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LADY BOYS....

January 18 2013

WIKIPEDA MEANINGKathoey or katoey is a Thai term that refers to a transgender or an effeminate gay male inThailand. While a significant number of Thais perceive kathoeys as belonging to a third gender, including many kathoeys themselves, others see them as either a kind of man or a kind of woman...I just watched a documentary called "lady boy"..It's about two men (one from AUS and the UK) and how each one perceive their relationship with a Thai LadyBoy..The first man had been with his partner for two years and described his partner has having a larger clit and are about to get married The second man described his partner having a penis - together for 3 weeks.Both men mentioned they have anal sex and they have the best of both worlds...I have been to Thailand and meet many 'LadyBoys' on my travels (fantastic people)..Their lifestyle and what gender they are is not an issue for me however I would not have sexual relations with one...Being honest here...I love my man to be a mans man!! beefy, strong arms etc etc..GOT ME THINKING.................. My question is:** FOR MENA) Would you ever be with a women knowing they were born with a penis, knowing that when they reached puberty become a women AKA Lady boy?? (lol a real one not a strap on)B) Do you think it's having the best of both worlds???** FOR WOMENA) would you ever be with a man knowing they were born with a penis and dress like a women?B) Do you think it's having the best of both worlds having a partner ??

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Don't understand your question to the woman. Would I be with a X dresser? Or are you saying a man that was originally born as a woman? The answer is yes I would. Now would I have sexual relations with a woman who had been born a man? Yep 😊

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Don't understand your question to the woman. Would I be with a X dresser? Or are you saying a man that was originally born as a woman? The answer is yes I would. Now would I have sexual relations with a woman who had been born a man? Yep 😊

  • Lifes_great

    Lifes_great

    12 years ago

    For me it's a no. I enjoy your (the female genders') sporting equipment way too much. Although there are some extremely attractive Lady Boys, sexually I'll keep chasing the monkey muffin

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    watched the same show...and while we found it a little intriguing, and interesting, we agreed that its not somewhere either of us could go.... for a number of reasons....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ...and as I've already found my soulmate, I'm not in the market for a new partner so I don't know how I'd feel. I can tell you that I have an online friendship with a lady who was born a man and I find it difficult to think of her as anything but a lady.   Well, to be honest, she often doesn't behave very 'ladylike' (she's more like a cheeky trollop at times ) but she is definitely not a man.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Ide have a go, i mean u gotta experiment hey :-P- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    to the person then I don't really care ,I care about who they are as a person.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    I try very hard to concentrate for the questions you ask. The challenge I face whilst in your presence, is an all consuming image of this mysterious woman gallivanting to her worldly travels, wearing nothing other than a red cape, a bikini or part off, belly bling and a pair of stilettos.I can go as far to expand my visions to consider the scenario where I were with Tara, helpless to her distress with a lightly sprained ankle, or a broken nail, for the matter. This mysterious woman appears like a flash, attending her dilemma.At no point can I visualize the thought of either having a penis.Left as things are for my ignorance, I guess that would entertain the best of both worlds having a partner.Mado

  • smo669

    smo669

    12 years ago

    I once had a glorious hot sexy evening with a wonderful post op t-girl, delicious delectable fun. And when I'm next in Thailand I'd be very tempted

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    yes to both as long as they are been safe throughout their life

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' I try very hard to concentrate for the questions you ask. The challenge I face whilst in your presence, is an all consuming image of this mysterious woman gallivanting to her worldly travels, wearing nothing other than a red cape, a bikini or part off, belly bling and a pair of stilettos.I can go as far to expand my visions to consider the scenario where I were with Tara, helpless to her distress with a lightly sprained ankle, or a broken nail, for the matter. This mysterious woman appears like a flash, attending her dilemma.At no point can I visualize the thought of either having a penis.Left as things are for my ignorance, I guess that would entertain the best of both worlds having a partner.Mado Talk about DE-JAVU...I love your posts Mado....they make me smile... Yours Truely...SUPERFOX (also known as SILVERFOX) TO THE RESCUE!! PS- Whilst I was there on my travels I DID NOT burn down a house!!

