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LOVE it & LOATHE it!

May 17 2013

I wondered what people love and loathe the most about the forums? The thing I love most about the forums is the variety of opinions which have me exploring and wondering and sometimes wanting to change what I said before! The thing I loathe the most is when an individual opinion that isn't aimed at anyone in particular is singled out and flamed by the majority. A spur of the moment thread from me as is my usual way lol... which hopefully, I won't be flamed for. PeachyPier

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...from reading the Forums ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...I didn't realise you were 100 years old ! GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    LOVE:   - Some of the new things we learn from some of the more kinky contributors to the forums. - The threads that turn into series of hysterical one liners that keep us quite amused. - Hearing a range of perspectives on different issues, some of which we hadn't considered before.   LOATHE:   - The number of contributors who answer an OP question, without properly reading said question. - Bullying. - The sucking up of particular contributors to other members of the forums, in an effort to increase their chances of a root. - The contributors who believe they are very knowledgeable and become very opinionated, but who in fact are very ignorant. - the people who write their opinions like this and never use punctuation and do it like one single massive sentence and when I read it I feel like im going to run out of breath and it just goes on and on and half the time I cant make any sense of what their writing and it jumps from one thing to another oh by the way I really like donuts and then just when you understand what theyre saying they completely contradict what theyve already said and sumtimes they faget about speling and then they strt 2 do txt wrtng nd it cmplty drves me 2 the nuthouse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi my name is Foxy and I am a Forum addict...I am addicted to my daily laughs too and I admit the people I have meet are too dam awesome!I can't wait to meet more in the future.FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    nothing to loath as if you dont take it seriously its better its like a fairytale, the villains the hero the joker..that would be me   it does what its meant to do inform and entertain us   thats about it for me and ohh yes I get lots of sex as men contact me to say..I like your mind you dirty girl

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    lovetheforimsandpissingoffthegrammarpolice. Iactuallyhavenothingtocomplainabout.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit'lovetheforimsandpissingoffthegrammarpolice. Iactuallyhavenothingtocomplainabout. werenotactuallygrammarpolicejustcadetsandjustfortherecordyouused2fullstopsandtheyarepunctuationhahahawestilllikedonuts

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Love: Learning things I didn't know Raising awareness about serious issues, like domestic violence or STDs Hearing other people's views on subjects, and having my own opinions challenged Having a great laugh Tonguecramps' post The support members give each other Loathe: Disrespect Ganging up on forum posters Naming and shaming/outing members People acting like profets, trying to force their gospel on others Thread hijackers Snide comments Continuous complaining about everything the male members do wrong

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And loathe it when RHP mucks up my paragraphs or font. But I love the Forum mods, really I do.

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    I love coming on the Forums to post threads and make comments, because I love reading different opinions and learning from people's experiences, knowledge and wisdom about sex and life But I loathe it when someone:1) Doesn't read an OP's (especially mine) thread properly to understand the question asked before commenting;2) Reads the thread, understands the question(s), but cannot be objective or rational and takes it personally and starts attacking the OP with abusive comments/words/names called;3) Might be in a bad mood and use a random thread to take their anger and frustration out on the OP; and4) Makes comment that is totally irrelevant to an OP's thread and question(s)

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'TongueCramps' Quoting 'inspirit'lovetheforimsandpissingoffthegrammarpolice. Iactuallyhavenothingtocomplainabout. werenotactuallygrammarpolicejustcadetsandjustfortherecordyouused2fullstopsandtheyarepunctuationhahahawestilllikedonuts ucancrampyourtongueonmeanyday

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit'lovetheforimsandpissingoffthegrammarpolice. Iactuallyhavenothingtocomplainabout. And when on this shit lap top , spell check every bloody post is not an option. yeah I cant spell and where the hell is my fullstopandapostropieandhowdoyouspellwank?   sorry to all the english teachers who hate us to mangle the words

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    bit on the snide comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't like that I have to censor everything I say because some people are very sensitive.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    fuck em!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Love the forums for it being a great time waster, and an opportunity to have a social life given my job. Loathe the forums as having a differing opinion and going against the grain deems us to be rude, abrasive, insensitive or the like.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Love the diversity. Love the humour. Love the information. Loathe the way things can be taken out of context. Loathe that questions posted out of a genuine need of 'advice'/opinion/guidance sometimes be belittled. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Old before my time MrGreen :-D... and minimises being found via search. Kinda wished I'd thought to add laughs to my OP now... I have to admit TongueCramps, I'm a total fail at reading the OP properly a lot of the time. I even answered a post with something they'd written in their OP the other day and that was after a word search to make sure I wasn't doubling up lol. Good post, ta! Love that you love that Foxy! Glad to see you're feeling better about the forums these days Tuscan. Good grief Inspirit, your post was harder to read than some of the epics we get... but some of that might have to do with your spelling. Hehe, MrsPolice Spelling, not grammar!!! I agree with your post in general Ms_D, TY. Whether my interpretation of what you mean on some of your loves/loathes is the same as yours remains to be seen though. Different views is just another one of my loves/loathes of the forums. I've been having some real issues with formatting lately too. so many of my posts aren't arriving looking the same as when I posted them. I wondered if it was my browser (which I tested last night and no it's not) or something to do with the site, I don't think the moderaters have anything to do with it though. What Inspirit said Meeka. 'Cept I'm wondering if these are the type of people you'd wanna be fucking! Loooove perving on the pics though I miss out on the hot one's these days because I'm not a paying member anymore, but then again, for one reason or another, there ain't so many as there used to be anyway. Love the range of stylis pics I can still see.Love it when we have a wide variety people posting and the forums are turning over regularly, they've been a bit slow lately and it does get a bit of an inbred feel when we're hearing from the same people so much of the time. Love the pretty colours!Love that the spelling and grammar police don't seem to be so prevalent these days! Loathe the double standards and hypocrisy and the mind reading about what people are really saying/meaning which I admit I can be as guilty of as anyone else. Loathe the backbiting and bitching behind the scenes where one thing is said there and another here. Love the fact that I get the chance to express that here where everybody can see what I have to say.Loathe that my formatting is getting more awry by the day... like I don't have enough problems with my own typos!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I love,nothing I loathe,just lots to like or find boring

