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Knowing your straight but enjoying the intimate moments with the same sex

September 21 2009

Men and Woman please let me know your experiences. I personally know what i want in love and life and that is a female partner there soft touch and breasts and general soft caring nature is hard to pass up!!. But when it comes to sex and only in sex have i lately been exploring the same sex i usually dont play with just men as i always prefer a woman there to make it more sexy and sensual.I want to know is there others out there with similiar experiences they know they enjoy the sex part with men but know they prefer woman and know there not gay.. Is there a name for the type of behaviour other than bisexual as i know i could never partner a man i dont like kissing them etc and my fantasies always have woman in them but when im in a situation where sex with a man has come up during the sex i can still be turned on but only in that situation knowing that it is sex only.Is what i have said stupid or am i just insecure about something i shouldnt be!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    why do you feel that you need a label, Perthsaint? You like what you like, embrace it, get on with it, maybe it's even a stage, maybe it's something you'll enjoy forever... our sexuality is much more than a single label.   P.S. though... you're not straight. Don't be insecure about it, happens to the best of us baby lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Awww Sainty as me said to ya last night babes ya is normal, ya is just bicurious and experimenting a little, though me is still sulking me was not there *sighs*. Now get under the blankies and and play wiv me boobies so ya feel better.  .   xxHoney Smacksxx << pokes Gaz wiv da ruler...psst say sumfin.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hehe... Ive been busy today Miss HOney... work and stuff....   Anyway. none of us need labels for our sexuality mate. My dick knows what it likes and behaves accordingly. There's no amount of thinking will change that... so I love women that's for sure, there's no doubt.... I'm married to one... but my dick is not so discerning.... and a bit of man play is always fun. So what. I'm not gay that's for sure. Being gay means having a preference for sex with the same gender. My preference is obvious... my dick doesnt give a fuck what gender you are.. if your hot, it will fuck you. Seems my cock likes to keep things simple. It's got a small brain I guess. What more can I say.   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ha Ha Ha!! Thanks Gazza making lots of sense as its exactly how i feel my dick chooses and points and says yep ill have a bit of you annnd arrgghh wait a minute can you leave the fat bald one with smelly breathe yeh him, leave him there and Ninja Smacks ill have you!!.. There we have it my Dick Has Spoken..I wasnt looking for  label i think more of a "its ok your not the only one" as afterwards sometimes i feel like i may have made a bad choice.. Thanks for responding folks love reading all your posts!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    yeah your normal, feel better? :) when it comes to labels u r bisexual, could use other words like experimental, adventurous or even awesome! hehe i think u r still straight, no what u said isnt stupid... we all hav insecurities some have less than others, some ppl r worried about their tummy, size of their cock, etc etc guys r more and more open to bisexuality these days, its been even fashionable for women to b bi! reverse your story around and thats me, i know im straight but if some1 needs to label me than i am bi, i like to play with the same sex, i dont hav insecurities about that tho, and i realise it is more accepted for a woman, i know guys like u, sexy guys that hav no probs pickin up chics.. its each to their own and our own personal sexual journey, dont stress about it and hav fun and forget the ppl that judge, cause they r judgin every1 not just a guy that is experimentin in what turns him on... smakxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Now is that a threat or a promise Sainty?  ner ner gotta catch me first.   Wiggles   xxMiss Honeyxx  <

  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    15 years ago

    Hey there Sexual Deviants........Isn't the new buzz word for people that can't put themselves into a catagory.....to describe them...........as just being " sexual people "......?   Sexual......sounds so much nicer than labels !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hehe.. you're the man, Perthsaint. If you can follow your libido around without hangups you really are going to enjoy a sensational love life.    Hugs GAz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I am liking Perthsaint!!!!  Go babe!..Always have fun exploring..mwa...... Now when is my turn to try MMF bi?????  sob sob.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    This is what we have decided in our home.....................a sexy person is a sexy person be them male or female.I am bi for all intents and purposes I suppose but again, not very keen on labels. I like what I like and that is that.Andy and I have played with couples and singles and I have not always been into the female enough to do more than just kiss and have a bit of a fondle, other times there has been nothing sexier than going down on woman. There is sometimes this perception that because some one says they like to play with the same sex, they are automatically attracted to everyone of the same sex. Just not true.I know I am lucky in the sense it is more socially acceptable for women, I have a male friend that thinks all women are bi! Just because to girl friends share a party pash in the middle of a club dance floor, it does not make them bi......usually makes them a tease!!!!!!! Hehe.x Sal