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    Have been to thailand. Have seen the ladyboys. Just did nothing for me. Each to their own

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'smo669' I once had a glorious hot sexy evening with a wonderful post op t-girl, delicious delectable fun. And when I'm next in Thailand I'd be very tempted Believe you me..once in Thailand the choice will be yours..absolute stunner's - YOU WON'T BE DISAPPOINTED!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Fascinating to look at. you just have to look at the amount of people who stop and stare.. Not my thing, but Im sure they must get their share of attention..

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I agree, some absolute stunners with both lady boys and bar girls... If thats what rocks your boat' Im sure you wont be disappointed... Best holiday I had ever... 2 girlfriends' a air hostess and receptionist.. both fantastic ..

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    While holidaying in Pattaya, I went to a Lady Boy Cabaret.. I certainly was captivated by their beauty. They are gorgeous and while i am with my soul mate, if i had been single.. I would certainly have thought about giving one a try. :P

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ...but please be safe.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Although I would never pass judgement on anyones kink, I am struggling to find why these men would want to find a ladyboy for a life partner, or even have sex with them, if they are fully hot blooded straight men? Surely if there's going to be an erect penis out there in all it's glory while you are doing the deed, then you must be at least bi-curious. Do the men indulge these 'ladies' in receptive oral sex? Or give them handjobs as part of foreplay? If not they'd be missing out on alot of pleasure wouldn't they? Or do they play with themselves while the bloke is doing other things? So many questions sheesh, off to check out some ladyboy porn. I agree some are nice looking but... she has a penis for god sake...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Saskia72' Although I would never pass judgement on anyones kink, I am struggling to find why these men would want to find a ladyboy for a life partner, or even have sex with them, if they are fully hot blooded straight men? Surely if there's going to be an erect penis out there in all it's glory while you are doing the deed, then you must be at least bi-curious. Do the men indulge these 'ladies' in receptive oral sex? Or give them handjobs as part of foreplay? If not they'd be missing out on alot of pleasure wouldn't they? Or do they play with themselves while the bloke is doing other things? So many questions sheesh, off to check out some ladyboy porn. I agree some are nice looking but... she has a penis for god sake... It was an eye opener for sure!! so many questions I want to ask...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    If you had a penis, I'd still wanna fuck you.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Thanks darling, but would you suck it and/or give me a handjob??

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Let's see now. I would... ...stick it in Jennylee.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Very good answer... Haven't stopped chuckiling on the inside since reading it. Have been googling Ladyboy penises/ micro penises, very interesting.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think I need to start watching tv, what channel and times ??

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I have seen lots of ladyboys in Thailand (and in the Pacific Islands where it's very common and socially acceptable too), and some are beautifully turned out, almost delectable. Would I be with one? I hadn't given it serious thought before, but yes. I'm more attracted to the individual than the gender. I'm also friends with a couple who are very much in love. They were a lesbian couple, then one went through the change to become a man, and they married. What was astonishing was how little changed, for them and for their friends. They were just wonderful people who were head over heels with each other, and still are :) MsKinkster x

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ABC if you have FOXTEL...It was on last night- Posted from rhpmobile

