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Keeping it hard

November 13 2016

Of course, part of everyday sex is the male getting it hard for the task. Some get it hard and stay hard with no troubles. Some use viagra. Some get hard and then a constant struggle of keeping it in a cycle of hard then soft then sort of hard. It can vary from one to the other. Can get a bit frustrating for those of us at the pointy end of the job. We wonder wether its us not doing a good job, not attractive enough....the list goes on. But hard as we try to help improve the situation, the softer it can go. So my question is what works best for you? It it viagra or a mind thing. Living a fantasy in your mind? What? Dont me shy. Its a natural process but im sure all you guys have your reliable method. And do you have a set circumstance that can deflate things? Shyness, forwardness of partner, group shyness? Spill. You are amongst like minded people here. Annie xx

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RHP User

8 years ago

I'm a sexual animal and I cannot lie.... My dick goes hard as the days go by, One, Two, Maybe more, I'm just can't wait, To jab another whore!!! lol sorry I couldn't help it....the words just launched out like a fucken champion without any real thought.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Grrrr fuck autocorrect - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

For me, I found that drinking is NOT the way to keep it up. So i keep that in mind. And years ago, I learned that confidence in myself is a winner. I had a partner at the time whom I was supremely comfortable with, so I had no doubts in myself. I was exercising regularly...not heavily...at the time too. I think that helps.

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boobsandbusted

8 years ago

Booze deffinately is a hard on killer for me ,actually it a brain killer that leads to my dicks attitude of can't be bothered ,lol.certain positions are way more stimulating whether it be visual or friction ,tried a few pills over time for shots and giggles , all but one gave me such a freakin headache wasn't worth it cos who the hell wants a root with a mind spitting head ache ,only pill I have tried id say was any success. And no head ache ,but is a wallet depleter is one from sexy land called meltz,at 25 for two ,only 1 is needed ,and it's only a 10 minute wait for it to kick in once desolved under the tongue ,,then it's good for 3 days with only a slight thought of any sexy and boing up it goes ,but to hold it up brain stimulation is still required ,not like you can fall sleep and it still rock hard ,now that pill would be nice ,lmao Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I had a young guy who took a while but it was nerves. He was fine afterwards though. Apart from medical issues I think if you have a connection there shouldnt be any problems. Ive been with guys who seem to become superfuelled after a few drinks....:) ...so it affects people in different ways.

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RHP User

8 years ago

As my profile suggests i'm always hard, like right now writing this. Lol. The couple of times it hasn't worked as the little guy should was down to stress from work. Then the next time you need to use it you start thinking god i hope it works today, There is the death nail. You just need to relax all the time and it all works good. Mind you i don't know how my lovely partner would cope if it was hard all the time for her enjoyment. He he.

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RHP User

8 years ago

are a killer for me. I like people that are enjoying themselves. So long as she is enjoying herself and my ministrations, then its all good for me.

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RHP User

8 years ago

I find that sometimes on a first meeting it can take a while to get hard but once comfortable I can definitely do repeat meets ok.My ex wife had an amazing bod for a woman in her late 50s and I only had to look at her nude and I was a walking hard on , problem is even though she loved sex didn't want to fuck more than once a month just downright lazy.I think someone has to be seen as attractive to look at to achieve and maintain a hard on. I just couldn't be motivated with someone who for instance was massively overweight

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langton11

8 years ago

For me, it goes up and stays up even well after the event/s. Alcohol, for me, has no effect at all other than delaying orgasm even further and being an aphrodisiac; so much so that my wife tries do make sure I don't drink much now, she's over it lol

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tall60

8 years ago

My main hardener is being into the woman I'm with...a mix of mental connection and the stimulation of a lithe body...if either is missing for me, things don't work.Reciprocated feelings take care of most things.