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Love: You Deb.Loathe: Ambiguous Posts, Vanilla Judgement, Erroneous Data, Grovelers...

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    12 years ago

    Love the forums - the variety of topics from dirty filthy topics, to very sexy, very naughty, silly, serious n friendly! What I loathe - negative ppl!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I just love a good boring Freya!!! Thanks Cheeky (Mr or Mrs?), you provide an excellent variety of topics yourself!

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    12 years ago

    Thanks peachy - it's usually mrs cheeky S xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Occasionally I am a little vulgar just to shake it up a bit - I still hold back though. Overall I find the forums to be more on the conservative side these days. When I first joined 3 years ago there were a number of very colorful characters which made the forums lots of fun for me. Now there are still a few standouts but no one as naughty. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ I also have a short attention span so I rarely read the long posts.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I enjoy the learning, the alternate views, having my mind expanded.   As for loathing.......afraid a forum couldn't move me to that emotion.   i just don't take it that seriously.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The differing of opinions, the trolls, (been known to feed a few if em), how things go off at a tangent and some people take themselves way too seriously LOATHE Thst people do take it all so serious that they get topics closed down for no reason at all, dragging the forum police in when often none is needed.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Being hammered when I post something stupid......... It's been awhile, so I'll have to find somewhere inappropriate to post 😋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'I don't like that I have to censor everything I say because some people are very sensitive. You censor stuff?!!!! Shit, the uncensored versions would be interesting! lol

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    12 years ago

    Love - the openness and revelation that we're not alone... Love - the way this place can totally distract me from boring real life stuff...   Loathe - The way this place can totally distract me from boring real life stuff...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh wow Tony! It was lovely that your post was the first thing I saw on RHP today, thank you! I love all of your post! Deb Naw Mrs Cheeky (today), you n the Mr are a couple of my favourite posters for your attitudes and what you bring to the forums! Love your pics too. Deb Yep Meeka, I predicted the approaching conservatism some time ago. I love that there seems to be less poster bashing lately but do miss some characters who were too good for this place. SassyMiss who was known by another name when she used to post is a standout, I've been thinking about her a lot lately. Naughty is the type of fun I can magine people missing in the forums. Lots of short attention spans on RHP lol, I'll scan over longer posts to see if I want to go into them deeper. Short attention span here too but will put in more effort if my interest is engaged. I love a lot of your stuff, some of it I loathe. I'm sure that goes both ways, well I'd like to think so. I love the alternate viewpoints in the forum Karynb and must make another admission that I take all aspects of life seriously, though there is a joker in my character that I'm working on encouraging again lol. It's just that she gets me into so much trouble but then there doesn't seem to be a part of my character that doesn't. Meh, it's all about opinions Handmaiden. I loathe trolls, they don't make sense to me, and people and their feelings aren't toys. What is a troll anyway really? (yet another thread I've considered there) Just another judgement call a lot of the time... and now we're back where we started... It's all about opinions! LOL Funlover, I'm sure you just missed the perfect opportunity!!! Hahahaha Paradisepair... and there you have just summed up the forums! I laugh at the ridickularity in the forums a lot of the time. I laugh with the posters who are here to have fun WITH other posters, not at their expense.I love to see posters who have the gumption to stand up against the bullying!I loathe how posters can take opposing opinions as an invitation to war.I loathe the regular closed mindedness of so many posters who profess to be open-minded.I loathe that I'm missing a few of my favourite posters lately, MIA after too many dramas I think, and hope they return soon with a dose of their honesty, fairness and caring. I loathe how posters can treat other posters in a way they would seriously object to them selves. I love how I get to vent on this thread and express my loathing while having a good laugh!Keep it coming people, I'm loving, loathing and laughing!!! PS: I saved this post in my templates and it was all looking good then, so if it goes all weird like my other post on this thread, it seems to me there's an issue in the forums.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There's a bit of colour missing in a few areas on my above post.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Handmaiden'LOATHE Thst people do take it all so serious that they get topics closed down for no reason at all, dragging the forum police in when often none is needed. Couldn't agree more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    By censor I mean things I would like to say and how I say things. Not so much about things I do. I have had a few complaints placed against me and I have been warned by the moderators more than once. So I have to be a good girl. Which I usually am. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    all the funny fuckers. Those who don't take any of this stuff too seriously and have fun with it. I love those 'spit the coffee over the keyboard moments'! And I love how the forums are more interesting than the crap that's on TV. Loathe anything? nup but I do wish everyone had instant posting.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some of funniest people I don't know ( if that makes sense) I enjoy their opinions, wit and no matter how many times someone uses the word come and spells it cum always makes me smile