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Kilo's. Does it stop you from playing??
March 13 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
The problem with carrying a few extra kilos is the impact it has on cardio fitness. Unless you change your game to suit, then you'll be well and truly shagged, wheezing for air and sweating like a pig, long before you ever used to. I think stamina is an important contribution to a healthy sex life.... I highly commend at least three spin classes a week for those of us employed in a sedentary work environment! Plus, a few extra kilos and my boss says I'm squishing her. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a bad back and if their dick is to heavy over ten kilo, well yep Cant lift it to play with it “you'll be well and truly shagged, wheezing for air and sweating like a pig, long before you ever used to.” well that’s me All they have to say is "squeal like a pig honey" and I have a deliverance moment I am so unfit I cant run out of sight on a dark night!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes I have put on a bit of weight in the past 6 months which stopped me from playing, that's right no sex for 6 mths. I just didn't feel sexy truth be told. First foray back into the sex scene had me bonking a buddy in the ocean... now that was good, I felt weightless. Want to do it again, but maybe with less people around... it's hard staying quiet you know!. Hmmm wonder when my bonking buddy is now?? xxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
No it hasn't put me off, but I think it has put off others. Sure you have to make a few adjustments to suit the conditions but I don't find it mission impossible. The partners I've been with don't seem to mind the change in style or maybe they were just to polite to say.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is like a pair of jeans without pockets....you just don't know where to put your hands. So said a facebook friend once on their wall. Oh how true. Sure being fitter helps with all those different positions but a few extra kilos never put us off. We're trying to get some fittness back by going to the gymn on a regular basis. This won't make US any more popular nor will it mean that we would exclude anyone who isn't a "gymn junkie". We're doing for our own health and wellbeing not to become more popular. There are those who will only play with the "perfect body" but they miss out on those people who are sexy on the inside even though they're carrying a few exra kilos. Sensuallity is as much a state of mind as it is looks. "Starfish" come in all sizes lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's a better view from up there.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm not as young either but hubby's still devoted to me and I still have enough admirers to buoy my ego.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Absolutely , if I feel sluggish or don't fit my clothes I in no way feel sexy , therefore do not play ! I hate feeling like that , but some years the lure of cake is too hard to resist - cake over sex ? My hubby has never once mentioned my weight OR slowed down his wandering hands , no matter if I am a size 16 or a size 10, says it is irrelevant to him! I like feeling fit and a normal heathy weight , just hate giving up the carbs for it. When I am 70 , I plan on wearing a moo moo , and eating whatever I want !!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find my libido is directly affected by my weight. I'm far from obese (size 10-12, depending on the shop) but find that even 2 kilos on starts to have an affect. I find it harder to relax and just enjoy the experience....even with Mr, who still wanted me even when I was seriously bigger. I find that missing the gym even for a week also impacts...and even if the scales don't change. Hmmm, maybe I just need to lighten up!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yeah it does affect your performence but does it stop you from playing .... NO would it stop others from playing with you MAYBE
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Yes I have put on a bit of weight in the past 6 months which stopped me from playing, that's right no sex for 6 mths. I just didn't feel sexy truth be told. First foray back into the sex scene had me bonking a buddy in the ocean... now that was good, I felt weightless. Want to do it again, but maybe with less people around... it's hard staying quiet you know!. Hmmm wonder when my bonking buddy is now?? xxMeekaHe was last seen drifting out to see with a huge smile on his face. You really must bring them back to shore, not catch and release.