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RHP User

8 years ago

When I was swinging, it would happen (rarely) that guys would struggle to remain hard or get hard. I don't ever think it's a reflection on the person they are with but about comfortability and whatever else is going on in 'their head'. I've laid down in a crowded swingers room with someone and we've just chatted, kissed and touched to ease their nerves and to also allow them to not stress about getting hard :) I often say as a chick, I can slap some lube on and I can be ready in seconds, poor guys do have it 'hard' when it comes to erections ;) I've also never made a 'big deal' about someone not getting hard as there are so many ways to give and receive pleasure :) Mary xx

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RHP User

8 years ago

If I'm (we are) "in the moment" then recovery of hardness after orgasm is easy. If my partner disengages at that point, then not so easy to recover my poise. Alcohol seems irrelevant. - Posted from rhpmobile

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Mischeviouslad

8 years ago

Live healthy Cock healthy

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RHP User

8 years ago

I have noticed that if he's fucking me from behind and I start twerking my round ass up and down the length of his cock, or oil up my ass cheeks and slide his cock between them, that gets him worked up and harder every time 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile

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AnnieWhichway

8 years ago

At a private party playing as a guy l have taken viagra. Not a miracle drug but taken for the occasion, gave me a physiological boost to bypass any performance nerves and relax and also enjoy a fair few beverages in the social side of it. Out of desperation during one TvFM meet i gave the M a pill and it got him into the zone

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RHP User

8 years ago

Do you think it's the enticing vision of my round jiggling arse bouncing against him, or the thought that my other opening is so dangerously close it's deliciously tempting, that keeps him hard, Auntie Annie? I want to know 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Meeting him at the door with some sheer lingerie and heels on guarantees an instant hard on

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AnnieWhichway

8 years ago

I'll give you a scenario that i had last week. I was having trouble keeping him hard with foreplay/headjob. Wasn't getting anywhere. So i retreated and got on all fours ready to receive him. I knew he was soft so left him to his own devices. The view must have aroused him and he ended performing 10 out of 10 after a few tries with no input from me So maybe the submissive position. Maybe the lure of the forbidden fruit being our arsehole. Combination perhaps. I think your gorgeous arse would work on anyone. I guess that very experience was one of the reasons for this thread. The search for what goes through the males mind when in that scenario of less than perfect erectile function and then coming good and getting the job done. Auntie Annie

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Home_Eric

8 years ago

Quoting 'Hotwives_Inc' When I was swinging, it would happen (rarely) that guys would struggle to remain hard or get hard. I don't ever think it's a reflection on the person they are with but about comfortability and whatever else is going on in 'their head'. I've laid down in a crowded swingers room with someone and we've just chatted, kissed and touched to ease their nerves and to also allow them to not stress about getting hard :) I often say as a chick, I can slap some lube on and I can be ready in seconds, poor guys do have it 'hard' when it comes to erections ;) I've also never made a 'big deal' about someone not getting hard as there are so many ways to give and receive pleasure :) Mary xx Someone nominate Mary for Woman of the Year. What a great soul.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'CucknShells'going to suggest putting it in a freezer.But I am thinking that may have the opposite effect.(mmmm cold hard cock - pondering while I shake my Ice Magic) haha, actually that's not far off - I really dislike it when I'm boiling hot, I don't mind external heat, but when my core temperature soars (and your balls are frantically trying to get away and cool down) it's just incredibly unsexy (and uncomfortable) (Ice Magic sprayed with an upside down can of compressed air will do the trick - and not require asking your butcher if you can borrow their cool room for a while, no questions asked)

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RHP User

8 years ago

is being properly attracted to the person(s) you're with.Then having time to enjoy yourselves always helps too - no rushing.Nerves don't often play a part, in fact sometimes a little excited nervousness helps. When I'm over-worked, stressed, or run down, even half a tab of cialis won't guarantee performance.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Simply for me, and ever so frustrating, it's external Stress from life that kills my erection, it also seems to make me finish quicker. Kind of unfair, as all I want is a good long f#ck to release the stresses..... Grrrr Does anyone else notice this? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Definitely external stresses, overworking, and tiredness are a bit factor for myself. When I was a young whippersnapper it wasn't and issue, but now that the years have passed it takes its toll. I can't dismiss the psychological aspect though, as once it has happened it is always on your mind that it might again. Now we all know that down that path lays madness ! Sometimes though, my mind and body is after that little extra kink for stimulation. When that fetish or fantasy is what will only do !

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