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    12 years ago

    BUT to me the thing that I love about a woman is the taste and the smell of a vagina.   Once ladyboys can replicate that, I'm in!!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Kiss me, Kathoey.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It really depends on people's sexuality, and what turns them on. If i may elaborate... Personally, I'd classify myself as bisexual/pansexual. I'm very attracted to women - I love their smell, their look, their taste, everything about them (and I've definitely found a keeper in Ms Kinkster!). But there are things that I sexually enjoy with men in the right setting, and to be blunt it's largely (lol!) between their legs. I wouldn't go as far to say that I'm a 'true' bisexual, simply because I don't ogle other guys walking down the street, the idea of kissing another guy doesn't really do anything for me, and I've never wanted a relationship with another male. But the idea of going down on another guy with MsK just really turns me (and MsK) on. Not to mention the other fantasies we have involving other guys! That is why I'd describe myself as bi/pansexual. There are aspects of men that I find attractive... So, for me -> Very attracted to women, love everything about the female form... If she's effeminate, but then happens to have the equipment that pretty much every bi/bi curious/experimental guy on here likes..... Well, how do I put this...... hell yes!!!! Mr Kinkster.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I really don't think that what you are describing is 'pansexuality'.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903'I really don't think that what you are describing is 'pansexuality'. ... I think if we're defining sexuality by the people you can be sexually attracted to (ie wanting to have sex with) then we have heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality (yep, it's all about the prefix). So I'd take 'pan' sexual to mean being sexually attracted to people of all genders - transgender, male, female, etc. That's the way I see it - just because I don't want to be in relationship with a man, doesn't mean I don't thoroughly enjoy playing with them... Transexuals I can find very attractive, and I love the idea of playing with them - but as I'm yet to explore them do I then have to classify myself as trans-curious...?   But I do have to say, I take your point. I wouldn't classify myself as a 'pure' bisexual or pansexual - especially when there are aspects of men that I'm not attracted to, when there are people who find everything about all genders attractive. But on the sliding scale of sexuality, that's just the best category I could really put myself in - particularly when we are on a sex site, rather than a dating site... all genders get a yes from me!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    This Friday night...ABC2 8.30pm... For those who wish to watch...- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ABC iview. Online.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think the easiest way to desribe it is Im attracted to the person.Their sex (and I mean it in the physical sense) or their gender or non gender does not come into the equation. It is the person that I would fall for and not be bothered slightly that it doesnt fit what is supposedly normal for society.   Saskia. It is entirely possible for straight men to fall for trans girls and not be confused about their heterosexuality. Ive met quite a few girls who have heterosexual partners and myself have been with a few guys that classify themselves completely straight.   And lastly Fox. When are you going over. Feel like some company. You, me and a ladyboy or two

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Mr Kinkstersinc - your descriptions and honesty are refreshing, and enlightening, particularly to someone who shares some of your thoughts on how the world of arousal works.Thank you!As to the question at hand... I think I'd find it too unsettling for a 1:1 - not because I'm closed minded, ultra-straight or not curious, but because I don't think my brain would cope with the cognitive dissonance: the 'little surprise' would throw my mind into a spin of trying to reconcile the femininity with the token of masculinity. I don't like sweet and sour food, for the same reason.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Hahaha, sweet and sour. Mmmm yummy, one of my favourites.   So the last instalment of 'Ladyboys' was about having the full SRS (Sexual reassignment surgery) I really felt for the older woman Brenda, I can't imagine living 62 years and not being able to be myself around others, so happy she has the opportunity to now spread her wings and fly.   Puzzling to me is Paeng and Scott (engaged to soon be married) She has decided she will not go and have the surgery and he supports her in this, I can see their point of view, that the small risk that she may never orgasm or cum again is not worth it, I just love how when he explains this he says "I know, I know it sounds like I love cock, but no... it's not like that." Lol.   Then you have the beautiful and vivacious American 'Moka' who has decided that she will not have gender reassignment because it defeats the purpose of her sexuality - 'If a man wanted me with a vagina, he could just go get a woman, with me the attraction is I have a cock, there is no competition, someone will love me for me.' I found this so enlightening, that she is happy being herself and confident in her own skin... Wow, what a woman!!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It was truly an amazing show... It really was fantastic to see the Ladyboys open right up and welcome viewers into their world...an unknown world. Each character described their own self completly different to others. At the end of the day they are people just like us.. To see two people in love (Paeng and Scott) and acceptance was awesome. I really enjoyed this show. SuperFox- Posted from rhpmobile