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inspirit
13 years ago
though i am confident in my own skin. I know who i am and i know what i want if i feel i have to settle for less i change it not make an excuse. I am motivated by my choices and and not manipulated by others. A confident, intelligent and sensual woman will always be attractive.....I know i am not as fit as i would like to be, though i don't let that bother me. If i did i would never have sex and fuk that. On the other hand if you're asking if i think some one has put on a few extra kilos's do i still want to fuk them....Hell yes!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have alway been confident in my own skin, when I came back to "seriously" play on RHP, I decided to go on a health kick, for a few different reasons, now that I reached my goal I can't look back, I feel healthier, fitter and "sexier" *grin* Just to clarify, the extra kg's I carried did not stop me, and now I'm even more "unstoppable" lol Re extra kgs on partners, I don't see it as an issue, if a person has the right "attitude" I will find them sexy and attractive as a size 6 or 12 ;) - the key: when they see themselves sexy regardless of size - td&h
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RHP User
13 years ago
Extra kgs does not effect me at all. It does not slow my playing down one iota. I do not get all wheezy and out of breath and still have the stamina to keep going with a man nearly half my age.I have not noticed my "cuddly" physique putting off possible playfriends. Infact it is the opposite. Maybe there is some truth to the old adage ....... "more cushion for pushin" Oh dont get me wrong...I am certainly not hugely obese by any means but I am definately not model material either.Do I get put off playing with another because of HIS size? No!If you ladies do not feel sexy because you have gained a few extra kilo's...maybe it is the man you are with who is not making you feel that way.I feel incerdibly sexy, confident and outgoing."Aint nothing gonna break my stride"
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RHP User
13 years ago
I still feel sexy...but when it comes down to climbing on top and bouncing up and down, that is when I can notice the lack of exercise has made this position very hard going, squatting with leg muscles that haven't been exercised regularly is a killer...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get and enjoy it more when I'm at my biggest.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My profile states I have a little extra padding and that has never stopped me playing. As long as you are comfortable in your own skin does it really matter. If someone is that put off by a couple of extra kilos why bother even getting in contact with the person in the first place
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playfulminx
13 years ago
Even a kilo extra or a case of the bloats makes me feel unsexy. Sad, stupid, but true :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
My "playtime" is a very physical thing for me. So baygirl I absolutely want to see a fit defined body sweating under me while I bounce to my athletic hearts content.;) Being fit means that I can go for ages *drool* ..and my abs mean that I can use them to stablise myself whilst mouth and both hands can be busy pleasuring instead of holding me up:) So I love what having a fit body enables me to enjoy and give more pleasure. And hell yes I feel sexier when my bits don't wobble;) Minxy (moooo)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't mind if my play partner is skinny or more cuddlesome.As it says in my profile i'm fat, I'm honest and upfront about itdoes it make some positions more challenging.. yes..do I get breathless and wheezy, no thats what change of positions of sipping a drinkis for, a small recouperation.My play partner is happy she can now pin me to the bed and ride me into the sunrisealthough I prefer to switch it up a bit with positional changes.I guess it depends on your mental outlook (self concious)your imagination and problem solving skills (adapting to new positions)and the fact that not all people are shallow enough to see it as an obsticle.dont get me wrong.. we all have our own preferences, types and idiosyncracies.I AM losing the weight, it takes time and effort and i'm honest enough to put whatI am on my profile - although it seems some ppl here don't actually read profilesor don't believe them.I turned up for a coffee meet with a lady, who when i sat down saidyou are a fucking fat bastard aren't you, got up and walked off.her loss, not mine I still enjoyed the coffeeand yes i know theres good and bad in everyone.. but seriouslywe're all basically the same inside, if some peoples skins are wrapped a bit tighter or looserit doesnt change what the present inside is.My 2c
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'miss_cb' I get and enjoy it more when I'm at my biggest. I have to say that i enjoy playing with a lady that is on the big side a lot more than a very slim lady. I like the look and feel soo much more
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RHP User
13 years ago
No I am 46 I know if I go over a certain weight -around 84/85 I start getting lethargic, unfit and lose libido... I use that weight as a alarm bell to get off my arse and start hitting the track and lay off the beer :)
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MegaSin
13 years ago
Gotta Love a fit sexy body, but I also love a few curves and a little meat on a lady too.Something to give a little slap and squeeze during some sweaty sexy times.MsMinz3 has a gorgeous body!!! Love to touch and slap her sexy bum!!! Yumm
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N4November
13 years ago
Quoting 'MegaSin' Gotta Love a fit sexy body, but I also love a few curves and a little meat on a lady too.Something to give a little slap and squeeze during some sweaty sexy times.MsMinz3 has a gorgeous body!!! Love to touch and slap her sexy bum!!! Yumm
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alwayswet2011
13 years ago
Whilst I prefer a hot toned body, I am not at that place myself! I won't let it dampen my parade though and and as long as the person is into me, I'll still let go and have a freaking awesome time
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