole lot of fun :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Communication is key. Going through this myself in the past you have to be both open about your feelings. Setting some rules and guidelines also helps. But please talk. If you're not on the same page it can go horribly wrong. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  He wants the same, he's just too nervous to say it. Talk to him! ! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Timing couldn't be better. Talk to him definitely and soon. Agree with all the above comments, he has probably been worried about hurting your feelings or damaging your relationship but if he knows for sure you're really ready for it, and if I were you, I'd let him know that the urge is now very strong and you want to act on it, best to be honest. As far as timing, with you going away, it might just be the space he needs to test the waters at his end, and you might be afforded the freedom to do the same while you're away, bingo! Happy days

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I'd wait until after the trip before you start exploring....if he's nervous and you aren't there to talk to in the flesh everything could go belly up. Then when you get back perhaps go to a swingers club together? They're really not intidmidating and you'll see there are many normal people out there doing the same. If that's too much, perhaps attend a meet and greet together and talk to others who've been in your shoes?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I would find a female partner to play with, have him watch....and the next time tell him to come join you. Ease him into it, work your way up to playing with a couple and reassure him that's it's ok for him to play with the other woman.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  if he loves you...he should love you for ALL that you are...and that should include your desires and fantasies...your wants and needs... like many said it before...communication is the key...we only have one life..we should all be allowed to live it to the fullest...

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  That's a positive and I like it... Talk is fine but it can get to a point where the same talk becomes a drone in a already frustrating situation... No one goes anywhere without someone acting on it . Follow Badkittens advice and see if you can go forward from there.. Jay..

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