M43
Laaaddiees and Geeennnttlmen
December 20 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get more "open minded" as i get older. Less rigid i think and a HELL of a lot more kinky. I don't think open minded means accepting anything and everything as ok or to your liking............there are plenty of things i just don't accept and don't dig.........to be fair...they are really on the dark and contraversial side mostly. Being open minded i think means at least being willing to give a new idea/concept/theory some thought.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We feel is "Having your mind open to changing providing you process the plus and the minus and reach your own conclusion" Which may not be the same as others, it dont mean more accepting of certain behavours. "A open mind....willing to process the subject without a fore gone conclusion" going both ways it has to stack up for you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To me, being open minded is to be nonjudgemental of other peoples preferences and to be receptive to new ideas and concepts.
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RHP User
13 years ago
These days, I'm more likely to get out do whatever it is that makes ME happy, more so than any other time in my life. Over the years' I've always put others ahead of myself.. Not that this stopped, but over the last few years I started to think what it is that makes ME happy and I feel this has had a positive effect on those around me. Im more of a unashamed flirt these days and love the attention I get because of thiis. Opportunities start to appear which I just cant seem to get enough of. Moral of the story is : by all means show ppl around you the respect they deserve, but dont forget yourself along the way... Since I adopted this attiitude life is great... Mr JJ
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RHP User
13 years ago
Open minded - meaning what? Heck, to most 'average' ppl just a new position might be something different nad new, not to mention perhasp oral - that is breaking new ground! Anal - get out of here, the mind just blows!Well, what I'm saying is different things to different people. With age comes experience and willingness to try new things. maybe even try more than one partner.... first not at the same time of course, then in a threesome - well that is the point I'm at, well not there yet but hopefully not far ;-) So yeah - open minded is not a state, it is a DIRECTION - if you're on the right track you are open minded.
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Moment_In_Time
13 years ago
Our minds receive millions of pieces of information every hour and if we did not immediately filter that into what was important and what was not, we would go mad. This process is usually called a paradigm. Walk out into the street and stop at the curb, then really concentrate on what you can see. Turn around and check out every little detail. Yes, there are cars on the street, but which cars? Make, model, style, colour, condition, the little scratch in the paint work of this one, or the dent in that one. What about the streetscape? Foot paths, seats, trees, plants, pavers pushed up by tree roots and rubbish that missed the bin. You have yet to consider the people, the weather, what is in the distance! Then consider that you have been ignoring your sense of touch, smell, hearing and taste! There are millions of pieces of information just there and you regularly ignore it as not important. By definition you have been closed minded. But do not get worried, because there are times when it is very important to be … focused. Think about crossing that street where you are standing. What is important at that moment are the cars that are moving, their position, direction and speed. Does it really matter the colour of the car that is barrelling down the street too fast and may kill you if you walked out? No. Your mind is applying a paradigm to filter the information you are receiving so that only what is important gets noticed. It is saving your life! How does this lead back to Rusty’s question? Being open minded means consciously recognising your own paradigms and then working hard to remove them at appropriate times. When your crossing that street I am hoping you are very closed minded, but when I walk into a job interview with you I am praying very hard for an open mind. I am told that most people will form an opinion of you within 10 seconds of the first meeting and then spend the rest of their time filtering only that information that fits the pigeon hole you have been assigned to. Imagine you run a jewellery store and are looking for staff. In walks a person with a green Mohawk and numerous visible piercings and tattoos. Would you hear and see their impressive record of sales in their job last month, or would the only thing that filers through be the police record for possession from 10 years ago? Do you really want the best sales person on your counter? Or are you only able to see a meek and obedient clone of yourself? From my experience, only someone that has walked both sides of the street (whatever that street is), or with training and practice can truly be open minded.
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inspirit
13 years ago
after a bottle bottle of champagne i am very open minded. tis the season to be merry tra la la la la
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Moment_In_Time
13 years ago
Quoting 'naughtychilli' highly educated people can often be extremely judgemental and condescending and some even dictate how they believe we should live. ... Life is a journey - the further we walk, the less we realise we know Seems like you and I know many of the same people! There are far too many bureaucrats sitting in ivory towers, making life changing decisions for people they know nothing about, based on theories written in textbooks by old fogies from other times and cultures. Ever had someone ask you "What would you do if you were Prime Minister for a day?" I would sack every Government Department Head and replace each of them with someone that has lived through the torture they have inflicted. The less "professionally trained" the better. Totally agree about the journey. I am just scared that I am approaching the point where I realise that I know so little that I do not actually exist anymore!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think, in a general kind of way, open mindedness is having the ability and willingness to recognise that all is not necessarily as one believes, and adapt accordingly, or at the very least, be accepting of others beliefs as being as valid as one's own.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You know I always just thought it meant you liked anal sex.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well Jean, we are looking forward to Anal maybe this Christmas / new years? ...yours? We love giving both of us.... and we will still respect you. Are YOU open enough?....neither of us want to risk recieving sorry, So No its not reciprocated.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT'To me, being open minded is to be nonjudgemental of other peoples preferences and to be receptive to new ideas and concepts.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'justenough' Well Jean, we are looking forward to Anal maybe this Christmas / new years? ...yours? We love giving both of us.... and we will still respect you. Are YOU open enough?....neither of us want to risk recieving sorry, So No its not reciprocated. Just give me enough notice so I can load up on some spicy Rogan Josh so we both get something out of it. xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nice retort! Now let's see if you're given the gift of silence for Christmas *smirk*
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with Mistress T. Merry Xmas Rusty! . Flirty x
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RHP User
13 years ago
JB ....Good one, no answer for that one. Have a great Christmas.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You clever, witty boy you . bahahahahaha!!!! Oh my sides ache!!!! GOLD! Damn you're good Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'justenough' Well Jean, we are looking forward to Anal maybe this Christmas / new years? ...yours? We love giving both of us.... and we will still respect you. Are YOU open enough?....neither of us want to risk recieving sorry, So No its not reciprocated. Just give me enough notice so I can load up on some spicy Rogan Josh so we both get something out of it. xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'justenough' JB ....Good one, no answer for that one. Have a great Christmas.Merry Christmas - hope whoever wished for it gets JustEnough under the tree, or wherever you prefer.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Looks like you have came up with a major improvement for the sauce bottle egnigma..... The curry filled sauce bottle.....there you go the girls above will love additional flavours on offer.........love it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
one word in your last post.. did you mean Enigma? or Enema?? Now THAT could be constued as "Open minded" *grins* caveman
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just Enough.....?? Well JB Looks like you have came up with a major improvement for the sauce bottle egnigma..... The curry filled sauce bottle.....there you go the girls above will love additional flavours on offer.........love it! Clarification please,,, THAT word, end of line one... DID you mean "Enigma?" OR "Enema?" Now, THAT could be construed as "Open Minded" Yes? *Grins* Caveman
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RHP User
13 years ago
Rogan anal? Does that come with riata?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'after a bottle bottle of champagne i am very open minded. tis the season to be merry tra la la la la the brain the brain, not the legs open after champagne my brain goes and my knees fall open if I drink
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